>girl is 25+ years old. >kissless virgin. >no one wants to date her

>girl is 25+ years old
>kissless virgin
>no one wants to date her
Why is it so common in Japanese media?

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  1. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    how should I know, I'm not a jap

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    japs think you're an old hag once you're 21, also
    >pic

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      It’s less that you’re considered old. It’s more of if you’re over 25 and not married/in a relationship then either
      >you’re super career oriented
      >or something is wrong with you which is why you can’t find a partner
      It applies to guys as well.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm going to become a wizard!

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I'm going to become a wizard!

          27 and never had a gf. I had crushes, but never really asked anyone out. I did try in college, but I fricked up and spaghettied. Wonder if I will ever get with someone. Now it's either meet someone at work, which sounds like a bad idea, or them appearing out of thin air.

          Find interests, get out there, kill your ego, stop giving fricks, nobody can hurt you because there's no you anymore. Humiliation is temporary, that person won't exist once you're out of view, then start anew.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Thank you Dr Purr very cool

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Your post made me feel better about my situation so thank you random anon

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >>or something is wrong with you which is why you can’t find a partner
        yeah, it's probably that one. I'm just autistic as shit, and I don't know how to talk to girls, or even how to love another person.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >>or something is wrong with you which is why you can’t find a partner
        correct

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Which is true. Prime breeding age for humans is around 16 and it only goes downhill from there, which is why 90% of all children in the US are born autistic.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Prime breeding age for humans is around 16 and it only goes downhill from there, which is why 90% of all children in the US are born autistic.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          16 is unironically 100% legal here in Germany. In fact even 14 is technically legal under certain conditions.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >16 is unironically 100% legal here in Germany. In fact even 14 is technically legal under certain conditions.
            You are slowly turning into turkey. In 5 years legal age will be 9

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              Good very good

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              germany is not a shithole now

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            it's 16 in most of canada and the us too it's just that California as the media mecca it's 18 so that's what's projected as the standard.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              16 is legal across most of Europe, even the UK. This idea that 18 is the hard barrier for sexual attraction is incredibly weird, because it just feels like people are severely suppressing what their brains are telling them. I wonder if that's why some people act like prudes when high school girls are being sexual.

              how is it that nearly every country can agree of that you legally become an adult at age of 18 and the different numbers are the exceptions
              but with age of consent nobody can fricking agree, it's all over the place
              how did we get here?

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Women

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Anons want to scream women. Real answer; Industrial Revolution.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                When was it established for most Europe? America actually was 21 until Nam' apparently. Needed more boys for the grinder. So if it was before, maybe it was a case of Europe coming to consensus because it makes sense. If they're going to be up in eachother's business with the EU might as well put down some brass tacks and try to have a commonstance on who the frick is a full citizen. Then America saw it as a reasonable compromise to lower the age of majority based on their precedence. If afterwards, then it's the same reasoning but America is the precedence. As for consent, it's a lot more difficult to have several nations of different levels of sexual attitudes coming to consensus

                Confidence isn't gained by losing your virginity though, I should know, I let a prostitute take mine and I'm still the same nervous wreck that I've always been

                A literal prostitute or a bawd? Because DUH, only a moron would think that literally having sex is what gives you confidence. It was always about being able to be seen as attractive enough to frick. Maybe if you were a literal teenager who has a simplistic enough mindset to think "put penis in vegana, means I'm the man" but even if you're a moron as an adult you still probably have more complex idiot thoughts

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Hence I specified "validation" which is only possible by losing the virginity in a not-strictly-transactional and consensual way.

                I payed for a prostitute and in my defence, I was 20 at the time and I was getting pressured by both coworkers and friends, my dad of all people managed to figure out what was going on and tried to pull my head out of the gutter but at that point it was too late. He has been teasing me a bit about the event ever since and expressed regret that he didn't manage to teach me that stuff before it was too late.

                Only once, right? You should use prostitutes to get better at sex.

                Frick no, I'd rather let someone I love and trust teach me the ropes than have some prostitute scam me out of my money

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                It's kind of dumb to make laws that prohibit something that people do anyways, as it devalues the concept of laws as a whole.

                Age of consent is just a lime drawn in the sand, where the government decides it's okay to intervene if anyone younger gets caught in the act. Most places do also have clauses that allow to people under the age of consent to have sex with each other.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >they don't have 15 as legal age

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm sure killing israelites was legal there too at one point..

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          16 is legal across most of Europe, even the UK. This idea that 18 is the hard barrier for sexual attraction is incredibly weird, because it just feels like people are severely suppressing what their brains are telling them. I wonder if that's why some people act like prudes when high school girls are being sexual.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >This idea that 18 is the hard barrier for sexual attraction is incredibly weird
            True if you consider the idea of 18 as an age people have but from a legal point of view it makes sense because you have to draw the line somewhere. If a bunch of really mature 16-17yo will get caught in this regulation, well, so be it

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I think he meant it both ways, for males and females.
          My grandma (south america died at around 78 y/o in 2017) married at 15.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            "Poor" kid gonna be forced to pay child support now.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous
        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          16 is legal ? where I live 14 is legal age for consent and 16 for marriage.
          Minors can legally frick with older men as long as they consent but marrying ? You have to be 16.
          Pic related, this old ugly arab was grooming her since she was 14, probably younger.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I hate pedophiles so much

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          t. pedo

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          bad get. v is a dicky board

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >16 = pedo
          ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Anon you're not pumping out moron kids if you're getting pregnant at fricking 24

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          iirc the only danger as far as age is concerned comes into play when you're at least like 40. if you're in your 20s you can frick your sister and have a lower chance of your baby coming out fricked up than if you're old

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            fun fact: It takes about 5 generations of inbreeding before kids become odd looking.

            We inbreed pigs 5 generations to get the best ones.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Japs think you're an old hag once you're 18+

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        And they're absolutely right.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Kys

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    If a woman isn't taken by 25 there is something very wrong with her.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Good point actually.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      what about a guy not taken by 25? I've never gone on a date in my life and I turn 25 in July.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        red flag as well just a different type
        you'll always make women think "whats wrong with him why did no other woman ever pick him?"

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          well, I know what's wrong with me. I just don't know how to fix most of it.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Not really true, if you have literally anything that makes you stand out in a positive way then they (both gays and women) won't really care why your a virgin until you socially frick up tremendously in some way to make them think "Oh, so that's why he couldn't get laid" in hindsight.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            As an additional note, there are people who see virginity as a legit turn-on no matter the gender, it's not just "traditional" males that values it

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              I've yet to meet a woman that vales it unless its in young guys (18 to early 20ish)

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            it is true and you notice it especially in situations like mine
            I was a virgin until 28 and no girl ever approached me, the moment i got my first GF i started getting approached and DM'd on IG
            women are afraid to be the first for a guy but once they see he's picked by other women they want in too

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              So are you just going to ignore that your GF was the "first" one just so to make your argument sound better? What you are talking about is a popular myth since unless you GF spends all of her time online bragging about how good in bed you are or how caring you are as a partner there is no way for any other woman (or man) to know if you are "safe". People can't read mind IRL, that shit just exists in X-men.

              What you are talking about is most likely just home wreckers looking for their next fix or women who see you hanging out with what they think is your GF and think "maybe this guy won't awkwardly hit on me if I approach him?" Try running errands/do any social activities online or IRL with your mom or your sister and you'll most likely notice the same thing

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                I'd imagine it might also just be anon being more confident he's an attractive male since he finally had confirmation that "yeah, random women might actually be physically and socially attracted to you even if you can't see why"

                Generally speaking, if a human is 25~ and is still a virginity it signals several potentials:

                -The person in question is extremely shy/anxious
                -The person in question has difficulties socializing, or perhaps just finds it tedious and so has limited opportunities
                -The person in question has an abhorrent personality that even autists find repellent
                -The person in question is simply asexual or repelled by sex

                Media across the world both vilifies and fetishizes virginity in this age range. Vilifies in that due to capitalist society anyone who is not a married working drone by 25 is deemed 'defective' and so must be mocked, fetishizes in that most people have what could be described as a corruption fetish, and an adult who is merely shy and totally inexperienced provides fuel for that. Who wouldn't love the idea of taking some adult man or woman who is culturally an archetype of purity and defiling them, or making them a depraved degenerate? Few people will admit this, but its the truth.

                What about that person is just really fricking ugly?

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >What about that person is just really fricking ugly?
                bro, boogie's MARRIED. unless you look like the elephant man you're fine

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Didn’t boogies first wife literally frick their (black) personal trainer? Lmao.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                cuck or not, he's had sex before

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Elephant man had children and a wife. And I've never held a girl's hand.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                it's okay anon, i'll just put on a skirt and do whatever you want

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah but so are shy, asocial, shitty, and even sexphobic people. I'm not saying all uggos can't get pussy, but SOME definitely can't.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Boogie also never had sex with his wife all they did was "hand and mouth stuff" according to him until she divorced him and found a new husband

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >what about if a person is really ugly
                A nonissue assuming you are not trying to exclusively frick supermodels. Lookism is fundementally flawed and there are an ungodly amount of examples of men and women of average or below beauty still having sex and relationships.

                There are literally men or women who will frick you because you appeal to an ugly bastard archetype even, way, WAY too many people want to frick older figures that resemble their mothers or fathers.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I have no idea what that means

            The Japanese legitimately think your life is over at your early 20s
            They consider 30 to be old.

            Yeah that's true, 30 is pretty old. Atleast if you haven't accomplished anything. If you have a career and are starting a family, sure it's still young but otherwise you really kind of missed the boat. You're gonna have to do a lot of paddling to catch up.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              It means that people only attribute virginity as something negative in hindsight after a bad experience with you but will otherwise ignore it if you, for example: look good, are funny, are pleasant to be around, are good at something (math, woodworking, cooking or literally anything else that is directly noticeable to the viewer) or even if they have any non-biased reason to interact with you, like asking for directions for example.

              People can't smell or see virginity, that's just fricking stupid, they will only know if you tell them and even then they won't give a shit unless you tive them a reason to think that your virginity is a problem in the first place.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >People can't smell or see virginity
                That's technically correct but there's nonverbal and behavioral tells that people continuously parse about other people. It happens mostly subconsciously but sometimes you just get a strange or creepy vibe about someone. If a man has been validated previously you can sometimes tell it from the confidence he has, and vice versa.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Confidence isn't gained by losing your virginity though, I should know, I let a prostitute take mine and I'm still the same nervous wreck that I've always been

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Hence I specified "validation" which is only possible by losing the virginity in a not-strictly-transactional and consensual way.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Only once, right? You should use prostitutes to get better at sex.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Perhaps not the change of virgin to not virgin status in itself, but there are things you might worry about if you haven't had sex before ("can I even get it up"/"will I coom in 10 seconds") that having sex will resolve, and you will be a newbie for some time. Let's consider one part of sex as an example: fingering. When I was starting out (for the record, always for money), my fingers initially struggled at basic things like finding the pussy hole! Or touching them too high/low below the clit. Hookers had to interrupt me to put in some lube (which surely is some sign of failure)! But after a couple of times I started learning; for example it occurred to me I could spit on my fingers to apply initial moisture as a lubricant to the clit, and as girls start getting wet, bring up the pussy juice and rub it to the clit and pussy lips. Now, after not too many times of experience, I get girls screaming and convulsing in no time.

                Actually, I now feel I'm *GOOD* at sex, versus not even getting my dick up as was the case on my first time, about half a year ago (at ripe old age of 32). I haven't gotten sex for free, but confidence on my performance certainly isn't a problem now. Although I guess you could say I get sex for /cheap/: I'm a sugar dating pro now, and that is a much better deal for me than professional escorts are.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                I think it is more about someone accepting you.
                t. wizard

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Guys don't peak until they reach 30.
        Girls peak at your country's legal age of consent.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Girls peak
          You mean hit the wall

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Girls peak at-
          Puberty

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Guys don't peak until they reach 30
          what about the bottom 20% of guys who start losing their hair in mid to late 20s?
          and the higher percent who are losing it in their 30s?

          guys peak at like 20.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            dude i promise that being bald isn't your last line of defense against b***hlessness. a confident bald dude will pull more tail than an insecure dude with a full head of hair every single time

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Guys don't peak until they reach 30.
            Lol

            You're looking at it wrong. You're comparing attractiveness with looks for both gender, but that is incorrect.
            Guys care about women's looks.
            Women care about guy's money.
            Guys peak at 30, meaning that's when their careers start and they start making big money. That's when women find guys the most "attractive".

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              >tfw no career or skills and turn 30 soon

              Owari da....

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Guys don't peak until they reach 30.
            Lol

            I don't think this is a cope, even if we look at just the physical aspects.
            For some reason, probably the lack of real danger or stress, both men and women seem to physically mature slower, with 23-24 year old boys looking like literal children, esp. compared to their fathers who looked like fully grown men at this age. This is a good thing for women, but not necessarily for men.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Guys don't peak until they reach 30.
          Lol

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Guys don't peak until they reach 30
            what about the bottom 20% of guys who start losing their hair in mid to late 20s?
            and the higher percent who are losing it in their 30s?

            guys peak at like 20.

            Guys peaking when they're old is only something that's said by ugly men who never got to experience life as a beautiful teen + very early 20's boy
            I was pretty cute and got attention but my friend was an absolute chad and spending time with him seeing his outlook on women and the things that happened to him on a daily basis was unreal. Most guys have no clue

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >40% of men are defective
            Not my problem.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        i lost it at 18 and i unironically wish i was still a virgin because i fricking hate the girl i lost it to

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I lost mine at 17 and while honestly it wasn't special and was kinda gross I'm glad I did, not because it's some great thing but because I know that i would've thought "i'm a virgin that's why i'm such a depressive frick" now if i hadn't, instea dof just being a depressive frick because i'm a depressive frick.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        If you have schizoid personality disorder it's completely normal and despite people telling you you're a loner and there's something wrong with that, there isn't and you can still be a completely productive member of society. These people have always existed.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        The "women live on easy mode" meme isn't some twisted incel logic, it's honest to god truth. I've met absolute 0/10 moron women with rotten personalities and the ugliest face/body you've ever seen who STILL manage to find someone who wants to frick them. Meanwhile my 11/10 (no homo) male friends, nicest people I've ever met, who work out, have 6 figure jobs, model, travels a lot, can't find any women worth a shit.
        If you're a twenty something or even thirty something year old virgin guy, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          hey incel

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm a woman, go frick yourself

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >can't find any women worth a shit
          I can nearly guarantee that the problem is that what they are looking for is some sort of carcature, probably of a 50's stay at home tradwife with no personality who obediently nods at whatever is said to her.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            the problem is that turns out the system is biased in favor of women.
            we didn't observe that for most of our history because women were handicapped in a lot of ways. but once feminism and suffrage happened?
            whoops, turns out the system is not actually balanced for this! where is the fricking patch, Earth

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              Women are also fricked since a lot of men are poor
              My niece has a boyfriend but they cant do shit since they have no money kek

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I can guarantee you you're a hole who has no idea what she's talking about.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              So I was correct in my assumption about their overall character and completely vapid taste and desire to marry a living trope?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >women worth a shit
            When men say this, what this loosely translates to is:
            -Not fat
            -Not a prostitute
            -Not a rainbow hair
            -Not covered in trailer trash tats
            -Not mentally ill
            and of course the obligatory
            -Not ugly
            that's literally it, most men can cope with shitty personality or being stupid
            these are not unrealistic standards by any means, but finding a woman without one of those things is WAY too fricking hard in current year, and that's before even getting into basic compatibility from a personality standpoint

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              Steven Crowder energy eminating from this post

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Don't know who that is but he sounds smart

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                He got divorced and his wife hates him or something

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                He also crossdresses a suspicious amount

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                He's a quote unquote trad conservative who recently got mocked off the internet when footage of him throwing a literal temper tantrum over his 8 month pregnant wife shopping (because he was too lazy to do chores) leaked.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                I don't know him but that sounds like a super fair assessment and you're not biased at all. I'm sure the situation is exactly as you described!

