>feel alonely. >play vidya game. >made a friend online. >we hangout for a while. >we both say goodbye

>feel alonely
>play vidya game
>made a friend online
>we hangout for a while
>we both say goodbye
>didn't bother talking to him within months
>unfriended
Why is it easy to make friends but hard to maintain contact with them?

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    friendship is a two way street
    both parties need to make an effort if you want it to last
    if you didn't give a shit about talking to him, it's no wonder the friendship died.
    you want to keep a friendship? try asking him how he's doing once in a while

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      is it bad that I always do this both online and irl?
      i'm only friends with someone as long as we see each other constantly like in school or work but as soon as that's over so is our friendship basically.
      keeping contact is just such a huge chore

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don't think you were ever friends in the first place then. At least not from your perspective.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Maybe you're right.
          I love being friendly to people and once I'm outside I'm actually rather social. But I can't stand messaging people and checking up on them. I don't even do that with my own family.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Congratulations. You’ll die alone and come to Ganker for your social needs for the rest of your life. Disgustingly sad. In fact, if the internet didn’t exist, you’d find keeping in contact with friends worthwhile. Don’t you see, you allow yourself to waste your time with losers online because it’s EASY. You refuse to make friends because it’s HARD and a time commitment. Just like everything else in your life, you took the easy way out and therefore you’ll never experience a true life. What a waste.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              hard work is for suckers
              cheat to win

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Or in this case, cheat to have a pathetic meaningless life. Wow. Good strat.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Have fun staying poor.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >pathetic meaningless
                Ironically, both of those are themselves pathetic and meaningless buzzwords in the context you used.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Holy GIGACHAD

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              It also always easier to reside in that bucket of crabs and blame everyone else. Particularly if you have a snazzy infograph to throw at people when they suggest you get off your ass.

              You are definitely correct. But I'm not wrong that it's a rigged game either.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >undesirable area becomes desirable area
                >”wtf why isn’t it cheap anymore???”
                Look somewhere else. DUMBO Brookyln was cheap because nobody wanted to live there. Same as Arts District LA and Dogpatch SF. Now every upstart millennial is tripping over themselves to rent a Studio in a renovated gentrified warehouse, and prices are rising accordingly. So now it’s YOUR turn to find an undesirable shithole to make your own. There once was a time when midtown Manhattan was a slum that only poor immigrants lived in

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                This, I'm buying up all the property I can afford in Detroit, in a few years I'll be the wealthiest man alive.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              holy projection

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >didn't bother talking to him within months
    why are you surprised they wont hang around when you dont even bother talking to them? Im not always going to initiate a conversation, show some interest too retard

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    add me on steam anon.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    As someone who foolishly tried treating his online life and real life

    Everything online is not real. The friendships, relationships, online persona, etc. are all just garbage that will disappear

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >online life *as real life

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Online friends are not real friends

      There's no such thing as internet friends. You'd know this if you weren't 12.

      You. We should be friends.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That's true in real life too. Friends and even family will literally just walk out of your life as soon as they feel like they can get a better deal somewhere else. My parents have basically gone off and found a new son multiple times, because I don't give them the exact emotional responses they want. They pretend they aren't doing it, but they are.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >My parents have basically gone off and found a new son multiple times
        what? they've gone off and adopted kids or kidnapped them or what? how do you "find a new son" lol

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Sometimes it's a family friend who's lives they're suddenly more invested in than mine. Sometimes it's a dog.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You're jealous at a dog?

