Am I supposed to do all the mini dungeons shit? After I went out on the map I just followed the road until I reached Margit. Took me a while to beat him, I had to learn the parry timings because it was the only way I did decent damage, but it wasn't particularly hard for Souls standards. Only after that did I start exploring the other shit. I haven't even cleared all the ruins yet and I'm already getting tired of it. Also, only a couple of bosses gave me trouble at the start, most I'm beating on the second or first try. I never thought I was particularly good so I don't know if I'm just getting overleveled from this shit. I don't grind, I even try to just run past enemies I've already killed once.