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                No, I'm serious. You can even look up the video in question if you want, it's arguably worse than what I described.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                If he's famous and working and his wife is at home all day, why should he handle the chores? If you respond to me saying his wife cant do it because of her pregnancy, why can't they hire a maid. Why are you calling him lazy for no reason? From that characterization alone, I know that you're takling the shopping out of context too

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              Living in Japan was the biggest eye opener for me about how bad almost all American women and people in general are. American society is selfish and vain at its core. Women have insane egos in that culture. Foreign women are so much more reasonable.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                for real? I figured japanese women were either worked to death or surrounded by beta males who also got worked to death, forced into a culture that would otherwise break one's mind and spirit. It was why I was always heard of Japan as a tourist country.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Some are. But they're more receptive and genuinely interested in getting to know you rather than making crazy demands and bring egotistical. They're also not covered in tats.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Have you seen Rashomon? Jap women are the same shit. They're just better at hiding it from you.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          men will literally frick anything. things even out a lot more once it comes to serious relationships though

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          if you act like trevor from gta v you will cause panties to gush like a firehose.

          my next door neighbor was involve in six different homicide investigations, was probably the killer in at least three of those, spent more of his life in prison than out of it, died because someone finally murdered him back, and when he was out of jail he was never single for more than a couple of days.

          women may or may not have life on easy mode, but the reason your male friends are single is because they're nice, rather than literal murderers who sell any leftover meth they don't use.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Maybe your friends just have more sense then the men fugging that stupid ugly b***h, it's better to make one pairing meaningful than to have dozens of worthless hookups

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        A guy remains a virgin if he just lives his life regularly without going out of his way to pursue anyone, a woman has to be either deformed-tier ugly or reject at least 50+ different men to remain a virgin at 25

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I've never gone on a date in my life and I turn 29 in December

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I'm 30 and I haven't either. I rather get my life together first so I can score a quality girl.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Quality girls your age range have already been all taken up. So you would have to try to get with a chick that is like a decade younger than you.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              >Quality girls your age range have already been all taken up. So you would have to try to get with a chick that is like a decade younger than you.
              I fail to see the problem.
              Men usually go after younger women.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous
        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Literally same down to being 29 in December

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >tfw I turn 30 in around a week and I am still a kissless virgin.

        I did try to pursue a couple of women I was interested in over my life, but all of my attempts ended up with embarasment and rejection. At this point I have basically given up. It doesn't matter anymore, nobody would want me anyways given that the average 16 year old woman has more romantic experience than I do.

        Resignation to being forever alone is in one way, freeing however. You no longer have to give a shit about the future at all. I mean, if you are never going to have children who the frick cares about the future and what happens? You have no obligations towards anyone dependent on you so if worse comes to worst, you can always just bow out and have a nice day.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Keep trying anon don't tell me all you did for the 30 years of you life by doing nothing.
          There are billions of women in the planet they are bound to be some or thousands that would like you.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Keep trying anon don't tell me all you did for the 30 years of you life by doing nothing.
            Why the frick should I keep trying? Telling someone that is running last in a race to just keep trying is not only demeaning but also pointless. It doesn't matter if I bow out now or "finish" the race because there is nothing behind the finishing line for me anyways.

            >There are billions of women in the planet they are bound to be some or thousands that would like you.
            Lol
            Lmao. I would resent any woman who acted like they liked me at this point because I cannot conceive it to be out of genuine interest or fondness towards me due to how much of a fricking loser I am. All the women that have shown signs of being interested in me troughout my life ended up hurting me and rejecting me anyways so at this point I no longer even respond to such signals.

            I have resigned myself to my fate. The only tethers to living that I have are my parents, once they die I am free to kill myself with no bonds or regrets to tie me to other people.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              Isn't this that one Spanish dam that famously overflowed and destroyed like 2 villages?

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                You're thinking of the Vajont Dam in Italy. Don't think it's the same one but could be.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              You have three options
              1. have a nice day. I'd do it myself if I didn't have a survival instinct
              2. pay a hooker
              3. stop caring, why do you put any value on sex or all of that shit anyway? Improve your skills, learn new and fulfilling stuff, do anything at all. Why is sex or kissing anyhow important?

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >1. have a nice day. I'd do it myself if I didn't have a survival instinct

                I posted the reason for why I won't kill myself. Literally "mom would be sad". I don't want to hurt her like that, she would never get over it. She already worries about me so much, if I killed myself I would basically ruin the rest of her life with grief.

                >2. pay a hooker

                No. I have no interest in going to a prostitute. The thought alone is disgusting.

                >3. stop caring, why do you put any value on sex or all of that shit anyway? Improve your skills, learn new and fulfilling stuff, do anything at all. Why is sex or kissing anyhow important?

                It isn't sex itself that is important. I'm not sexually frustrated. I am lonely, and like I said earlier, given the fact that I will never have children of my own, I have very little reason to give a shit about the future.
                My interests, and the skills I have, like drawing stuff for example, serve as nothing more than time wasters I engage in while I wait for my life to end. Sure they are fulfilling to me on some level, but ultimately they do not represent anything more than hedonistic time wasting. There is no reason to care about the future if you do not reproduce.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >There is no reason to care about the future if you do not reproduce.
                Then start caring. I've seen the most genetic of failures getting married and having 3 children. The ugliest of guys scoring girls. If you aren't it is "the society" that failed you, it is only your own fault.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Then start caring.
                Why? What does it fricking matter to me what happens in the future I have no investment in it? You do not just "decide" to care about shit, you have to have material reasons or other interests to actually motivate you to care about anything, including the future. I have no interests beyond burning time and doing shit like drawing my autismal worldbuilding bs for fun. Nothing that extends beyond myself or ties me to other people.

                > I've seen the most genetic of failures getting married and having 3 children.
                By the virtue that they have children they are already genetically more "fit" than I am. The only people who matter in the long run are the ones that have children because their genetics are what carry to the future. If you fail to reproduce, you fail at the task that every single one of your ancestors succeeded at since the dawn of life on this planet. There is no greater mark of failure than that.

                > If you aren't it is "the society" that failed you, it is only your own fault.
                No shit? Where did I blame society? I never have blamed anyone besides myself.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I am lonely
                Then get a friend

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                That's just as hard as getting a lover, anon.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Absolutely not. It's piss easy to get friends, even an assburgers autist like me can do it. Women on the other hand are a fricking cancer to deal with.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >It's piss easy
                Not really, haven't made one in 20 years.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                you can make friends very fricking easily as long as there's common ground and you're pleasant to be around

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >common ground
                Tried it, all my hobbies consist of not talking or looking at the other people participating
                >Pleasant to be around
                That's an issue too, I try not to be terrible but it just kind of makes me a quiet creep

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                my guy. my fricking brother. you are on a VIDEO GAME BOARD. even if you dont play video games like 99% of people on Ganker you wouldn't be here if you weren't capable of holding a conversation about them

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                I play mostly single player old games, don't play online, and really don't have strong opinions about them. Also I'm a 35 year old man, there's not a large contingent of people itching to talk to me about vidya in public, let alone the Alien vs Predator arcade beat em' up

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                I have friends, but they do not fill the gap in my heart. They are just ultimately accuintances with whom I have no real deep bonds with. It is kinda awkward at times because some of them seem to care far more about me, than I care about them, mostly because I have to keep up appearances around them and they have the wrong idea about what I am like really, because I can't be myself around them. This is because the bullshit of social behavior that my university's student culture kinda enforced, which has made me adopt a sort of mask in social situations to avoid being completely cast out.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >They are just ultimately accuintances
                Well then they're not your friends, are they?

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Not really I guess. Though some of them think of me as their friend. It is really fricking awkward to have some dude I don't really give a frick about professing how much of a good friend I am to him in his drunken stuppor.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >the skills I have, like drawing stuff for example, serve as nothing more than time wasters I engage in while I wait for my life to end
                So? It's up to you to give your life purpose, because there isn't some inherent purpose in and of itself. Some people live in blissful ignorance and are happy with just reproducing and being done with it, some people like you and I spent 1 nanosecond thinking about this shit and now we need to make our own purpose.
                The sad truth is that there is no purpose in life. You can have a nice day right now and it will make no difference in the grand scheme of things. But to laugh in the face of this purposelessness and make your own purpose anyway is the ultimate chad move.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >So? It's up to you to give your life purpose,
                I know, but I have failed at this, because I see no real point in persisting in this worthless existence beyond my moral obligations towards my parents.

                >You can have a nice day right now and it will make no difference in the grand scheme of things.
                Sure, not in the grand scheme of things, but like I said in my earlier post, it would destroy my parents and cause so much grief to them that I cannot justify the act of suicide until they have passed on. After that there are only my two younger siblings left of my family but I am distant from them and I doubt that they would care that much if I killed myself.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I know, but I have failed at this
                You haven't failed until you're dead anon, unless you're like 70 and permanently bedridden, there's a lot you can do to give yourself meaning

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                You're a frogposter, you don't deserve happiness and fulfillment.

                >girl to just wordlessly cuddle me every day
                Anon those aren't real? Like realistically that absolutely won't happen, if you got that dependant she'd probably leave you, not because her feelings would disappear but because that's not something people can constantly keep up especially if you aren't improving yourself, what you're describing is a mother figure which probably would be pretty apparent to them

                My ex is like that. She's the only girlfriend I've ever had. It was a complete fluke that we got together. All these kissless virgins need to do is find themselves a BPD monster. You will never want to be in a relationship again.

                You're fricked if you're already over 25, though. At that point you would need to start grooming 17 year olds, and that takes way too much effort.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              >Why should I keep trying.
              Billions of women anon.
              In the united states 167 million women alone.
              Also I agree with this anon

              You have three options
              1. have a nice day. I'd do it myself if I didn't have a survival instinct
              2. pay a hooker
              3. stop caring, why do you put any value on sex or all of that shit anyway? Improve your skills, learn new and fulfilling stuff, do anything at all. Why is sex or kissing anyhow important?

              Sex and all that jazz is overrated you should not be looking at your virginity as if it's some curse, it's only recent that virginity is looked down upon, but forget about that for a moment.
              I suggest you take a break from Ganker a couple weeks give or take and do things that are productive quite anything really.
              Life is bigger than our selves anon.
              If you have the chance anon get a rosary and start praying for purpose in life and what is the truth and meaning behind our existence.
              I'm a virgin at age 22, granted I had chicks straight up say they like me or I know they liked me or their friends will come to me and say they like me, but I either rejected them all or never thought I felt ready for a relationship.
              I am open to the idea of a relationship, but that is not my main pursuit right now if I am going to get into the dating scene or what ever the case may be I am doing so to get married with a good woman I rather not waste my virginity on pre marital sex and thank God I didn't have that frickboy mentality back in highschool, because I certainly would've regretted it.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                I am not a fricking american tho. I am a Finn and because I got no interest in foreign women or creating some halfbreeds that kinda limits my dating pool.

                And like I said here

                >1. have a nice day. I'd do it myself if I didn't have a survival instinct

                I posted the reason for why I won't kill myself. Literally "mom would be sad". I don't want to hurt her like that, she would never get over it. She already worries about me so much, if I killed myself I would basically ruin the rest of her life with grief.

                >2. pay a hooker

                No. I have no interest in going to a prostitute. The thought alone is disgusting.

                >3. stop caring, why do you put any value on sex or all of that shit anyway? Improve your skills, learn new and fulfilling stuff, do anything at all. Why is sex or kissing anyhow important?

                It isn't sex itself that is important. I'm not sexually frustrated. I am lonely, and like I said earlier, given the fact that I will never have children of my own, I have very little reason to give a shit about the future.
                My interests, and the skills I have, like drawing stuff for example, serve as nothing more than time wasters I engage in while I wait for my life to end. Sure they are fulfilling to me on some level, but ultimately they do not represent anything more than hedonistic time wasting. There is no reason to care about the future if you do not reproduce.

                it isn't sex itself that is important to me. I am not sexually frustrated, I am lonely and have nothing that binds me to the future.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Try making friends anon?
                Look changes don't happen within a day, but you need to take small steps and again if you want purpose in life I suggest you get a rosary beads and do prayer.
                We all have a purpose anon, but you won't find or have any idea what that purpose if you don't meditate on it.
                https://rosarycenter.org/how-to-pray-the-rosary

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                I am not religious m8. I have never been, I do not believe in supernatural bullshit and pretending to do so out of some desperate cope wouldn't solve anything.