            With that kind of brain processes and chemicals, why would anything ever work out for you? Your hardware is clearly broken beyond repair. Literally just give up and stop caring and do whatever. I'm not telling you to have a nice day but that's a perfectly fine option. You're free now.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        The biggest blackpill to me was realizing that people don't really look for friends. They look for emotional dumping grounds and people they can use. Everyone just uses one another, we just label it friendship because it sounds nicer than the truth. Most people don't cry when a loved one or a friend dies, you're just mad because your investment into this receptable of your problems or your resource is now gone. There's nothing to be gained by chasing something as ephemeral and made-up as friends.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, I like to think I don't use people, but what am I really looking for in another person? Novelty, amusement, ego gratification, maybe sexual gratification.
          Probably doesn't matter, as long as you aren't a cunt about it.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >anon on Ganker
          >has an absurdly autistic view of friendships/relationships that manifests into reality because of aforementioned autism
          Truly shocking. Honestly though I feel bad for people with this mindset, sounds like you've never had a bro with a common mind or interests that you could just chill with and play vidya without having to discuss emotional baggage or expecting that they are using you in some way, and because of your own autistic view on friendship you probably never will. On the other end I can imagine it must be rough for someone trying to be your friend only for you to autistically screech that they are using you when they bring up some problem they are having thinking you might be able to offer some advice or relate to them in some way. Some people are truly better off friendless I suppose, at least you can still relate to other autistic anons here though.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >clumsy normie trying to gaslight in the lamest way possible

            Did he make you upset he instantly saw through how normie relationships work? I bet it did.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >autistic anon doubles down on autistic response
              Again, shocking. I should mention though that this part
              >people don't really look for friends
              Is 100% true. Anybody "looking for a friend" is probably exactly as anon described because they lack the social ability to make friends naturally, and anons like you "befriend" them for the same reason. If you can't form natural friendships with people who have similar interests and instead can only form false friendships with random people you have nothing in common with, who are desperately seeking human interaction because they much like you repel everyone around them with their antisocial behavior, then you're already doomed to the kind of relationships that you have now reduced all of human interaction to. It's literally a self fulfilling prophecy, I hope you'll manage to escape the cycle but honestly I don't know if that's even possible.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >more chud tier shaming tactics

                >transactional relationships you are describing is the normie standard. you have it backwards

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >autistic anon doubles down on autistic response
            Again, shocking. I should mention though that this part
            >people don't really look for friends
            Is 100% true. Anybody "looking for a friend" is probably exactly as anon described because they lack the social ability to make friends naturally, and anons like you "befriend" them for the same reason. If you can't form natural friendships with people who have similar interests and instead can only form false friendships with random people you have nothing in common with, who are desperately seeking human interaction because they much like you repel everyone around them with their antisocial behavior, then you're already doomed to the kind of relationships that you have now reduced all of human interaction to. It's literally a self fulfilling prophecy, I hope you'll manage to escape the cycle but honestly I don't know if that's even possible.

            /thread
            Most of the people here are unironic 2011 newfags that are LARPing as oldfags, you don't have to be a normalmoron to be socially adept. The vast majority of this thread are Elliot Rodgers types that are the arbiters of their own demise while blaming everyone else but themselves.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          that is normies.
          This is a "no normies allowed" zone.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          People cry because part of them dies then their loved one dies. True platonic selfless love does not exist here

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Online friends are not real friends

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You shut your whore mouth.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      My online friend has been more supportive, understanding and trusting to me than any friend i have met irl. It's also the only friend i have actually gone lengths in order to retake contact after having to part ways. I had to depart from many irl friends in the past and moved on just fine but simply couldn't afford to lose this one online friend. I want what we have to last until my life is over.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >talk to someone for a while
    >wait for them to imitate the next part of the conversation so I know they still want me around
    >they don't
    ok

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Fucking INITIATE. Jesus Christ. I hate auto spellcheck.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    There's no such thing as internet friends. You'd know this if you weren't 12.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That's a strange opinion. I have an internet friend I met on a forum ~18 years ago. We never met IRL, but still talk to this day, even though that forum died long ago.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I've met friends from the internet IRL that I made 15 years ago.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      t.12 year old

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't have any frens

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Same here

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Same I sit alone at lunch

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous
    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Same. I watch twitch streams to feel less lonely.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        any good ones?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Ritosux playing heroes 3. It's comfy.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        they're so hyperactive it's really hard to find a decent one that doesn't scream "grifter"
        i've tried vtoobas but i have no wapanese reps and i really do not like NA vtubers

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >no friends
      >no partner
      >tfw walking past a couple and they are so happy
      >ill never have that

      >be me
      >haven't talked to or seen a friend that moved away since years
      >finds him on PSN
      >initiate conversation, worried that he might not respond or be relunctant to talk
      >turns out he answered me as if we last spoke yesterday
      >we talked about our lives for hours
      >regularly talks and plays with him online since then

      Frens like this are the best

      i know that feeling. ended up dropping them. to no one's surprise they haven't spoken to me in years, despite being "friends" for 15+ years

      Same. I watch twitch streams to feel less lonely.