                Also like I said in an earlier post, I do kinda have friends, it is just that they care far more about me than I care about them.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I am not religious m8. I have never been, I do not believe in supernatural bullshit and pretending to do so out of some desperate cope wouldn't solve anything.
                Alright, but it was a suggestion.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                It's not a curse, but "wasting your virginity" is also a stupid concept. Also having an experience with women is important. I had a 7 year relationship where I ended up hating her at the end, but I also learned a lot of super valuable shit. Now I know what I'm doing more and know how to make my current GF happy.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >"wasting your virginity" is also a stupid concept.
                How so?
                Because I am not going to have my virginity taken by a girl I just happen to be infatuated 20 minutes ago, it is something I am willing to share with a spouse not some random girl.
                In fact they are a lot of benefits for doing so as wel.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                If you're female there's actually some kind of physical alteration to losing your virginity at least, but it still doesn't REALLY matter. As a male, there is nothing to even be wasted. Virginity is a concept created by humans. Whether you rail that person you were infatuated with 20 minutes ago or not does not does not make you special or a better or worse person in any way. There's literally no benefits either that I can think of, only downsides. Also sexual compatibility is genuinely an issue in relationships.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Even though it may have no actual real value, it's something you can only "give" to one person. Being that reckless/thoughtless with something irreplaceable and highly sentimental in our culture is indicative of low impulse control at the very least.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                You're not "giving" anyone anything. You're the one attaching sentimental value to it. It's like "giving" someone your first time doing any other irrelevant shit. Most people won't care about the sentiment of you giving them your first time, and it's a fantasy you're living in to pretend it's going to mean much to anyone.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                It's not a fantasy, because the majority of people feel the same way, you're just being overly clinical about it to make your stupid point about it being pointless. You're like someone who throws away the starter sword your dad left you in an RPG the instant you find a better one

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                The majority of people DO NOT feel this way, and the fact that you think that shows that you legitimately have your head in the clouds. People haven't thought this way in a large scale for a while now. Also that's a dogshit analogy, because you're talking about something you'd "possess." You don't "possess" a virginity as it's a concept created by humans and as such the value we place on it is decided by other humans. No one gives a shit you're a virgin. The person you "give" it to will likely barely ever think about that past the 5-10 minutes since you told them. But I guess you'll feel like a special good boy or something. I'm not being clinical, I'm being realistic as someone that has experienced what you're talking about. You just don't want to get off your kiddy high horse and come to reality. You're naive and it shows.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >The majority of people DO NOT feel this way
                You're just flat-out 100% wrong and can't be reasoned with, not reading the rest of that, please talk to real people who aren't rainbow hairs on twitter

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                I literally don't use twitter, and have lived a longer more successful life than you. Stick your head in the dirt dipshit. You're the one acting like a snowflake

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >no see no one cares about virginity it's just a social construct, actually women who aren't virgins are just as valuable as ones who are
                Yeah okay tumblrina, sorry your life experience in San Fran doesn't check out with mine

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                You literally just didn't like what you were hearing and got butthurt and refused to respond, turning to insults. You're the whiny tumblrina/twitter troony here. You act exactly like every online moron that wants to live in an echo chamber. Also San Fran is a cesspool, but you act more like people that live there than I do. Trust me, I've been there, not just used it as a boogie man to insult people. You're embarrassing, and will be thinking about this conversation while I'll be living my life like you never existed. GL champion of virginity, I hope the girl you give it to puts it in their trophy case.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I've pretty much given up at this point. Every women I've met is either already in a relationship, ugly as all frick or lesbian. And when I say ugly I'm talking "used crackprostitute fully tatted who smokes and looks 70 even though she's 20-something.". I don't believe there's noone for me, it's just that the available pool for me is borderline empty.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Also don't fall for the men peak at 30 meme. It's the opposite. Your desirability goes down at that point. If you aren't getting anything by 25 it's over

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I’m 33 and a kissless Virgin,there is no word to describe how over it is for me.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        If you didn't have sex between 14yo and 18yo, you're a social failure. You're so late that every kind of relationship will be hard.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >have sex or you're a failure!!!!
          maybe don't project your subjective perceptions of value onto other people

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            That's not the point he's making. You literally won't understand until you have sex. I didn't believe it mattered so much either.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              >You literally won't understand until you have sex
              No, I won't join your "exclusive club", I will remain sexless and live a fulfilling life nonetheless, you can't force me to have sex

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Again, missing the point. Every kind of relationship is harder than it otherwise would be when you're a virgin. That is just a fact of life. Yes, you can still have fulfillment. Nobody said you couldn't.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Every kind of relationship is harder than it otherwise would be when you're a virgin

                >Building a table is harder when you never built a table
                Yeah fricking duh my man

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Nah, relationships are easier for me than most and I'm still a virgin. It comes down to self-awareness and the willingness to just communicate as well as recognize when others are failing to do so so you can prompt them. That's all there's to it. In all contexts.

                Missing the point once again. It's a matter of being able to relate and form connections with other people. It's more difficult when you've never fricked. That's all that's being said.

                I would go further and say that losing my virginity at 25 changed my attitude and personality for the better. It was a literally purifying experience. But I know that will be met with skepticism.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Missing the point once again
                Experience makes you better at things. There is no bigger point here, if you think it is you're just glorifying your experiences to the point where they're something they aren't
                It's literally just experience, there is no advanced state of enlightenment here

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Nah, relationships are easier for me than most and I'm still a virgin. It comes down to self-awareness and the willingness to just communicate as well as recognize when others are failing to do so so you can prompt them. That's all there's to it. In all contexts.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            maybe stop using gay big words and cope moron

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              There is no need to cope when there's nothing wrong

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          this is so fricking true goddamn
          i got my first gf at 27 and i felt like such a fricking failure, it was special to me because it was all so new but to her i was just the new guy

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Same but 33

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I’m 33 and a kissless Virgin,there is no word to describe how over it is for me.

          Is being a 30+ year old virgin this common now? Wtf? It would have been unheard of even 20 years ago. I'm in the same boat and thought I was alone at 32.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I think Ganker's always been like this. Even 10 years ago Ganker was full of tfw no gf threads.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            National statistics in many countries show that the rise in virginhood among men into middle age is actually increasing rapidly. It's fine though, in the end the cool wine aunts will be genetic dead ends too.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        i'm 26 and have never kissed, held hands or had sex, i have done so much self improvement but it changes nothing

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          you cant just lift weights and do nofap and read marcus aurelius or whatever the frick Ganker told you would work, you have to actually go out and talk to women

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Where are women? Everywhere i go the women are much much older than me like 50 years old.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              At bars and at parties getting their holes stuffed by a different guy every weekend. The girls that don't do that are sitting quietly in their room at home, and you will never meet them unless you happen to randomly be their coworker or something.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                This is true. My wife has no friends and almost never leaves the house unless it's to do chores. She's a total shut-in weeb weirdo, who still somehow can hold a job. I would never have met her if we didn't sit next to each other in school. You have zero chance of meeting these women unless you work with them or interact with them in online forums related to their interests.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Same here. The best wife material is the one you meet early in life in school. Of course, assuming they have a body count of 0.
                It's crazy to think "people" actually think meeting women online, Tinder, or at the bar would even consider them to be wife-able.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Same but I'll be 30 in a few months
        That said I'm a cop so here's hoping I get shot in the fricking face here soon.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Why would you want to die because you just didn't have sex?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        it still applies

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I was the same age and everything as you 4 years ago and one day I just decided to install dating apps and move out of my comfort zone and now I'm married.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          good on you, anon. I hope you and your wife have the best life possible.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Thanks bro, I hope everyone here can make it.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I installed dating apps and the only match I've ever gotten is with a guy

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I hope you and your partner have the best life possible

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        bros i always joke about >tfw no gf
        but i am scared of sex

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I am turning 30. Get on my level.

        If you have schizoid personality disorder it's completely normal and despite people telling you you're a loner and there's something wrong with that, there isn't and you can still be a completely productive member of society. These people have always existed.

        I certainly am and I wanna pat every schizoid I meet on the head telling them everything is going to be daijobu.
        Being 30, single and making good money is great. I got so much time for my own hobbies, at home I can just relax and I am saving so much money because there is noone to spend it on useless shit.
        Though, a lot of female coworkers seem to be pretty desperate around my age. Guess it's good to be a man.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I'm also in my mid 30's and now a lot of zoometes are sudddendly interested in me.
          They all question me, wow anon you're so handsome, why aren't you married or engaged, I obviously won't mention to the zoomete that I'm a wizard, since it would probably dry their veganas to sahara like dry.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            kek,
            a coworker of mine told me that the new intern likes me, which is weird because I am 10 years older than her. I think a lot of women mistake me for someone in their early 20s.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      japs think you're an old hag once you're 21, also
      >pic

      https://i.imgur.com/q0wvTwJ.jpg

      >girl is 25+ years old
      >kissless virgin
      >no one wants to date her
      Why is it so common in Japanese media?

      Aren't these outdated stereotypes? Most Japanese aren't getting married, there's an extreme birth rate decline. I don't think authors are saying these women are freaks, it's just lonely not meeting someone at that point. Statistically these are the average jap women.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Anon, just because it's becoming the norm doesn't mean it's socially accepted. There's a massive rise in people not having relationships of any kind, not having their own home, just in general failing to live up to the milestones of yesteryear, it doesn't mean people don't still reflect upon that as personal failure despite how common it is. People still look at themselves and others thinking that should be the norm, either unaware or unwilling to see the growing problem.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Japan has a higher birthrate than most of Asia and most of Europe. Your entire world view of Japanese birth crisis is based on Chinese propaganda to disguise the looming demographic collapse due to China having over 500 million people over the age of 50.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >source: my ass

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Most Japanese aren't getting married, there's an extreme birth rate decline.
        It's not exclusive to Japan. Most European countries have fertility rates similar to Japan (below replacement levels). Korea's fertility rate is below 1, literally a giant graveyard.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Blame boomers autistic education meme
          >no kid I wont teach you to work at 14/16, go study 15 hiurs a day until you are 25 years old
          >you see amI need to see you sitting on that chair 20 hours or else you are lazy!
          >you dont understand this house I bought for 60k costs 600k now
          Boomers ruined everything

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I have a 30year old female friend who is a kissless virgin and I love her so much. Don't wanna dump my gf for her though.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      > Go with men before 25
      EWWW prostitute
      > Don't go with men by 25
      lol something wrong with her

      Fricking hell lads, no wonder your all depressed.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        First one is false, though. Just go with a man before 25. Ezpz.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        > Go with men before 25
        >EWWW prostitute
        No one says this. Also, *you're. moron.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's the number of men more than anything. Pathetic beta b***h incels want that number to be 0 because they fear being compared to former partners but for normal humans more than five partners in your life is considered red flag territory.

  4. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is a female virgin at 25 red flag? I'm going on a date with one next Monday

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      She's either lying or yeah, fricked in the head.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Depends on why that is the case. It's probably fine and not a problem, there's way more people that just don't give a shit about dating than there are people who are actual psychos

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      In the same way it's a redflag for men. It's not a guarantee she's a psycho but there's nearly certainly something strange about her that has led her to hang onto her virginity for so long. It could be a good strange, a bad strange or just strange but it will there.
      I've known a small handful of girls who are still virgins into their mid/late twenties and it's usually related to issues with intimacy or sexual disgust that they find very hard to get over. Ofc it will change depending on things like culture.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yea I'm a 32 year old turbo virgin guy and it's because I'm meh looking and not good socially. Nobody gets my age as a virgin without major issues.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      potential redflag but if she turns out to be a massive autist then so long as you are up for that its alright

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don't listen to the morons. A virgin woman is 100% of the time the ultimate green flag... if she's not lying, that is.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just make sure she doesn't have a religious upbringing

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Why is it so common in Japanese media?
    Because it’s (relatively) common in Japan outside of Tokyo/Osaka. I met my wife in rural Japan and she was a virgin at 21 which is essentially unheard of in America where the average 21 year old roastoid has been through a football team worth of dicks at that point.

  6. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    it appeals to the same type of male demographic and its' supposed to evoke the "I can fix her" and "if no one wants her then maybe I can have her" reactions
    basically just an another way these companies came up with to convince unhappy young adults to part with their money

  7. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    27 and never had a gf. I had crushes, but never really asked anyone out. I did try in college, but I fricked up and spaghettied. Wonder if I will ever get with someone. Now it's either meet someone at work, which sounds like a bad idea, or them appearing out of thin air.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah no you are still going to be like this at 36, ask me how I know
      At least I realized how schizoid I am. I thought I wanted a GF but I didn't really. Only sex

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm like that too. Sometimes I fantasize about having a GF but the times where I'm glad to be alone outweight those moments by a long mile. I would need so much time for myself in a relationship that it couldn't even really be called one. No one would out up with that.

  8. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    If I'm a 26 year old kissless virgin, is something wrong with me?

  9. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    how big is his dick?

  10. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I love my pedo-teacher Kawakami

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      How many milliseconds until some dumb compares her to Misaka from NHK

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        You mean Misaki my waifu for 15 years
        She’s a total b***h in the Manga and LN btw.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >She’s a total b***h in the Manga and LN btw.
          elaborate?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            She’s way more manipulative and isn’t painted in a very good light. Wherein the anime she’s shown as pretty kind to Sato and invested into him as a human in the manga/LN it’s much more heavily implied she’s manipulating him for her own benefit/because she’s fricking crazy. She gaslights the shit out of him throughout it and lies a shit ton.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              That sounds like a way more interesting character. Why the frick did they do the 180 in the anime?

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                because then it would've been canned before then.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I need more of those pics.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's bad cosplay porn why would you want that?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >gets mad if you don't take hints

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Frick, I'll have to replay now

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      this reminds me of the college girl with the massive turd on her ass because she passed out and shit herself
      AND the other one when someone shit on her head.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        uhh might want to see that one chief

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I need more Kawakami cosplay photos, please.

  11. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    She kinda looks like Misaka from NHK

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I spelled it "Misaka" on purpose to see how new you were.
      Her name's actually "Misaki".

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        You mean Misaki my waifu for 15 years
        She’s a total b***h in the Manga and LN btw.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Why is rika crying?

  12. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Playing Persona 5 when you are almost 40 is a pretty weird experience. You are attracted to the "hags" instead of the kids but then you remember they are still ~15 years younger. Is this how e-girlgays feel like?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I've always been into older women, that's why I was an odd one out when in school/college etc.

  13. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    The Japanese legitimately think your life is over at your early 20s
    They consider 30 to be old.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Are they wrong?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yes

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        i think the nipponese just romanticize the frick out of their high school years because their culture dictates that you must work some shit soul crushing job with terrible hours for the rest of your life the second you graduate

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Isn't jap high school like 8 hours of lessons + 4 hours of cram school + 2 hours of homework + 2 hours of forced extracurriculars like piano lessons?

          Asian children are slaves, anime is just escapism from this dreary reality.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            if japs have so little free time then why does every anime have such shitty pacing

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Why do you think wish fulfillment exist, thus isekai and high school settings including young people relationships are so romanticized? Japs fricking hate adult life. The school uniform itself is a symbol to them.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >The Japanese legitimately think your life is over at your early 20s
      Because it is in nipland tbh.
      Your college years in nipland are peak life experience, professors do not give a shit and you are automatically passed regardless of how little effort you put in. In nip college you basically just party and sightsee with friends for 4 years before you join a keiretsu and sell your soul to slavery.

      t. Went to nip college and currently on my 6th year of keiretsu slavery.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      its over in terms of social life in japan
      at 30 you should have an established career which means you work 12hrs a day which means you have zero time to meet new people
      if you havent gotten married by 30 you're fricked

  14. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Wish fulfilment for Kissless vrigin Aka the majority of RPG players

  15. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    So she ended up duying alone, while secretly shlicking to Makoto and Joker having sex?

  16. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >You find your sister passed out drunk like this on your bed
    What do you do?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      realistically i'd probably just look up her skirt, but i'd love to grope the ass and breasts i've been fantasizing about my entire life

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        You're entire life? You're straightup broken.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          probably. so what?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      pull her off the bed by the legs and call her a dumb prostitute while dragging her across the floor to her own room

  17. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why don't Japanese people refuse to work excessive shifts, or perhaps just work three days a week? Surely there's enough of a counter culture for them to make friends.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Japanese have zero workers rights and can't protest for shit. I met a Japanese coworker at some dumpy cafe. I quit on the spot and he told me that you just can't ever do that in Japan. The idea of sticking it to a job that treats you poorly is still not justified.

  18. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Generally speaking, if a human is 25~ and is still a virginity it signals several potentials:

    -The person in question is extremely shy/anxious
    -The person in question has difficulties socializing, or perhaps just finds it tedious and so has limited opportunities
    -The person in question has an abhorrent personality that even autists find repellent
    -The person in question is simply asexual or repelled by sex

    Media across the world both vilifies and fetishizes virginity in this age range. Vilifies in that due to capitalist society anyone who is not a married working drone by 25 is deemed 'defective' and so must be mocked, fetishizes in that most people have what could be described as a corruption fetish, and an adult who is merely shy and totally inexperienced provides fuel for that. Who wouldn't love the idea of taking some adult man or woman who is culturally an archetype of purity and defiling them, or making them a depraved degenerate? Few people will admit this, but its the truth.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I would love a girl with a corruption fetish to start dating me. Not knowing that I'm already a fricking degrnerate thanks to being burned out on vanilla porn and just fapping. So that I could corrupt her beyond any repair myself.
      But that's not happening.

  19. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm gonna post 3 pics and then I have to go to work.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Good luck at work, wage-kun

  20. 10 months ago
    Anonymous
  21. 10 months ago
    Anonymous
    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Chouno

  22. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Still kissless hugless virgin (male)
    >I turn 25 in a couple months
    It's over for me, isn't it?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 28 years old.
      Still no sign of powers tho

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      its just beginning, m8

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >tfw turning 31 next month
      >still kissless virgin
      did hold hands with girls

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Manprostitute!

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        28 and kissless I come to Ganker to see people like you that are even older to feel better about myself

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      hahaha
      it's never over famalam
      captcha YMADGG

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I lost my virginity at 32 to a 20 year old
      If you are not completely repulsive and work on yourself you can get there friend
      Just gotta put in the effort
      There's always prostitutes too

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 36. Never touched a woman. I stopped caring at 25. Life's so much easier when you don't stress about pussy

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      sometimes it concerns me to see how presumably many people there are like me in these threads

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      yes.

  23. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    just tell them you are saving yourself for the lord

  24. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    38 year olds don't look like that.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      you're right, they're even more gorgeous

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      She isn't American, anon.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      A rare 38 year olds doesn't get walled

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >38 year olds don't look like that

      My mom is Korean and she looked like that until her mid 40s when I was like 20 and everyone around me seemed to have hard time believing we were a son and mother.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        mom ntr kino

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        When I was 14 years old I had people in school ask me who the hot girl I was seen with all the time and I was extremely confused until It took me a while to realize it was my mom they were talking about.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          i still get flustered thinking about when people used to think my sister and i were dating because she drove me to school every day. god i love incest

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Can I frick your sister?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Asians don't age

        That's a meme. They aren't different with us.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Go with my mom anywhere
        >People think im her husband

  25. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Why not? If she is fun to be around, don't look like a spawn of Cthulhu and aren't carrying around any diseases I would bang her as long as she would let me

  26. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    25 years old virgin too
    Difference is I could have actually lost it for years, I'm not bad looking and get frequently hit on by women, never kissed one by my own will but I got kissed by them and even ended up half naked in their bed (where I pretended to be asleep the whole night)
    I just find most women disgusting, I want to have my first time with someone I genuinely love after kissing her in the rain like in a romance movie, not with some random prostitute that saw more wiener than a urinal
    But I'm starting to lose hope

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you're looking for a "pure virgin" you are about 60-100 years late to that party. You don't have to settle for someone that has a higher body count than Stalin but you'll probably have to accept that your partner has made a few bad choices in their life and have ended up with a body count of 2 or 3.

      Would it really matter that much unless she is obviously carrying around baggage from it though? Like, if she is disease free, you love her and she truly loves you (which can be pretty hard to tell unless you have experience with relationships both platonic and romantic) why should you care?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Those guys are just really insecure or bad at bed which is why they reject a good woman for having a boyfriend in the past

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I wouldn't blame them for that, people have some really fricked up views on what sex is thanks to promiscuity being praised from most of modern society along with having their views even more twisted by fiction because they have literally nothing else to pull experience from.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I have a small wiener and am a virgin so if someone offered me sex I'd probably sweat bullets yeah

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              penis size genuinely does not matter unless it's so small that it's unusable

              Confidence isn't gained by losing your virginity though, I should know, I let a prostitute take mine and I'm still the same nervous wreck that I've always been

              it's not about the act itself, it's more about the fact that you were able to court a woman. that validation breeds confidence

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >it's not about the act itself
                I wish that someone would have told me that sooner, I would have saved 200 bucks and I wouldn't have had to go and get my peepee checked for syphilis. Thankfully it was a false alarm but I got really spooked since the condom broke at the end

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                lmao that blows man. but hey at least you got some experience for next time

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >unless it's so small that it's unusable
                Nah it's a solid 4 inches but still

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                When was it established for most Europe? America actually was 21 until Nam' apparently. Needed more boys for the grinder. So if it was before, maybe it was a case of Europe coming to consensus because it makes sense. If they're going to be up in eachother's business with the EU might as well put down some brass tacks and try to have a commonstance on who the frick is a full citizen. Then America saw it as a reasonable compromise to lower the age of majority based on their precedence. If afterwards, then it's the same reasoning but America is the precedence. As for consent, it's a lot more difficult to have several nations of different levels of sexual attitudes coming to consensus
                [...]
                A literal prostitute or a bawd? Because DUH, only a moron would think that literally having sex is what gives you confidence. It was always about being able to be seen as attractive enough to frick. Maybe if you were a literal teenager who has a simplistic enough mindset to think "put penis in vegana, means I'm the man" but even if you're a moron as an adult you still probably have more complex idiot thoughts

                Hence I specified "validation" which is only possible by losing the virginity in a not-strictly-transactional and consensual way.

                I was able to attract and sex no less than 3 women in my life, but I did some really fricked up shit to myself and totally destroyed my self confidence. Now I feel like a weird butthole all the time and I start to physically shake when a girl shows interest in me. I get so nervous that I actually go into flight-or-flight and nearly have a panic attack. Feels pretty bad, man.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Now I feel like a weird butthole all the time and I start to physically
                Can't be that bad.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                It is. My hands and head vibrate, because I'm trying not to show how nervous I am. I function more or less normally talking to guys, but I feel so undeserving of love from a female that the mere possibility makes me freak out.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                I meant what is it exactly you did that was so bad it screwed up your confidence?

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Got high on meth and sucked off a homeless guy, then several months later got high on meth and fentanyl and ended up running for my life from another homeless guy who wanted me to suck his dick, who had a gun. Along with various other humiliations and disgusting acts brought about by hard drug use. I've since gotten my shit together, but I still feel like a junkie fricking waste.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Would it really matter that much unless she is obviously carrying around baggage from it though?
        Yes. Women literally pair bond to you when you take their virginity. It’s why the rate of divorce skyrockets with even 1 premarital sexual partner for women.

        Anyone who’s taken a woman’s virginity knows, if you take her virginity you can treat her like complete shit, gas light the frick out of her, even get a little physical and she’ll still be loyal to you. This is not true of promiscuous bawds.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >if you take her virginity you can treat her like complete shit, gas light the frick out of her, even get a little physical and she’ll still be loyal to you.
          Perhaps women don't want to date or even frick you because you speak of being able to physically and psychologically abuse them as a positive factor.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Which is why so many high school relationships last. Wait a minute......

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don't care that much if she had partners before me, I just don't know how to meet "good" women naturally outside of bar and social media where the party prostitutes are the majority

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          You and me both anon, be sure to spread the word if you ever figure that shit out. The most I've been able to sus out is what this anon says:

          A significant problem with a lot of men and women is that they do not know how to meet or date people. I'm a socially awkward autist.

          Media paints a picture of bars and dating apps that genuinely does not work even for 99% of normies. Most successful relationships actually start in unexpected places and grow organically from friendships. This applies to the online world too. I met my wife on discord, and that's not uncommon. I didn't explicitly seek out a relationship, it just happened.

  27. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    My porn history says I'm willing to go much higher, though I'm afraid of the idea that I could break some older woman's heart whose out there desperate to find a man to finally settle down with and then I just end up playing out my coguar fetish.

  28. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    When you turn 25 your brain essentially starts dying from age.

    That's what unironically a 20 year old bawd once told me

  29. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    A significant problem with a lot of men and women is that they do not know how to meet or date people. I'm a socially awkward autist.

    Media paints a picture of bars and dating apps that genuinely does not work even for 99% of normies. Most successful relationships actually start in unexpected places and grow organically from friendships. This applies to the online world too. I met my wife on discord, and that's not uncommon. I didn't explicitly seek out a relationship, it just happened.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I met my wife on discord
      what the frick? how

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        She's fat.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Tgirl servers

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >tfw no tgirl wife
          thanks for ruining my night anon

          Mutual interests in a server about 100% Orange Juice (the game).

          Fun fact, most women on discord don't actually advertise the fact because they don't want to be harassed.
          [...]
          No.

          >Mutual interests in a server about 100% Orange Juice
          talk about finding love in an unexpected place, god damn. maybe i should stop being so scared of discord

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Mutual interests in a server about 100% Orange Juice (the game).

        Fun fact, most women on discord don't actually advertise the fact because they don't want to be harassed.

        She's fat.

        No.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >100% Orange Juice
          you met her through that hellfest of a game of all things? I am speaking as somebody who actually plays it once in a while, it's less an insult and more an observation
          is she autistic

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >is she autistic
            She plays 100% OJ and joined a discord about it.
            Do fish swim? Do spiders spin webs? Of course she's a fricking autist.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don't have any friends, only leave my room once a week for groceries, don't have any social media, live off disability support for my autism and don't have any hobby outside of anime and video game
      how do I meet my future gf?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Most successful relationships actually start in unexpected places and grow organically from friendships
      It's a shame a lot of women I've met don't see it this way even though it's the optimal way of progressing relationships. They seem to separate friendship with relationship and don't evolve one into the other when the time's right.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >They seem to separate friendship with relationship and don't evolve one into the other when the time's right.
        I hate to break it to you but you’re probably ugly and/or a massive autist because this is definitely not true lol.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Says you. You're probably an orbiter who thinks they got lucky with sloppy seconds when really she's the only thing on call ready to frick that diseased pussy of hers.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >women don't date their friends and thats a bad thing
            >yes they do
            >w-well if they do thats a bad thing!

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              Who are you quoting?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I met my wife off a random meetup on Ganker lmao
      Share a lot of the same interests and we hit it off.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        why the hell would you want to meet a Ganker user in real life? especially if you're a woman?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      This, there's been an unfortunate mixup with how many people assume dating should work and it results in shallow, short lived experiences
      How it should be:
      >meet someone, often through friends/school/work/hobbies >experience things together, get to truly know someone >develop feelings naturally over a moderate period of time >consider dating
      How it is now:
      >contrive a meeting >attempt to develop a shallow understanding of other person over 1-3 dates >force an attempt at romantic/sexual interaction >potentially develop proper feelings at a later date

      A whole generation of people are being robbed of the intoxicating sweet experience of naturally developing feelings for someone.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        If you try to actually get to know a woman and just talk as friends do she will get impatient and the 500 other men she has on retainer will ask her out instead. Such is life in the digital age.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      My white friend has a fetish for thicc black chicks with big breasts and recently hit it off with a girl that perfectly fits all of his tastes and they get along SUPER well, talk every single day, just started hanging out irl, and he found her just totally out of the blue one day on discord. Super fricking happy for him. But yeah, this shit just happens sometimes, it's wild.

  30. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    LukeGAWD fricked her, but he ain't kiss

  31. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Imagine going on a school trip and your teacher is dressed like this?

  32. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I am 21, I lost my v to a 27 year old Moroccan girl a few months ago

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Take HIV test now

  33. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Because absolutely no man wants used goods but some want hags.

  34. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I feel a lot better about not being in a relationship after noticing that some women actually lusted after me, I just don't lusted after them

    These women were Black single moms. No matter how shit you are, as long as you're a single white male, they might be interested in you

  35. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Have you anons ever touched a sleeping girl before?

  36. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >studied hard
    >Had a shit office job but make good money
    >Have a son with wife
    >He is sever autist
    >He is 9yo
    >Can't talk only makes weird noises
    >Only play with baby toys
    >He have to wear diapers because somedays he refuses to go to the bath
    >Some days he becomes agresive amd destroys the house
    >He only sleeps 3-4h
    >No sex with wife (sex drive goes to 0 when you don't sleep a full night for years)
    >Only fun thing of my life is playing some vidya in the bus to work
    >Regret not being a comfy happy neet.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >start reading this
      >get confused as to why you have a son
      >realize it's the schizo copypasta when you say he's autistic
      Man

  37. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Because just like Dragons a Girl like this dont exist in Real Life

  38. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    There are some 38 year olds I would fugg (for example, Finnish prime minister Sanna Marin is 37½ and I'd frick her). But only for free. Since in actuality I can't get sex for free, the threshold is around 25.

  39. 10 months ago
    Anonymous
  40. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I just want to hug someone
    Last time I was in the packed tram and some girl glued herself to me and I genuinely had to force myself not to cry because it was the first time since my childhood I felt another human being' skin on me

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous
  41. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    The older and more virgin I become, the more I start to sympathize with those Epstein island Black folk.

  42. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Turning 27 in December
    >KHHV
    But ya know at this point, I'm fine with it, I've accepted it's not happening and I won't do anything to try and make it happen

  43. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why Ganker is so full of losers?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because we're just like you.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Where else could we be open about our failure at life?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >asks this about a site that was initially created as a place for nerds, otakus and other kinds of outcasts to just come together and post shit anonymously
      the place might have changed in the recent 10 years or so but still

  44. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I advocate for half of all incels to be put on HRT to become wives for the other half.

    I will not elaborate.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous
  45. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Most of you are autists, so just find autist women. It's not hard.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I tried and she told me she was a lesbian

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Find some autistic twink to frick then just to own her

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Where do you find autist women? Especially ones that aren't autist men?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Discord servers that are centered and focused on niche topics. Think stuff like 100% Orange Juice, or Dragon Age fan servers.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I'm a boomer, I don't know how discord works in the first place

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            If you're actually a boomer than you should just daddymax and you will have women and men literally throw themselves at you.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              Not literally, and I'm a babyface so I probably won't pull the daddy shit until I start going grey.
              I'm just a massive tech/social moron I didn't even get facebook when that was a thing. So moving onto social media for younger generations is even more foreign to me.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              What the frick is "Daddymax"?

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          can confirm. literally every good relationship i've ever had, romantic or not, happened by complete accident. i'd just randomly decide to join a discord server for whatever thing i'm into at the moment and i'd meet someone i'd otherwise never meet in a million years. the important thing is that you don't force it, i think

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            > he gets in conversations, most likely on voice, with randoms and thinks hes one of us

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              >and thinks hes one of us
              Normalgays run this shithole now, Anon. It's sad but it's true.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              i never said vc

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              In the 100% Orange Juice server I was in I never entered voice calls.

              >unable to intitiate or take part in text conversations on discord
              You're talking to multiple people right now, it's not disimilar. It's also not difficult when someone says something interesting to just start talking them in dms.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I've noticed in threads like this that the most brain rotted people will venhemently deny that this is a thing that happens.

            Pick up artistry/red pill/mgtow and assorted incel brain rot strategies to find women are all based on the idea that forming a friendship with a woman in the first place is impossible, and additionally center around "forcing it", basically dating app tier strategies.

            Reality is that if you keep open to the possibility you will find people like yourself who may be interested in strange places. It literally just happens randomly from then on.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              okay except i'm 28 and i've never "randomly" met a woman who i would like to spend the rest of my life with, now what

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Odds are you never even got to know them beyond a surface level.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                you mean random strangers on the street, or the one obese girl i worked with at walmart? yeah no shit

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Apparently your brain is so rotted by red pill pick up artistry that you don't even understand what I mean by 'random'.