      >donut steel the redditfrog
      have a nice day

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >have a nice day
        no

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Get burned alive you disgusting piece of shit

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            no

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        reminder chuds are trying to gaslight pepe and revise history because 4chan used him for their psyops

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw friends and family literally don't remember i exist unless i contact them
    >tfw feel like they only contact me if they want something
    >tfw nobody likes saying hi to me anymore
    >tfw feel like i'm not worth having company anymore

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >no friends
    >no partner
    >tfw walking past a couple and they are so happy
    >ill never have that

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is what Western American world gave you.
      Remaining sparks of hope only worsening the wound. You have to truly accept that you will never have a gf or wife. Accept and move on. This is what globohomo wanted us to be. Alas we didn't withstand against it.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Accept it, and then set about uprooting and subverting all aspects of society until you get what you want, or just for fun. What else can you do, really? They're not going to help me, I'm not going to help them. It's a very simple transactional relationship.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >The reason I can't get laid is globalism
        No you stupid loser, it's because you can't talk to people

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          You cannot talk your way out of a hypercompetitive, sociopathic, hypergamous, gynocentric society clueless zoomie

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            hold up anon, are women shallow whores who offer their hole to just about anyone or are they in fact picky and wait until they find the right guy ?

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              for chad only

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Whichever makes me hate them more at any given second.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              It’s worse: they refuse pussy to 90 percent of men and open their legs to anyone in the remaining 10 percent, then lie about what they look for in the 10 percent

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                sounds like men, but more picky, then

              • 2 months ago
                Typical

                you sound like a lil bitch
                ultra kek, see name
                H8RDDD

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                damn youre a blast to the past, catch up with the times gay

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            It also always easier to reside in that bucket of crabs and blame everyone else. Particularly if you have a snazzy infograph to throw at people when they suggest you get off your ass.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Feel lonely
    >Play MMO game
    >Player sends a /whisper/ and asks if I want to join a raid party to farm mounts
    >Log out in a panic and turn off my PC
    >Still lonely
    NGMI

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      XIV? What server, anon?

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >still wanting friends
    lurk moar

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    https://discord.gg/2UEbtdp4FC
    Want friends who actually like vidya? join here then. Only if you actually play vidya though.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Anon I'm not complaining about friends because I want one, I'm complaining because I hate the garden gnomes and what they don't to friendship as a concept.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        what? garden gnomes?
        what's your favorite game series, anon?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I don't have any anymore, every franchise I liked is either dead or pozzed beyond recognition. I used to like Crash Bandicoot, but after IAT, I don't think I'll ever have the stomach to play any of them again.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            If you can't enjoy games you used to love because of bad sequels, that's entirely on you man. One of my favorite games is Postal 2, but I didn't let Postal III being dogshit and Postal 4 being unfinished and barely out of alpha fuck that up for me.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    to create an actual friendship you need to spend a lot of time together, thats literally it, its almost impossible to become friends off the bat, thats why most friendships are formed in places where different people are forced to coexist together - army, school, uni, work etc.
    if you met someone you like and you want to build a meaningful friendship with them - force yourself to hangout with that person, even if its not exactly what you want to do. after like a month or so of close contact you are guranteed a friendship that will last for as long as you bother to maintain it

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >didn't bother talking to him within months
    >but hard to maintain contact with them?

    /thread

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It’s just stupid.
    Everyone wants the other person to contact them first because they don’t want to be seen as weak. And once you do they see it as the norm that you always contact them first and once you stop they get offended and think you are the problem because their ego can’t take it
    Both of you say you can talk about everything but once you show a little weakness or say sorry, they think you have mental problems and need help.
    The online world fucked up communications for every human. You aren’t allowed to show any vulnerability. Future generations are fucked at finding relationships/friends if the online persona of how awesome you are is becoming the norm

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >always the one to initiate conversations
    >if i don't, they will never do
    >confront them about that
    >they go on about their real life problems and that i shouldn't demand their attention, and if i want to talk to them, i should send them a message
    I guess i have to deal with the fact that my "friends" are too "busy" to send a fucking message for the past year. Why can't they be sincere for once if they don't want me around?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Why can't they be sincere for once if they don't want me around?
      Afraid of confrontation, they just hope you get it even though they don’t say anything, do actions that speak against it.
      It’s even worse if you are a introvert because then you overthink anything that could lead to it and get depressed. All you can do is hope that you find people that are like you and come out straight if they don’t like something you say but those people are rare

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >hope that you find people
        I'm way past that point. I tried being extrovert, making new friends and every time i got hurt. People who pretended to be friends only to help them in uni exams, people who used me as temporary friend-fodder until their old group of friends accepted them back or people who act friendly mostly for the attention, while giving none back. I'm getting too old for this petty human shit.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      i know that feeling. ended up dropping them. to no one's surprise they haven't spoken to me in years, despite being "friends" for 15+ years

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Oh hey, same thing happened to me
      >at some point realise I'm the one always initiating contact
      >"nah, that can't be right"
      >out of curiosity decide to stop and see if they ask me to chat or play vidya
      >one fucking year later and only two have messaged me out of seven
      >ask one who I hung out with for 4 years why
      >makes up a lousy excuse and then admits "dunno"
      What the fuck is wrong with people? How can you have fun hanging out with people for four fucking years but don't give a shit about them?
      I'm closer than ever to the two that did talk so that's good.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Some of us are terrible at starting anything. I'm an example, I have no fucking idea how to start a conversation. What I can do is follow a conversation already going on and inserting myself into it. Like I'm doing right now in this very thread. But trying to say something when there's no existing conversation to work with? Not happening. Just impossible.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >hey what are you up to
          >talk about what he's up to
          >do you wanna hang this weekend
          it's that simple

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            It's that simple for you. I stare at the empty message log, write out something, decide it's stupid and erase without sending, get halfway through typing the next attempt, start wondering whether it's a good time, try to recall their usual gaming times, check steam and all launchers to see if they're already playing something so I won't bother them if they're already busy, erase the half message I had typed out and start over, only get a couple of letters in before feeling the need to check what our last conversation was like, check their steam activity log, write and erase another half message, and so on. Worst part is I already know shit's going to work out if I can just get over this first hurdle, talking to them is easy once the ice has been broken. Eventually after an hour of trying to say hi and failing I give up and go get piss drunk, disappointed at myself.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              do this

              Just walk up to them and say "morons"

              make sure they're black too

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              you unironically care too much about insignificant things like "disturbing people during busy times" and need to stop thinking like this. they can simply text back later. if they don't, either their memory sucks or they really just don't care about you at all. sounds bad but the truth sucks sometimes

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You're right. I know you're right. I know that's how it works, but my brain keeps finding excuses like that to stop me and I can't figure out why.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                idk i was the same way and eventually i just stopped caring about anything that wasn't me. maybe it's an age thing

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                How old are you? When did u stop caring about people shit talking you, and do you have friends now? Idk if I’ll ever truly have a partner let alone a friend sadly.. I’m 22

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                27
                30 now

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I have no fucking idea how to start a conversation
          All they had to do was send a simple "Hi" and I could've started something. I'm quite happy to lead conversations but it wasn't about "I don't know what to say", they just didn't care.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You're missing the point, the OP knows what to say. He doesn't know what he SHOULD say. What if the recipient replies nastily or worse ignores them? It's easier in the anxious OP's mind to just let the relationship dry up than possibly confirm the worst outcome.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Lad, I'm not talking about that anon, I'm talking about the people I knew. They are not like that anon. They did not have difficulties socializing.
              Funnily enough. The most socially retarded of my friend group was one of the two that messaged me.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Just walk up to them and say "morons"