                No, you idiot, I'm not talking about trying to strike up conversation with someone randomly on the street, nobody does that. I'm talking about meeting someone via mutual interests (often online), slowly becoming friends, and then possibly more.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                no, i know exactly what you mean, and i'm saying it didn't happen to me and probably won't unless i go out of my way to get it. you're a fricking clown, a fool, who thinks that because you got lucky, that means it must happen to everyone else too. your ignorance pisses me off, hence the sarcastic replies

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Dragon Age fan servers
          Holy fricking EW.
          Thats a sure way to get landwhales or crazy libtard feminists.
          Stay away from Bioware fandoms, STAY AWAY.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          can confirm. literally every good relationship i've ever had, romantic or not, happened by complete accident. i'd just randomly decide to join a discord server for whatever thing i'm into at the moment and i'd meet someone i'd otherwise never meet in a million years. the important thing is that you don't force it, i think

          I've noticed in threads like this that the most brain rotted people will venhemently deny that this is a thing that happens.

          Pick up artistry/red pill/mgtow and assorted incel brain rot strategies to find women are all based on the idea that forming a friendship with a woman in the first place is impossible, and additionally center around "forcing it", basically dating app tier strategies.

          Reality is that if you keep open to the possibility you will find people like yourself who may be interested in strange places. It literally just happens randomly from then on.

          In the 100% Orange Juice server I was in I never entered voice calls.

          >unable to intitiate or take part in text conversations on discord
          You're talking to multiple people right now, it's not disimilar. It's also not difficult when someone says something interesting to just start talking them in dms.

          there are no biological girls on the internet
          online relationships are not real relationships
          stop fricking spouting this shit saying you can get a fricking girlfriend on discord or Ganker or anywhere online
          are you out of your fricking mind

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >there are no biological girls on the internet
            i dont care
            >online relationships are not real relationships
            i dont care
            >stop fricking spouting this shit saying you can get a fricking girlfriend on discord or Ganker or anywhere online
            yes you can. dont give up

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              That's a lot of cope.
              >online relationships are not real relationships
              lmao do you think that we got married while in an online relationship? It's a starting point you doomer.

              >there are no biological girls on the internet
              moronic boomer this isnt 2007, roasties are everywhere on the internet now
              even on Ganker we have /cgl/ is literally a 90% female (biological) board

              My friend literally met his gf while playing League of Legends.
              [...]
              Then what the frick do you want, some pity from internet strangers? You won't get any here. That is a horrible mindset, where you are such a failure that you know you are a failure and you just want some pity to feel better about yourself. Or if you want some (You)s, then here is one from me, but you won't get anymore.

              a relationship with no real life physical interaction is not a fricking relationship
              text on a screen means nothing and does nothing
              there are no fricking girls on the internet, anyone claiming to be a girl is an attention prostitute that should shut the frick up first and a troony second

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                They live together, you braindead moron. Noone said anything about "online only relationship".

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                then how come I've played online video games my entire life and am still a virgin then?

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >They live together
                So he claims

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yes anon, I would lie about my friend's experiences. Not even about mine, my friend's.In a thread where people vent about their emotional and sexual frustrations. All for a single (You)s. If I wanted (You)s I would just say something about trannies.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                There are many reasons Black folk lie on here. Doesn't have to be for (You)s.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            That's a lot of cope.
            >online relationships are not real relationships
            lmao do you think that we got married while in an online relationship? It's a starting point you doomer.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >there are no biological girls on the internet
            moronic boomer this isnt 2007, roasties are everywhere on the internet now
            even on Ganker we have /cgl/ is literally a 90% female (biological) board

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            My friend literally met his gf while playing League of Legends.

            >Then start caring.
            Why? What does it fricking matter to me what happens in the future I have no investment in it? You do not just "decide" to care about shit, you have to have material reasons or other interests to actually motivate you to care about anything, including the future. I have no interests beyond burning time and doing shit like drawing my autismal worldbuilding bs for fun. Nothing that extends beyond myself or ties me to other people.

            > I've seen the most genetic of failures getting married and having 3 children.
            By the virtue that they have children they are already genetically more "fit" than I am. The only people who matter in the long run are the ones that have children because their genetics are what carry to the future. If you fail to reproduce, you fail at the task that every single one of your ancestors succeeded at since the dawn of life on this planet. There is no greater mark of failure than that.

            > If you aren't it is "the society" that failed you, it is only your own fault.
            No shit? Where did I blame society? I never have blamed anyone besides myself.

            Then what the frick do you want, some pity from internet strangers? You won't get any here. That is a horrible mindset, where you are such a failure that you know you are a failure and you just want some pity to feel better about yourself. Or if you want some (You)s, then here is one from me, but you won't get anymore.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              >Then what the frick do you want, some pity from internet strangers?
              Black person where did I ask for pity? You were the one that started responding to my vent post to give some self help advice.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            bruh after you meet online you can meet irl
            there's not some kind of forcefield preventing you from doing so

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              I don't have a car or a license
              what part of no girls on the internet do you not fricking understand

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                okay so you're poor and that's why you cope pretend you have no chances online anyway because you know that if you did you wouldn't be able to follow through on it? suit yourself, nice defeatism with predictable result

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Be stay at home loser
      >Somehow try to find another stay at home loser of the opposite gender
      Not going to happen, be like telling two buckets of rats who won't leave to find the other bucket in a sea of buckets

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah it's one of those things that is incredibly obvious when you think about it. It's not that stay at home loser autistic women don't exist, it's just that they stay at home just like you do.

  46. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Le daily failed normalgay thread
    Nobody cares, Black folk. Either go get some roastie prostitute or take the 2Dpill already. Christ.

  47. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    I'll be 38 in 3 years so I suppose I would be okay with a little bit of an older girl

  48. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have a corruption fetish involving virgin men.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      based virgin prude too scared of handholding who fetishizes being a gangbang dom bawd

  49. 10 months ago
    Anonymous
  50. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    they are all brain-damaged pedos

  51. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was a virgin freak until 27 and now at 34 I have a wife and a baby on the way.
    Don't lose hope

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      it's not your kid.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        stop projecting your country on others, ameriburger

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          ????
          France more than the rest of this list, Germany, uk, Spain etc all have this issue
          Then korea, china, and Japan
          Ffs even in sand bag land women are still getting melted for being slooty

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Kid is black. Mark my words

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I was telling myself the same then I became a lonely old man.

  52. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    26 here on road to wizardhood
    I pussied out of asking any girls out in hs and since then I've only asked out 3 women who all said no and now I know no women.

  53. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw the incels were right all along and women are starting to say the quite part out loud

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >tfw it turns out there actually was a reason that every successful human civilization for tens of thousands of years up until the last century or so had severe restrictions on the rights and social behavior of women

  54. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >where do you find autistic intelligent women who are as much of an anxious mess as you are
    the average phd program contains these types in droves.

  55. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's funny, if the average man wasn't so willing to date literally any female, all men would have an easier time getting dates, since women wouldn't have a constant flood of male attention. But the average man can't do that, he must hit on every female he sees, it's in his nature, and thus he dooms himself and his fellow man.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      every guy should just jerk off when they feel horny over a girl and see if they still feel that way once they cum

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I literally do this as a test when I start thinking about asking a girl out. If I don't really feel like doing it anymore, I don't. So far, I have never asked a girl out.

  56. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Most people are not worth it.

    I've had mid tier 5/10 girl to like me, but they gave me psycho stalker girlfriend vibes, so I never told them yes when they invited me.

    Also, single mother are easy, but they have a lot of baggage. Look up 'why you shouldn't date a single mom'.

  57. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    this thread is making me cry
    I've been a shut in neet for nearly 8 years, I never even leave my house and I don't talk to anyone or have any friends
    I'm a virgin and have never been in a relationship, and I can't even try because I'm so mentally ill I cannot leave the house or talk to anyone
    I'm so horribly lonely and my family is terrible so I don't even have them to fall back on
    I've never been loved by anyone in my life
    I want to die but suicide is too much effort
    I've never had a job and my parents are poor and in their late 60s and shitty yet I'm completely dependent on them
    I just want a fricking girlfriend
    I don't care about anything else
    I just want someone to tell me I'm able to be loved and appreciate me for existing so that I can fricking live my life and feel any emotion besides complete emptiness

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I think what you need is a friend before you get a girlfriend

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        this thread is making me cry
        I've been a shut in neet for nearly 8 years, I never even leave my house and I don't talk to anyone or have any friends
        I'm a virgin and have never been in a relationship, and I can't even try because I'm so mentally ill I cannot leave the house or talk to anyone
        I'm so horribly lonely and my family is terrible so I don't even have them to fall back on
        I've never been loved by anyone in my life
        I want to die but suicide is too much effort
        I've never had a job and my parents are poor and in their late 60s and shitty yet I'm completely dependent on them
        I just want a fricking girlfriend
        I don't care about anything else
        I just want someone to tell me I'm able to be loved and appreciate me for existing so that I can fricking live my life and feel any emotion besides complete emptiness

        Yeah dude no b***h can motivate you like a good bro can.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      whenever i see anons like you i can't help but think "i can fix him"

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      A girlfriend isn't going to fix your situation, a job is.
      There's no point in getting a gf if you can't pay for anything and go on dates with her. Frick you gonna do, sit in your smelly NEET room with her all day?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        yes?
        I don't want to go on "dates" where I have to spend money and go outside doing shit I would never do normally and that freaks me out or makes me uncomfortable
        I also don't have a license or car so I can't go anywhere or work even if I was capable and wanted to

        [...]
        Yeah dude no b***h can motivate you like a good bro can.

        I think what you need is a friend before you get a girlfriend

        you are full of shit
        I have never had a genuine connection with anyone, anyone I've called a "friend" has abandoned me and never truly was someone I could be comfortable with
        having a girl to just wordlessly cuddle me every day would give me more motivation to live and succeed than anything else in the world

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >girl to just wordlessly cuddle me every day
          Anon those aren't real? Like realistically that absolutely won't happen, if you got that dependant she'd probably leave you, not because her feelings would disappear but because that's not something people can constantly keep up especially if you aren't improving yourself, what you're describing is a mother figure which probably would be pretty apparent to them

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Having motivation to live and succeed is prerequisite to having gf. It will never happen before the fact. You will have build yourself to be attractive. What do you have, why would anyone connect with you? You will have to solve that puzzle first before anything else is possible.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm good at video games
            I have long hair
            I would be very affectionate if anyone would just give me the opportunity

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              I'm sorry my friend, that's just not enough. You're living in dreamland. There's a way out but you need to start clawing your way out. Right fricking now. It's going to really suck, but it must be done.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I know it's obvious and a hard task, but you should start with fixing your problems and learning to love yourself

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I cannot love myself until someone else loves me and proves that I am loveable
        I get no validation or pride from myself and never have my entire life
        I need other people to validate me

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Any therapist would tell you the direct opposite of this
          No one will love you if you can't love yourself

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I don't care what a therapist would say
            that's the truth and nothing will change it

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              >that's the truth and nothing will change it
              This is your problem right here, this shit attitude.
              Why would someone love you if you are nothing? why would someone love you if you don't love yourself?
              If you don't love yourself its because you are not worth it. Love yourself doesn't fricking mean "love yourself despite your shitty behaviors", no, it means get to a point where you are the person you want to be, or at least try to get there, then you will start to love yourself and someone else will.
              But alright, don't improve, keep eating garbage, keep being a stinky neet, keep being a nobody.
              No girl cared yesterday, no girl will care tomorrow.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          stfu moron watch evangelion

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          this is a story you tell yourself
          no part of this is substantiated by anything
          the love of other people will not fill the void in your soul, that's a pipedream

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don't go for GF anon, what you need is therapy and a actual friendship. You are already speaking about your problems on a (not so anonymous) anonymous website, try to use anonymity to your advantage if it helps you come out of your shell.

      Try creating a Discord/Twitter/Reddit/YouTube/Steam or whatever persona that doesn't tie back to your normal life at all and use that to act like the person that you want to be. Sooner or later the feedback from that will start affecting you personally in some way and once you feel ready you can start applying that experience in other parts of your life. Just keep trying anon and know that you are not alone, even if you feel alone there are countless other people out there that are going through the same thing

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >therapy

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I've tried that, I've even opened up to people through stuff like discord but they always get sick of me and stop talking to me or just degenerate into single word responses and never want to do anything with me like play games and I feel like I've just wasted my time even trying
        I've been abandoned too many times to try and keep up talking to people who don't care about me

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          That is why you should at the very least try therapy, literally anything you can afford and/or that you feel comfortable doing. See it as training exercises for real relationships since any good brain drainer will be able to find a way to atleast put you on the right path. It's what worked for me and I was in a fairly similar position to yours 5ish years ago

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Therapy only works on npcs.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              The point of therapy is not even to really fix your mental issues anyways, it is to gasslight you into a state of copium where you can engage with the work force productively again.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                True, but only because the definition of healthy and functional means to be dependent on the state to feed you currency in return for your exploited labor.

                There is a true health that therapy can still assist with as a side-effect. If only to prompt your own self-exploration and give an improvement oriented mindset. That said, you can truly figure all of this shit out on your own if you actually take the time to do so and aren't completely delusional.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              I'm not an NPC but it worked on me

              The point of therapy is not even to really fix your mental issues anyways, it is to gasslight you into a state of copium where you can engage with the work force productively again.

              This is kind of true and one of the first hurdles that you need to get over before therapist can actually help you. They aren't actually fixing anything, what they are doing is untangling your mind in some way and then build scaffolding around it so that you can start repairing it yourself while they stay at the back to make sure that you stick to the plan and that you keep getting the motivation/mental energy you need to keep working on it until you are at a point where they aren't needed anymore

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >that you feel comfortable doing
            I don't even feel comfortable buying things at a register in a gas station because I have to talk to the cashier
            also I'm going to be too old to be on my dad's health insurance in like 2 months and he made fun of me when I even hinted I think I might have some kind of mental illness and he would have to be involved because I can't drive myself
            therapy is not happening

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              Online therapy exists for a reason anon and would you rather continue living with your problems as they exist now or would you like to atleast reach a point where you don't feel so bad before you die?