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >feel alonely
    I've no idea what that feels like. Feels good to be a schizoid.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      same

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do I stop being depressed and constantly on the verge of tears

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      just b urself 🙂 unironically.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      i wish you could just remove the friends feature from steam entirely because seeing all these people who i've alienated myself from feels really bad. i just wanna play vidyas and not feel like a schizo autist

      cry and you'll feel better 🙂

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      just b urself 🙂 unironically.

      No! Do not "be yourself", that doesn't and hasn't worked for anyone. You need to be the best you that you can be.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      play nier automata

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >haven't talked to or seen a friend that moved away since years
    >finds him on PSN
    >initiate conversation, worried that he might not respond or be relunctant to talk
    >turns out he answered me as if we last spoke yesterday
    >we talked about our lives for hours
    >regularly talks and plays with him online since then

    Frens like this are the best

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Good on you for reaching out, anon.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      cool fren

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >constantly feel lonely and want friends
    >too much work to maintain friendships
    >just post anonymously on 4ch

    like I want bros but then I have to actually put in time to talk to people and it's too much effort.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone else does this thing where you stop responding for a day or so, and then you get so awkward that you never reply to the person ever again? I lost two friends like that. They used to reach up to me before, but at some point they just gave up, rightfully so. I still remember them and i feel pretty bad.

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do you gays cope with loneliness?
    I do by doing gamedev shit, though I have no skill and all my code is just a giant spaghetti so I never publish anything,
    yet still it helps me to forget about it

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      how the fuck are you supposed to make frens at 30? i don't really relate to the normalfag friends i used to have because they're all getting married and starting families and mentally i haven't changed at since i was like 18

      having a dog helps

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Holy fuck, are you me? I'm 25 though. It feels really bad. I've recently started a relationship and i feel really immature. I wish i had taken the time in my teenage years to try things and do mistakes, because i feel like i don't have the time for that now. It doesn't help that i feel the desire to just start a family already. It sucks man

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't get it man... I can't trust anyone anymore after my last irl best friend of 4 years just ghosted me. He had a bad break up with his girl who he had a long distance with only to find out she found someone else while they were together. For a while he stopped talking to everyone and would only hit me up. Even his parents couldn't get through to him and I being his close friend at the time, wanted to be there for my bro. Seemed like he hit rock bottom from that point and he had realized he had done nothing with his life except work at like some shitty jobs with no education. I tried to get him to start working out, going back to school with me, and quit the drinking and he did for a while but he just stopped contacting me. Some of the last times we talked, he thought I was hitting on him because I was constantly messaging him on a daily basis to see if was alright. He also said to me that "I don't get it because I am a virgin" because I never had a gf myself. After that point I would message him weekly then monthly, but he either would not respond or respond late or just cancel on me. The last thing I know about him was that he got real into drinking with some new friend but would never invite but thats probably because I don't drink myself. I just don't understand how we were so close to each other and vibed in such a way I couldn't with anyone else but then he just stopped talking to me. I admit that I am retarded when it comes to social situations and kinda spergy but I feel like I have no idea how to really act around people anymore. I think people see me as a child because I have no desire for looking nice or having a gf and because of that I seem immature to them? I just don't want to be something I am not

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That doesn't sounds like it was on you, anon. I think you tried your best and seem like a good friend.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        well thanks anon

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I've been in your friend's position, although without saying stuff as dumb as 'you don't get it cos virgin'. If he's anything like me, one of the reasons you end up ghosting people is shame. If you're at rock bottom and you talk to someone with whom you always had a particular vibe, it actually doesn't feel good to realise you never have any good news or vibes to give them any more. When your shit situation is the elephant in the room, all the chat eventually rolls back around to that. It's easier to talk to someone with a different outlook/someone who isn't trying to help you/someone whom you don't feel like you're dragging down by being around. He tried your advice and then he set it aside and he might just feel like if you chat again, you're gonna have more advice that he doesn't want, or a mood that he doesn't want to spoil. You can't solve a friend's problems for them or make their choices for them, and sometimes an ashamed friend will stop you from trying by just ghosting you.

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    you cannot be friends with someone who you cannot physically touch
    All you are doing is engaging in masturbation
    Retreating into the inner world
    Using some other disembodied one as a carnival mirror
    While they use you much the same

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      guess i've never had friends then

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        yes, this is the case. Many people these days are friendless, some pretend that each acquaintance is a friend, others become purely digital.

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >still keep contact with irl friends over the last 15 years
    >over the years an e-girl joined the friend cycle
    >her personality can be brought down to "i'm a female" and "i like food"
    >friends went from doing sexist jokes into literal simps
    >they all know she has a boyfriend, they even play LoL together
    >last night me and 3 friends were on discord call
    >2 friends were talking about her instagram stories about food
    >3rd friend, the only one still not caring about her asks them why do they even care about her posts about food etc
    >they don't answer
    >i spill my spaghetti and say "it's because they want to fuck her"
    >today they group up on her discord server instead of the one we used for the past 5 years
    It's over for them, isn't it?

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just started Uni. Why can't I seem to make friends? People just seem to click with each other, but not me. I always feel like people would rather be talking to someone else when I talk to them

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      one possible solution is to simply become more valuable because that will give others greater ulterior motives to tolerate you presence.
      just B.e yourself 🙂 only applies to normalfags, if you have autism, your self is probably not good enough

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      We're built different

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >that one friend who was your closest one but due to childhood trauma he got bad on meth and avoided all your advice and help so you dropped him and found out he died 3 years later from starvation
    I'm sorry Brandon, I was a bad friend

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    what’s really the point In having friends nowadays especially if your an autist with social skills? Nobody in high school liked me or if they did it was small talk and kept saying they were busy meanwhile I see the partying on Snapchat and if I confronted them about it they “forgot to invite me”
    My first year of college I tried re connecting with high school friends because I couldn’t find anyone at college and my old hs friend gave me a “deal” on a 100$ ps2 which I bought but he scammed me. He didn’t even unfriend me or anything he just sent me memes when I asked when I was gonna get it.
    I have this schizo tier paranoia with shit talking because I literally feel like the reason nobody liked me in school is because I was shit talked with everyone and hated because that’s why everyone, even people I barely talked to were rude to me. Hell my only friend who I went to school with ghosted me 2 years ago because she probably asked someone from high school about me. I don’t know

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >ran into HS friend in the subway after 10+ years of not seeing each other
    >we talked about random shit until he mentioned his computer was slow
    >offer to fix it, exchange phone numbers and email
    >it's a shitty laptop
    >repaste it, throw in a SSD and another 4GB DDR3 stick for free
    >spend around an hour "catching up" with each other
    >suddenly says he's gotta leave, ask if he wants to hang out tomorrow
    >"i can't, gotta visit my father"
    >every weekend i ask to hang out, it's always his father or girlfriend he has to visit
    >every time i initiate a conversation online he cuts me off halfway through because "he's exhausted" from his cushy 8 hour desk job in the rich part of the town (for comparison, i wagecuck 12 hours a day in a graveyard and don't feel exhausted in the slightest) and wants to sleep, at like 20:00
    >decide to stop messaging him after three months of this shit
    >one day he sends me a message out of the blue asking how i've been and if i want to go see this one movie together
    >agree
    >next day he says he can't make it and that he's sorry
    >since the messaging program he uses lets everyone see your "status" i find out he rented a quad bike and went sightseeing with his girl
    >tell him to fuck off and die (literally), block his number and email
    And that's why i don't have any friends.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      nooooo you don't get it broooo pussy is so important!!!
      Hate fags like those, good for you man. Never offer to fix someone's shit, they will use you 95% of the time and throw you away

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Probably social anxiety, I know I’m the same way but now that I have a gf, I don’t really need friends anymore, I still play with them sometimes

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