              This shit takes time, for some it takes weeks for others it takes decades but you will never know which one you are until you try. Try to watch some of this guys stuff, I can't personally vouch for him but I know a few people that can and most of the stuff he does is free of charge, it might point you in the right direction: youtube.com/watch?v=YuLfFqPFrkc&t=8s&pp=ygUKR0cgdGhlcmFweQ%3D%3D

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      No one has ever improved their lives without trying this

      is just doomerism. If you are socially awkward for whatever reason or trauma talking is trying.
      Try, talk to people, for the love of god, make male friends, normal male friends not other neets, talk to women in a non desperate way, get a haircut, groom yourself, bath regularly, use moderate lotion.
      Get a job, that should be your primary objetive, how do you want a fricking girlfriend if you don't have a job? women are expensive, and no, she's not a prostitute for demanding your time and some of your money. Lower your standards a bit, improve anon, IMPROVE.
      IF you didn't brush your teeth yesterday do it now, do something.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >she's not a prostitute for demanding your time and some of your money.
        You're right, that makes her a gold digger

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >normalBlack personhomosexual paragraph
        Tried that 10 years ago. Failed. Have accepted my fate. My destiny to be a wizard.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >be shut-in NEET as well
      >feel like I'm way too used to being alone at this point to handle a relationship
      >feel like I don't really get lonely like other people do, though it might just be because I'm autistic

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I was a neet for 11 years, wasted my entire 20s and ascended to wizard status. Unless you are rich or you have skills to become rich when you're forced out into the world you are basically super fricked my man

      you need to rip off the band-aid asap and do something now, not saying it's going to make you happy or anything it's just basic survival

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        do you have anything specific to say
        I've read posts like yours literally thousands of times at this point
        it doesn't mean anything to me

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          he's already saying something specific to you, you're just dismissing it
          act or die, act or die, act or die
          get it through your thick self-absorbed skull

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I want specific advice
            what exactly do I do
            what job do I get
            where do I go
            what does "super fricked" mean specifically what exactly will happen
            I don't want this vague bullshit that isn't actually saying anything

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              we can't give shit like that, we don't know you
              YOU KNOW YOU, look it the frick up, ask your parents, ask people you know, check job magazines, check government employment services, check welfare options, check therapy, whatever else
              super fricked just means that when your parents' income flow stops and your government doesn't run a charity for disasters like you, you will simply enter the irreversible realm of poverty with all of its obvious consequences

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              >what exactly do I do
              Get a job for some basic confidence
              >what job do I get
              Literally any job that's not illegal. It will teach you something. If you don't like it get another job. And now something really important: get good at your job. If you can't get good at it or there's no room to get better try another job. As many times as it takes. Many people get stuck on maintenance mode, but you'll need to improve. Secret of success is that small things will feedback into bigger successes. Start simple and your ambition will increase with success. Humans are hardwired to work, don't fight it.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                you say this like getting a job is somehow simple and not fricking impossible

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                It not impossible but you will have to pay for it. I got my job working literally for free, as a trainee/intern. For 6 months I received no salary, only what I got from government welfare. Paid for my own bus transportation out of pocket. Still did my job well enough for the employer to want to start paying me afterwards. Not much but if you start taking responsibility for important tasks and do them well the boss will have a hard time replacing you even if he wanted, so it's easier for him to pay you. I'm now working in IT with ridiculous salary but still KHHV. Regardless I'm in much better position mentally.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                How'd you get that internship? University? You gotta realize these Neets don't even have a degree.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Employment office has website where they offer various training programs. No college needed. I had to submit 1 minute video application which was insanely hard for a turbosperg like me. Can't remember how many takes it took. But I got in one eventually.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >can't remember how many takes it took
                is it because it always felt wrong and your autismo wanted it to be perfect?

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                That's part of it but I had a very hard time looking even a camera in the eye, let alone a person. Still have trouble but not so bad anymore.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Oh, that's neat and helpful. Thanks for the clarification, anon.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                You have a computer science degree for that? Mine is a worthless arts one

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                I had a STEM degree (not related to the job applied) which definitely helped but plenty other accepted trainee "classmates" had some bullshit useless ones too and some had pretty much none.

  58. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    You family line continued for thousands of years so you could see the modern world... and now it ends.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      if my ancestors had hentai you bet your sweet fricking bippy i wouldn't exist

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nope. My brother and sister have had kids so the bloodline lives on. My other brother and sister don't have any kids and are probably too old for it now. They're normies. Nobody considers them incel losers because they're unmarried and without kids. I feel no shame.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      None of my brothers are having kids either, but at least my uncle did.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >and now it ends.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      My ancestors didn't have the social deck stacked against them with porn, porn, porn, social media (and all that entails) and more porn. Society is poisoned in a way that it has never been before so I doubt anyone who lived 200 years ago would be any better at this shit than I am

  59. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >girl is 25+ years old
    >kissless virgin
    >no one wants to date her

  60. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Why is it so common in Japanese media?
    Because it's relatively common in Japanese society.
    And to add to it, people fantasise about finding one of the good ones before even if they're pushing the expiry date. Making their prevalence in media even higher.

    Still a bit of a niche media concept relatively broadly speaking. But it explains their relevance.

  61. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I had a normal-ish social life around age 15-17, had a girlfriend and even had sex once. That was the only time I had sex. I'm 33 now.

  62. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    You may only reply to this post if you're a Wizard.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Can someone enlighten me to what the requirements are for becoming a wizard? How long to I have to stay a kissless virgin in order to achieve wizardhood? Are there any other requirements?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Virgin til' 30. Simple as.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          So basically just continue with my life's trajectory. Gotcha.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      37 yo wizard here.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Reporting in learning advance magic missile tomorrow.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Chaos is the only true answer.

  63. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    comfy thread
    my heart goes out to all of you lonely people
    you're not alone in this hell

  64. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    because it's a male fantasy and japs aren't cucked to only make appealing media for women or degenerates

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      What male fantasizes about getting a fricked up middle-aged femcel?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        me

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Cute woman who's exhausted of life but totally wants to frick
        Yeah totally

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I NEED a femcel gf and I'm not ashamed to admit it

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        yeah haha what man would want a virgin woman hahaha that'd be so silly

  65. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 26 and I waited long enough. Then I realised my country has a vast prostitution options. So I lost my kissless virginity with an expensive escort and became a prostitutehound. There is a price range where they are not quite a town bycicle yet also not arrogant, cold b***hes. Besides, I'm not that ugly, just autistic and socially inept.
    >b-but prostitutes
    All women are prostitutes. Actual hookers are at the very least skilled in what they do and sometimes even nice to talk to. No social pressure, no relationship bullshit. No care about your hierarchy garbage of chads/alphas/betas/incels/whatever social homosexualry you come up with. Just pure lust and gorging on the warm, supple masses of gentle female flesh.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >paying for sex
      You can cope all you want but that is pathetic as hell. At least have the balls to rape a b***h.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Women WANT you to pay for sex.
        Hell, why do you think Onlyfans exist?

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >giving women what they want
          Like I said, pathetic.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yes. It is called a transaction.
            >Buy groceries
            >Giving the grocer what they want
            Pathetic

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              The grocer worked hard. Women do not.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Scan item put in bag
                Lmao

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                They don't even put it into bags where I live, they just shove items back into a spare cart

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Exactly.

                Work isn't even that hard but women would sooner sully their honor than do even a modicum of work. It's no coincidence that only once women entered the workforce are we suddenly hearing all about how hard work is, how "work life balance" needs to be a thing, how working from home needs to be a thing, how four day work weeks need to be a thing, etc., etc. Women are just born lazy and will never not be lazy. That's why women never achieve anything and the world was built by men.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Just pure lust and gorging on the warm, supple masses of gentle female flesh
      I just frick them because they needed my meat.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I did the same at 32, but I quickly graduated from escorts to sugar dating.

      See, most girls don't want to think of themselves as prostitutes: the fact that only a relatively small minority are selling themselves despite in a sense having as good hourly wages as CEOs is evidence enough. On the other hand, most girls don't actually mind dating average people: it's the 80:20 gender imbalance on Tinder that might cause you to think that, in actuality there are lots and lots of couples that aren't the slightest bit looksmatched (when traits other than pure looks, the only one available in online dating, may work their magic). Turns out these factors together create a loophole: you pay, not for sex per se (after all, the girl you're dating doesn't see herself as a prostitute), but for skipping the queue of potential dates (because they actually don't mind going on a date, it's just that Tinder algorithm would never bring you two together).

      The benefits, as I see it, are as follows:
      >You get the same treatment as a date found off Tinder or bars or whatever would get: "real" non-faked GFE, and ordinary girls often are less inhibited and more adventurous than sex workers are (for understandable safety reasons)
      >You get to try out (and enjoy) dating and not just sex. Of course you can take most escorts to a restraurants also, but they charge by time
      >It's cheaper, at least if you go for longer meetings.
      >There are more younger (18-25) girls in sugar dating scene than sex work
      >Like escorts, long-term commitment isn't necessary

      Of course, it's more difficult than prostitutemongering: by its very nature the girls don't come available around the clock with with full list of services and prices and you have to negotiate and court them a bit (but on faceroll pay2win difficulty), but I think it's well worth it. I have met enough top-rated escorts to know what faked affection looks like, and I'm pretty sure some random teenager isn't better at it

  66. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    This fricking thread.
    >KHV at 26
    >Unironically haven't talked to, interacted with or even been in the same room with a female in a good decade
    >No one has cared enough to even ask themselves "what's wrong with him"
    When I was a teenager I used to say I hate women because I thought "negative attention is still attention" but that didn't work out and now I hate them for real.

  67. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 31 and speaking to a 19 year old who seems infatuated with me. I told someone and they looked disgusted. Is the age gap too big? She's relly sexy and funny and I enjoy spending time with her.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      the rule is that 1/2(your age) + 7 is the youngest you can date without it being creepy, so by that standard yeah she's a little bit too young. but you're both adults so at the end of the day the age gap doesn't really matter

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        The rule is whatever the rule of law in your country is, actually.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          as far as the law is concerned the second a girl turns 18 (or whatever it is) they're free to get fricked by old ugly bastards as much as they want, i'm talking about rules in a social context

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm about to study advanced math and physics to prove how and why 14+7=12.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          wait a minute... those numbers don't add up right...

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      People will recoil in disgust and call you a cradle robber at an age gap more than like 5 years but I'm pretty sure the stigma is from jealous older women than anything else

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >1.-You're doing nothing wrong
      >2.- The person you told about it likely voted for Biden, in fact I'm sure of it, so leftist Black person opinions don't matter
      >3.- Just make sure you have a way to blackmail her back when she tries to say you sexually assaulted her to ruin your life for fun when she's bored (It's only a matter of time, all females are scum)
      Oh, and remember to get the frick out of there if she's not a virgin.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      (31 + 7) / 2 = 19
      At the very borderline, but should be fine.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        the rule is that 1/2(your age) + 7 is the youngest you can date without it being creepy, so by that standard yeah she's a little bit too young. but you're both adults so at the end of the day the age gap doesn't really matter

        as far as the law is concerned the second a girl turns 18 (or whatever it is) they're free to get fricked by old ugly bastards as much as they want, i'm talking about rules in a social context

        who gives a frick about what roasties and normalBlack folk think
        the only thing that should matter is that you don't go to fricking jail, which is already bullshit enough when girls are mature in their early teens anyway

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >who gives a frick about what roasties and normalBlack folk think
          yeah, that's why i said that since they're both adults it's fine at the end of the day. you'll have to deal with weird looks from time to time but if you really love her then you won't care

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Is it legal?
      Does it make you happy?
      If the answer to both is yes, then why the frick do you care what other jealous people are going to say.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm currently dating a 19yo and I'm 29 (I usually date within two years of my age)
      >people with dyed hair and alternative genders will loath you to a near psychotic level
      >a large portion of women and a smaller portion of men, especially under 30, will likely think you're a creep if they don't know you to be an alright guy
      >older men will secretly think it's cool
      >people who actually have things going on in their lives wont really care (eg. actual productive adults), but may do a bit of performative indignation.
      If you treat her well and aren't a complete drop-kick then people will come around but you're definitely going to cop an amount of stigma. It's one of the most uniquely emotionally draining relationships I've had due to 90% external reasons.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Tell them they pay taxes to pedos.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Is the age gap too big?
      No, and anyone who says otherwise is jealous. Ignore them man, you're both adults and if you're both happy with it then that's all that matters.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm currently dating a 19yo and I'm 29 (I usually date within two years of my age)
      >people with dyed hair and alternative genders will loath you to a near psychotic level
      >a large portion of women and a smaller portion of men, especially under 30, will likely think you're a creep if they don't know you to be an alright guy
      >older men will secretly think it's cool
      >people who actually have things going on in their lives wont really care (eg. actual productive adults), but may do a bit of performative indignation.
      If you treat her well and aren't a complete drop-kick then people will come around but you're definitely going to cop an amount of stigma. It's one of the most uniquely emotionally draining relationships I've had due to 90% external reasons.

      I'm 29 turning 30 in a few months. Girlfriend was 19 just turned 20 in April. There's nothing wrong with it if both parties are consenting and you understand how other people might look at it. Personally my parents don't even give a frick. My mom said after 18 and out of school age is just a number. Most people don't give a shit enough to ask about an age difference anyways as long as you don't look like you're 80 and she looks like a model.

  68. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Shy and anxious men and women are the most depraved sexually. I'm entirely serious, if someone is a virgin at 25 then their internal erotic fantasy life is probably somewhat fringe, and if you actually take their virginity they will do almost anything eagerly. Fast learners too.

  69. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    video games?

  70. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    God I would turn her over and cover with a blanket then serve her breakfast in bed

  71. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    There's a lot of angry roast beef in this thread, lmao.

  72. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Works as a prostitute
    >kissless virgin
    lol

  73. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    There is also a joke that compares Christmas to a woman's age. Cake shops throughout Japan always try to sell all their Christmas cakes before Christmas Eve. Any cakes left after Christmas are seen to be very old or out-of-date. Unmarried women over 25 years old used to be called 'unsold Christmas cake'. Since the average age for marriage has changed, with people marrying older and older, and even day-old cakes are delicious, this joke is falling out of use.

  74. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    An associated Japanese concept is the Christmas Cake (formerly a separate trope): the idea that just as a Christmas cake stops being desirable after December 25, a woman stops being desirable for marriage after age 25. This has since given way to the less popular "New Years' Noodles", where the age limit is increased to 31 (after December 31).

  75. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >tranime weebs finally facing the consequences of their actions once they hit their 30s
    Lol, should have faked it till you made it. Another W for Normalgays.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm a tranime weeb and even I've had irl gfs (both male and female)

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >>

        [...]

        of Turds
        You're not even a real weeb

  76. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why am I single? let's see
    >4.5 billion women
    >Specific ethnicities only. No Black folk allowed, no ugly SE asians, so that cuts it down to 1 billion
    >Obviously no kids (thanks society) and no old fricks so that cuts it down to 200 million
    >Need to be in the same country, that cuts it down to maybe around 7 million
    >No fatties allowed, cut down to 2 million
    >Can't be a druggie either or have tattoos, down to 1.7 million
    >Needs to be funny, cuts down to 0

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      but women are funny, just not intentional
      the trick is to laugh at them, not with them

  77. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 27 and I had my first "kiss" at a house party 2 years ago. Naturally I didn't know what to do and fricked it up, the girl just avoided me for the rest of the night. I asked if I could kiss her so it's not like it was a forced thing, we were vibing all night until then.
    It boosted my confidence knowing that a cute girl would actually be willing to kiss me, but fricking it up just cancelled that out. If you've not experienced teen romance when it's okay to make mistakes literally HOW are you meant to learn how to do this shit? Do I have to hire a hooker just to learn how to kiss someone?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Bro, just watch amateur porn (actual amateur porn) and watch how they kiss. It worked for me.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Alright man I'll try that at this point I've got nothing to lose. If the occasion arises again I'll go for it just the same it just sucks having that shit in the back of your mind. Ideally I'd wanna meet someone who you can be honest with and tell that you have no experience but that's probably just a massive turnoff so just have to not bring it up and hope for the best. Just sucks having these issues at this age I guess.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      just clicked this thread, i guess the rest of it looks just like this post

  78. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >everything gets worse every year
    >but hey I got the weekends and goyslop to keep me at bay!

  79. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Have you seen their teeth?
    Please tell me you don't assume all japs look like anime characters.

  80. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >media
    Stop living in the imaginary world, imbecile. Media is not real.

  81. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Lived in Japan for about 6 years now
    >2m tall and blond hair blue eyes
    >Now a 30yo virgin
    >Alcoholic
    JBW was a meme

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      You live near Tokyo/Yokohama?
      I can take you out to some bars and get you some slant bro. You better speak nip and not be a dancing English monkey though.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >You live near Tokyo/Yokohama?
        Yes
        >You better speak nip
        Barely any
        >dancing English monkey though.
        I'm not, and I'm not an navyboi

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          blows my mind how people live and presumably work in nippon without knowing any japanese at all. you must do remote work for an english-speaking company or something

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          How do you live in japan for 6 years and learn the fricking language?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            blows my mind how people live and presumably work in nippon without knowing any japanese at all. you must do remote work for an english-speaking company or something

            That's where the alcoholic part comes in

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              Then stop drinking alone in your room and hit up the bars at least.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I live in Tokyo too and want to hear some recommendations, mostly been going to anison bars in Akiba for that sweet jirai kei menhera pussy but want to find a place where actual good women meet

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >>Now a 30yo virgin
      Anon, just go to a red district. How expensive could an underage coochie be??

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      You either look or act like a shrek.
      An iota of confidence would carry you to victory.

  82. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >If I had my geetar and singing skills 15 years ago I could've had something with my 6th grade crush and lived a very different life
    I'm always FRICKING late to everything

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      > I could've had something with my 6th grade crush
      You really need to move on. You're in your 20's thinking about a 6th grade crush? The absolute hellscape that is your psyche
      I got my first gf in 6th grade by just working up the courage to ask her if she wanted to walk home together one day since we walked more than half the way in the same direction. I was absolutely terrified but all it took was that one question and from then on we went home together everyday. You dont need any quirky cool things to get people to notice and like you, especially not at that age. You just didn't shoot your shot as they say

      I fricked up that relationship btw I'm not perfect either I'm a moron

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >You're in your 20's thinking about a 6th grade crush?
        I LOVED HER BRO
        SHE WAS PURE AND CUTE AND NOW SHE'S PROBABLY A FILTHY NONVIRGIN
        EVERYTHING'S RUINED
        IT'S NOT FAIR

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          It's okay bro, I feel the same about a few crushes I've had through middle school and early high school.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Suddenly remember a girl you didn't mind being with and shooting shit admitted to liking you years after high school
      I am the most dense fricker on this site
      >Seeing people on facebook now you knew from years ago getting married

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        bro, I remember seeing people I knew in school blowing out kids at like 21
        it's insane to me how you'd want to throw the best years of your life away like that, but to each their own I guess

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I am the most dense fricker on this site
        I had a girl basically ask me out in high school and I wasted the opportunity. I didn't even realize she was asking to go out with me as a date until 2 years later. I think I'm the one who should be claiming that title.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >admitted to liking you
        I've had multiple girls just flat out ask to date me. Two of them were fricking hot. One competed as a gymnast in the Olympics. Turned them all down. I'm not an incel. I'm a vocel, the peak male.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >be me in high school
        >friends with some normie chick over a mutual love for higurashi of all things
        >asked me to frick once
        >"lmao nice joke bro"
        >told me that as soon as i got into college chicks would be all over me
        >"lmao thanks i guess"
        >would share a pair of earbuds with me and listen to music during the class we had together because the teacher didn't give a shit
        >didnt put the pieces together for years
        autism is my superpower

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Try me.

        >Why should I keep trying.
        Billions of women anon.
        In the united states 167 million women alone.
        Also I agree with this anon
        [...]
        Sex and all that jazz is overrated you should not be looking at your virginity as if it's some curse, it's only recent that virginity is looked down upon, but forget about that for a moment.
        I suggest you take a break from Ganker a couple weeks give or take and do things that are productive quite anything really.
        Life is bigger than our selves anon.
        If you have the chance anon get a rosary and start praying for purpose in life and what is the truth and meaning behind our existence.
        I'm a virgin at age 22, granted I had chicks straight up say they like me or I know they liked me or their friends will come to me and say they like me, but I either rejected them all or never thought I felt ready for a relationship.
        I am open to the idea of a relationship, but that is not my main pursuit right now if I am going to get into the dating scene or what ever the case may be I am doing so to get married with a good woman I rather not waste my virginity on pre marital sex and thank God I didn't have that frickboy mentality back in highschool, because I certainly would've regretted it.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >all my cousins younger than me are having kids
        >one female cousin is on like her third kid
        >ive never even kissed a girl

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >tfw my little sister already has a daughter that turns 2 this year while I have never even kissed a girl

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >tfw my little sister already has a daughter that turns 2 this year while I have never even kissed a girl

          That sounds shitty, kids are obnoxious as hell. I can't imagine being forced to interact with them just because "they're family". Frick that.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Kids are wonderful. I enjoy spending time with my niece, she adorable. There is something quite enchanting and energizing in the genuine wonder and happiness at life that such young children have. Last time I saw her and she recognized me by name just melted my heart. There is nothing quite like seeing a little girl run up to you with a smile on her face and ask for a hug.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              You sound like a pedo. I have a niece. I find her boring and unrelatable. I pretty much ignore her.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >You sound like a pedo.
                What the hell is wrong with you?

                >a little girl run up to you with a smile on her face and ask for a hug
                I feel like I would get arrested on the spot if that happened. Only normalgays can experience such joy.

                I am far from a normalgay, I am a fricking loser trough and trough, but for some reason my sister wanted me to be a godfather to her daughter.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >What the hell is wrong with you?
                What the hell is wrong with YOU? You're the one that seems to be in love with his underage niece.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                human beings are basically hardwired to find kids to be adorable. that's kinda how we survived as a species. personally i think children are fricking repulsive, they're loud and disgusting and moronic, but even so i catch myself daydreaming about starting a family one day

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Human beings are hardwired to want to protect children. I'll protect children but I don't want to play boring games with them or have boring conversations. If it was my kid then that'd be one thing but other people's kids can frick off.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                my problem is that early on, human offspring are fricking helpless and very loud.
                like sure, a 8 year old is still likely to be stupid/naive, but they at least have SOME sort of self-preservation instinct and ability to not kill themselves, unlike something like a 2 year old. I don't even remember anything that happened in my first 3 years, my oldest memory is from like age of 4

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                My earliest memory is of me being in a stroller and dropping a toy, but having my parents continue on and not go back for it. I don't know if it's a fabricated memory or a dream, but I know that I've had this memory ever since I was little. The memory probably isn't 100% accurate either since I was obviously like 2 or 3 and it's EXTREMELY vague.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                That's until you have one of your own.
                Having one calling you daddy will warm even the most misantropic schizoid.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                I can't even daydream about starting a family.
                even in my imagination the thought of anyone taking a substantial interest in me is so absurd, my mind will literally cut the fantasy short and bombard me with abuse and memories reminding me I'm trash.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Black person I just said that I found her adorable and her antics cute. Nowhere in my post did I say I was in love with my niece. There has to be something fricking wrong with you in your head if you read my post and interpreted it as pedophilic in some way.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              >a little girl run up to you with a smile on her face and ask for a hug
              I feel like I would get arrested on the spot if that happened. Only normalgays can experience such joy.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Kids are wonderful. I enjoy spending time with my niece, she adorable. There is something quite enchanting and energizing in the genuine wonder and happiness at life that such young children have. Last time I saw her and she recognized me by name just melted my heart. There is nothing quite like seeing a little girl run up to you with a smile on her face and ask for a hug.

                One day we'll get to be fathers. Never give up bros. I want one day to be a father and make my kids feel happy and safe and teach them lots of useful things.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Oh no no, frick that my homie. I just wanna be hugged by a e-girl, not to have to take care of a parasite for 18 years.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >thinking your kid will move out at 18 in the future economy.
                You're gonna be looking after them til they're 50 or they die of heart failure do to all the mRNA shots they'll be forced to take.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              I felt about the same when I was babysitting for my cousin. His 5 year old son has this genuine excitement about everything and even though it felt a bit awkward at first since I've never really interacted with anyone younger than 15 for years now he quickly rubbed of on me to the point where just walking down to the park and feeding the ducks were fun in its own way.

              I'm glad that I can return him to his dad though since the temper tantrums alone makes me happy that I don't have a kid of my own and I feel sorry for my parents who probably had to go through the same thing when I was his age

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                My niece is a bit too young for properly playing with her beyond simple shit like stacking blocks etc, but even still her energetic attitude is quite infectious. Just simple shit like doodling moomins on the paper she is scribbling stuff on and seeing her face light up as she recognizes the characters I doodled is fun in it's own, simple way.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah I can only imagine. Another thing that I'm glad about not having to deal with though is all of the snot, I never really knew how "sticky" young children were until I baby sat that little guy. I don't know if he had a cold without showing any other symptoms or if he had allergies to something in my apartment/to something in the parks because he spread his slime fricking EVERYWHERE. I had to carry two rolls of toilet paper with me at all times to wipe down whatever he was close to for too long and to give him something to blow his nows with

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Had a few girls flirt with me a lot back in school.
        >Automatically assumed they were just fricking with me and never bothered with them.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Same here. I just didn't know how to respond, I was too used to being made fun of for being a sperg or an autismo when I was younger

  83. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I can't sleep unless I look at a pov pic of a sleeping anime girl and imagine I'm there in bed with her
    It doesn't get any better than this, does it

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      i think what you meant to post was
      >why, yes. it's impossible for me to sleep unless i say goodnight to my wife. how could you tell?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks king

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      It could be worse. I hate myself so much I feel very awkward when anime girls look at the "camera" because I feel they shouldn't look at something like me and they deserve something better.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Anime girls looks at camera
        >Instinctively look away

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          It fricking sucks so much bro

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I might try doing this, but the light from my phone kills my sleep. even at the lowest brightness.
      but hey at least you're not falling asleep to nsfw rp audios of mommies fricking their sons

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        But anon I am
        BabyPinkASMR is a fricking godsend

  84. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Girl is a 25+ year old kinda loose non-married woman
    >She's suddenly incredibly sweet, caring and fricking amazing in helping you get over your anxieties and fears about sex and love.
    >Her desire to help you to lose your virginity and become a better more confident person is bad because she had sex a few times before you.

    I actually don't care what this thread is about..
    bawds > Virgins

  85. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's interesting just how in about every single culture, an unwed childless woman is considered a total failure past a certain age. It places them at the lowest spot of the totem pole, and if you ask me, they don't deserve any sympathy. How do you frick up while having it so easy?
    I think if you feel like a total loser, you should reflect on that a bit. You don't have it that bad.
    Your peak is always in your hands and it doesn't go away until the day you die.

    Anyway, 2D hags are super cute. I like Sae.

  86. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Another reminder that if you are white, you will never be an incel. You can go to South East Asia, Africa, Middle East etc. and get free pussy just for being white.
    You are a fakecel.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm brown. Now what?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Most people live paycheck to paycheck. An international trip is insanely expensive just from the flight cost alone.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Correct, I'm a vocel

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Traveling
      >In 2023
      Shit has become too expenive

  87. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >janny doesn't touch an incel thread for 2 hours
    really makes you think

  88. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    The one thing you losers all have in common is Ganker, but you can't seem to recognise its the cause of all your problems

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's also the cure for most of them.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Luckily I rarely come to Ganker anymore. This board is irreparably shit now.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      i think as long as you don't take any of the shit that's posted here too seriously, you're fine

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      not the cause, more like a symptom, but it sure is a treatable one and life literally improves universally when you cut stupid toxic forums out of your life
      so many people here have built a moronic persona on being internet-tough yet all they do is cry on the inside over how unsatisfied they are, it's so backwards
      t. tourist

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nah I was this big a loser before Ganker, it's just a crutch , if it weren't for here it'd probably be somewhere else. Ganker isn't healthy but it's more a symptom than the cause.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Same here. I was already an adult when I started coming here, and I was very reclusive even back when I was a kid.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      If I wasn't sitting on here I would be sitting on Wizardchan instead.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Wizardchan
        Almost as pretentious as those oldgay-larping twats pretending it's 2005 again

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, but it's a HELL of a lot better then having to deal with all the normalBlack folk on here now.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Fair enough

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's not tho I spent 2 years away from this place. going out, starting somewhere new with optimism.
      keeping fit and motivated.
      but all of it just made it all the more clear how little I fit in anywhere.
      a very cute girl at my work tried being nice and was amazing to me and inadvertently helped me realise what a piece of shit I am.
      I'm just garbage and all that effort didn't matter. because at the end of the day I'm still me.
      even at my best there's still nothing to me. I'm just on the edges of other peoples lives watching everyone pass by me.

  89. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Because japanese women hit the wall really fast in real life, and they are extremely calculative and heartless.
    So, when their looks is gone, the men stay the hell away from them.
    Anime and manga make them look always young and pretty, so that's why the perception of that meme is flawed.

  90. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >28
    >no skills and never had a job
    >overweight
    >ugly with bad teeth
    >poor
    >never had a girlfriend
    >haven't had any friends in 10 years
    >am too ashamed of myself to talk to anyone and when i do i have nothing to say to anyone because ive done nothing but consume stupid media for 10 years
    >no ambition
    how did i let it get to this

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      you're only 28 bro, and with the way medical science is advancing everyone itt is probably going to live to be at least 100. so statistically you're barely past a quarter of your life. everything you just listed except for your age can be changed, and its never too late to start. it aint over til its over kemosabe

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Average life expectancy is actually dropping.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          even if you're correct it doesn't invalidate my point, now you can either stop posting frogs and improve your situation or be content with your shitty life as it is right now

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        > yo bro you only gotta suffer 75 more years of this 🙂

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        People are living longer but the quality of life for the different age brackets remain unchanged. For males it's basically over at around 50. That's the point where the body starts to decline very rapidly and it begins to suck to live. Modern medical science can keep you living for longer but it can't really do much to make it not suck to live.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          the zen master ryokan pulled some hot tight 29 year old snatch at the age of 70 despite being a filthy hobo. one of these days you're going to have to accept that most of your obstacles in life are mental ones you created

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            If I had no standards and only wanted to get laid I'd just start volunteering at women's mental health clinics.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              so you admit that it's possible

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Nta but the point isn't whether or not it is or isn't possible to get laid as an old and undesirable person. The point is we just want to be fricking happy and have a normal life that involves having sex with a partner, and having kids. Getting random poon from literal mental patients or random crack prostitutes doesn't actually solve the problem. It's not going to make anyone any happier.

  91. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Holy shit does it really sucks THIS bad to be a USA citizen?
    i always wanted to be one

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      At least you're honest, for once

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Does it really suck to live in a nation where most people are fat landwhales who also have a fricking awful personality ruled by an overreaching government that openly steals elections
      Gee Anon, what do you think?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Gee Anon, what do you think?
        I think lots of people must do something about this bad situation

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          It is a bad situation. But you know what they say, not my problem!

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      America is finished, economicly, relationship wise, everything.
      I just pray for a total economic collapse, so that maybe the normies will finally understand the mess they made, and let happen to them.

  92. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    nobody can beat me
    >27
    >khhv
    >had a couple jobs
    >been on one date ever
    >severely autistic
    >registered sex offender for the next 8 years minimum because the cops found e-girlcon on my computer and i live in a country where it's illegal, yes i still come to Ganker
    you haven't experienced being social poison until you're at my level

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      kek what country?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        UK

        why did the cops search your computer in the first place

        What were the police doing on your computer?
        Does that mean if you own a computer police are monitoring this thread now with the spyware they install on it?

        >found e-girlcon on my computer
        ausgay? Why were they checking your computer?

        Well obviously they didn't tell me (why would the cops tell you what sting you were a part of when it's probably still going) but I can guess that they checked it because I was a habitual porn collector and torrented shitloads of e-girl manga and hentai without a vpn because I was dumb and wienery. I had like at least a terabyte of e-girlcon which is why I am so cucked by the sex offender's register for non-real CP. It did end up putting it into perspective that all normies think e-girl is literally child rape worthy of a death penalty when my life came falling down around me.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          i worked for a telecommunications company and the only way the cops have access to that kind of shit is if you got caught in a sting operation or somebody in your family/friend group reported you but i cant imagine cops putting together a sting over fricking e-girl doujins
          cops dont have the resources to monitor every single download on the internet
          still its all drawings so i dont think you should be treated like an actual kidfricker is

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      why did the cops search your computer in the first place

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      What were the police doing on your computer?
      Does that mean if you own a computer police are monitoring this thread now with the spyware they install on it?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >found e-girlcon on my computer
      ausgay? Why were they checking your computer?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      If the cops were checking out your PC then you were probably registered as a sex offender for more than just e-girl pics anon, even if that shit is illegal in your country. I hope that your definition of e-girl is the same as mine, if you had some actual CP on your drives then you are fricking lucky to not be sitting in prison right about now no matter what country your from and I hope you get more visitations from the boys in blue

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        i worked for a telecommunications company and the only way the cops have access to that kind of shit is if you got caught in a sting operation or somebody in your family/friend group reported you but i cant imagine cops putting together a sting over fricking e-girl doujins
        cops dont have the resources to monitor every single download on the internet
        still its all drawings so i dont think you should be treated like an actual kidfricker is

        >probably
        >probably
        >probably
        I can assure you I know more about my specific situation than you do, thank you.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          i didn't say probably once
          you're reaction makes me think that the other guy was right you really were doing worse shit because thats the only way your story makes any logical sense

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Your assumption was made clear, and made even clearer than what you just said now. As I said, I can assure you I know more about my specific situation than you do.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              well i guess you're so so special that the cops broke every rule and procedure they have just to punish you

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                >break every rule and procedure
                >in the UK where it's legal for the police and government to monitor literally everything you do
                >to monitor e-girl torrents and websites which are extremely illegal in law and finding traffic to them that isn't done via a proxy server
                I know this may be different in your country, but for me this is my reality.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                e-girl is illegal but the cops don't really give a shit about it they have bigger fish to fry becuase they don't have infinite resources

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Your copium doesn't change facts, senpai. Get a proxy.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Enjoy being on a sex offender registry lmfao.

  93. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >tell people to kill themselves everyday on Ganker
    >why am I alone and depressed?

  94. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Missed out on young childhood love
    >Missed out on highschool love
    >Missed out on rose colored university/college life
    >Now in your 30s

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      teenage love is romanticized solely by people who experienced it vicariously through anime and shit, the reality is that teenagers are emotionally unstable morons (including (you)) and any relationship you would've had was destined to become a dumpster fire

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >any relationship you would've had was destined to become a dumpster fire

        And now any relationship you would have as an adult is destined to become a dumpster fire that burns 999x worse!

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          adults are usually reasonably intelligent creatures whereas teenagers are a slave to their hormones

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      You can still go to college anon, but you better not be wasting your time there on useless crap.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I already went through uni for 4 years
        My last year I didn't even visit it except for tests due to already working 34 hours a week(Couldn't work 1 hour more because they I would be full time)

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >He fell for le love meme
      Pretty much what

      teenage love is romanticized solely by people who experienced it vicariously through anime and shit, the reality is that teenagers are emotionally unstable morons (including (you)) and any relationship you would've had was destined to become a dumpster fire

      said

  95. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    i have a really small dick so i have 0 chance
    no i'm not going to listen to some dude with a 5 inch dick tell me girls don't care about size bro lol

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      So how small is it?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Enough that even a hooker laughed at it.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Wat, hookers should be half expecting micropenises anyway

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yep. If a fricking prostitute can't have the professionalism to at least pretend to like me then I have no chance.

  96. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I just... Need a real answer this time...
    What do boobs feel like....

  97. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    These threads always makes me think, with all the men in similar situations, who are just starving for some sort of human connection not even a gf, who dont leave the house and have a myriad of problems, it would be great if there was a way to connect people together irl. All we're really doing here is restlessly shouting into the void and in 30 minutes when this thread is dead nothing is going to change.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      People come here because they repulse people. Not the other way around

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's not true. People come here because they dont fit in and there are lots of potential reasons for that including repulsing others in different ways

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >That's not true.
          lmao

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Read the words after that and then frick off

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >All we're really doing here is restlessly shouting into the void and in 30 minutes when this thread is dead nothing is going to change.
      Such is life.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >it would be great if there was a way to connect people together irl
      There is. Normal people do things like work, volunteer for their community, etc. But that requires actually leaving the house and being proactive and the incels sitting around feeling sorry for themselves have no interest in doing that.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I work.
        'normal people' exhaust me and fill me with existential dread every time I have to act like I even remotely belong around them.
        so many people have come and left through there. I feel even given 30 more years there I wouldn't make a single meaningful connection or friendship.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I used to think like but then I started telling it to their faces that I didn't gave a shit, it was counterproductive since people are not used to honest conversation. Now they are more interested in me than before, because I'm the guy who speak whatever he feels like and they can do the same without being judged.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I barely talk irl

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      yeah but Ganker meetups would likely be a disaster and people don't want to be identified as losers.
      most people here are too damaged to be saved.
      I'll complain that I don't relate to anyone but then in reality I think it's a good thing more people aren't like me. I know if I was living with another me i'd probly kill him within a few days for several good reasons.

  98. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw was always an autistic virgin
    >get forced into college by my parents
    >hate it but for the first time in my life I'm actually somewhat independent
    >can see a path where I lose virginity and make something of my life
    >get into traumatic car accident halfway through my first semester and pulled out for a year to heal
    >had an opportunity to tell everyone to frick off and that I didn't want to go back and waste my money and time in school which I hated, so I did
    >that was 8 years ago
    >have been a shut in neet ever since
    I wish that accident fricking killed me
    my whole life has been completely derailed and ruined
    I even have pains and weakness from the surgery still and it's only going to get worse

  99. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw that one girl in like middle school that actually wanted to be my gf
    >gently reject her because I knew I was socially a mess and she was one of the people I actually gave a frick about at the time
    >so if I did something bad to her it'd eat away at me
    fastforward to now, I am pretty sure I am an undiagnosed turbosperg

  100. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Be autist
    >Think used holes are worthless and disgusting
    >Gave up on females at 15 because it was already hard enough finding a virgin back then
    >Almost 27 now
    I don't even know if I made the right choice, but it feels like none of it even matters anymore. I'm just tired.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is literally me but age 14. I still think I made the right choice and I turn 30 next year.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >be autistic as well
      >never really tried getting a girlfriend at all simply because I've always been too obsessed with video games and stuff

  101. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's not the sex i really care about it's being hugged a lot

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      sause

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        no idea lad.

  102. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Threads like this give me hope that this site is still filled with morons such as myself.

  103. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    how do I have sex as a 25 year old virgin shut in without a license and where prostitution is illegal

  104. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    do people really use condoms every time they have sex
    what's the point of sex with a condom

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      if you wanna get strangers pregnant and/or contract fricked up diseases then be my guest

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        why are you even having sex at all if it's that risky

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          me, personally? i'm not. i hate the idea of casual sex. i can never cum while wearing a condom anyway.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I have gonorrhoea by the way.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >t. bugcatcher

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I have gonorrhoea by the way.

        then when do you have sex without A condom

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I never use a condom, I just coom outside. It's good that it's risky because that makes me avoid girls who I'm not willing to impregnate or who are likely to be diseased prostitutes. I also love the fact that they're willing to potentially have my child, gives me the illusion that I'm not an unlovable worthless piece of genetic trash.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      i do but only because im deathly afraid of having a kid

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >stranger/someone who I don't trust to be on contraceptives
      yes
      >a partner on the pill/bar/IUD etc
      nearly never
      I've had one girlfriend in my life that doesn't like taking contraceptives so I had to use protection with them.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Looking at stats, most normalgays don't. This tracks my experience in sugar dating, which I believe is close to how ordinary dating from the girls' perspective: roughly one third of the girls want to use a condom, one third of them ask, and one third of them just shove it in. I've sometimes refused if in my best estimation the girl is actively seeking more than just a few regular daddies. I get tested regularly and haven't caught anything.

  105. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    You write what you know

  106. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Spent years of my youth making self deprecating jokes about myself.
    >They're eventually stopped being jokes.
    >So engrained into my head that I can't even humor the idea of a woman genuinely liking me anymore.
    Oops.

  107. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    what is sex like

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      like sticking your dick in a really tight warm hole
      very sweaty
      nice if the girl is into it, kinda lame if she isn't

  108. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    how do I stop being so immensely sexually frustrated
    I jerk off like 10 times a day

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just think about how fricking awful women are. That shit kills my drive for a week or so.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Women. Can't live with them, can't live without them.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous
        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Ah
          Women. Can't live with them, ...they won't talk to me.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Anon not all women are shit, your own mother couldn't be that bad, could she ?

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          his mother was pretty good

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            made me chuckle

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Me mum is the exception.

          his mother was pretty good

          can vouch for me.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      hot

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      become an insomniac
      kills most of your drives, including the seuxual

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        You can't become an insomniac, you can only get addicted to uppers and that'll compensate for the sexual drive loss of insomnia anyway

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >You can't become an insomniac
          stress, isolation, stimulants, excessive computer usage should do it
          unless you're of the blessed race who sleeps like a baby no matter what
          i'd rather be an eternal virgin than be an insomniac, sadly i'm both

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            insomniac too, excessive computer use and such comes because at this point i know i won't be sleeping anyway. But yeah I guess you could scar yourself psychologically enough until you can't sleep properly anymore

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            also i personally like that everything is a flatline and that i'm either totally apathetic or a little psycho. insomnia is based compared to other disorders people around me have. helps with anxiety too on days i get the least amount of sleep

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              >also i personally like that everything is a flatline and that i'm either totally apathetic or a little psycho.
              i don't, i'd rather be physically content and interested with life
              >insomnia is based compared to other disorders people around me have.
              it's one of the least homosexual for sure

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >tfw no cute insomniac gf to watch the stars with

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          nah, being insomniac and knowing your gf is fast asleep in bed while you're doing your thing is comfy af

  109. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm supposed to go to a con this week and be a third wheel with this girl I know and her boyfriend because I don't have any other friends who can drive me there

  110. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    How the frick this thread hit 650+ posts?
    Do you people really so demoralised?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Do you people really so demoralised?
      Where do you think we are?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Wish i could cheer them up, "this shall pass too" and "not only mom will be sad" is all i can think of

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I can't resist talking about how utterly defeated I am after being mercilessly beaten by life.

  111. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I feel for you bros. I'm glad it seems like most of you realize it's alienation and loneliness that plague you more than actual lack of pussy. It really is an effort to make friends these days but that's how it is. You've gotta be there for people, even when you're depressed or pissed off or tired. And it seems thankless at first, but eventually you'll have more friends than ever.

    The more you do that, the more you grow, the less intimidating it is to be around women, the easier it'll be to get a gf. Just don't make the mistake and let your eventual gf be your entire personality.

    I used to be an incel neet living in his parent's attic, nigh suicidal, no excitement for the future, no friends, nothing. Eventually I (sorta) met the women who would be my wife on Ganker, talked to her for years as a long distance friend, and it slowly became a relationship. She moved continents to be with me and we've since moved to another country together. Been together over 8 years now, have all sorts of adventures together.
    I still hate myself, but less and less the more I remind myself that she's smart and cool and doesn't see me that way. Same for my friends; you respect their positive opinions of you and put faith in them. There's literally nothing special about me so there's no reason you can't do it too.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      You're probably 6'2"+

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm 6ft nothing. But she didn't know that from a webcam.

        The worst part is when you actually did have friends, but by being such an anti-social moron who just doesn't want to put in the effort to go out, or at times just not having the money to go out, you give a shit reason time and time again, and eventually the few friends you do have just stop engaging with you.

        Yeah, exactly. The money thing is particularly rough because you can wind up stuck in your shitty hometown and only able to get out on occasion. You really have to be a cheapskate with your social life and/or find as much shit you can do for free. Exercise is always a good option, hiking, bodyweight shit, etc. I loved to take long walks and hikes out of town at the time, helped me keep my weight down with little strain while also doing a bit of sight seeing and getting some alone time away from my parents. Nowadays I skate again which is relatively cheap (maybe £120 for a full board, then whatever else on shoes) because you can spend literally an entire day in a skatepark or empty carpark either by yourself or with other people.

        I think you just need to be upfront about being broke. It sucks because most of your friends will want to go out and spend money, but a good friend will accommodate you and just hang out in a park or whatnot.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      The worst part is when you actually did have friends, but by being such an anti-social moron who just doesn't want to put in the effort to go out, or at times just not having the money to go out, you give a shit reason time and time again, and eventually the few friends you do have just stop engaging with you.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        that happened to me.
        Lockdown was all it took to finally kill all of my connections.

        It really felt beyond my control. I tried my best not to fade away from everyone but it was impossible to get them to do anything.
        they just didn't want to hang out with me. literally anythign I would tro to organise no matter how simple was doomed to fail. I don't feel I even did anything wrong apart from be a boring piece of shit who wasn't very important to the dynamic.

  112. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >25
    >no gf
    >not even a crush
    >feel absolutely nothing
    its an odd feeling

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      i havent had a crush in years because there are no women where i live.

  113. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Thanks for the fun thread bros.
    We're all gona make it

  114. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >have exactly 1 (one) relationship
    >online
    >best (almost) five years of my life
    >just sort of fizzled out when we realize how difficult it would be for one of us to move to the other's country permanently
    >get really depressed right before the break up when i realize it probably wont work out and just let her go convincing myself that i was never a good partner anyways
    frick the guy who said it's better to have loved and lost, it was better when I didn't know what I was missing

  115. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    this thread rerminds me of old /LULZ/ aka arcanine.
    thank you

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      That's because nobody ever leaves this place

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        All the robots left arcanine, now it's all normalgays

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      /LULZ/ is just now all gay gays and trannies.
      The incels who use to make >tfw no gf are now long gone

  116. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I like hags

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