>got a job. >stopped masturbating. >stopped watching porn. >stopped playing video games

>got a job
>stopped jerking off
>stopped watching porn
>stopped playing video games
>exercise routinely
>cook all my own meals
>went to therapy
>intermittently fast
>pick up a hobby
>tried religion

>still miserable and still want to kill myself
When does it get better? What am I supposed to do?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Self improvement is masturbation. You have to find a way to self actualize.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      how could this happen to me
      the connections were faked
      im just a bot, and now i'm fading away
      you just killed my vibe...
      how could this happen to me

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    do u have friends/gf? i feel like its kinda hard to be happy without that shit

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I have a bf but that doesn't really fix any of the problems I have with myself or existing at large.
      I haven't had friends since I was thirteen.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        you sound exactly like my gf

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        making some friends would be a good place to start
        you may have some sort of chemical issue idk
        do you feel like you have purpose in life?

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I think religion is the only real cope. Notice the richest c**ts have to enter into the deepest pits of depravity just to stimulate themselves as a futile distraction from their inevitable death.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      But I already said I tried that.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Trying doesn't mean you succeeded.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Because nothing fricking matters unless you have a girlfriend, literally nothing, people who live outwardly horrible depressing, deprived, tortuous lives, can still feel happiness provided their biological imperative is fulfilled.
      I agree with that religion is the only cope that can overcome this, but you can't force yourself to be religious and typically miserable virgins like myself have some form of autism that will be correlated with atheism that makes that route impossible.

      I have a bf but that doesn't really fix any of the problems I have with myself or existing at large.
      I haven't had friends since I was thirteen.

      KYS

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Failed normalgay detected. There's more to life than DUDE PUSSY LMAO.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          for 90% of human history and for 90% of people there is literally nothing else.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >being part of the 90%
            yup failed normalgay

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >he thinks life is pussy only

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It is, i am miserable and the only thing i am missing is girlfriend.
          For 10 fricking years I have wanted and I have fantasised about it, I have been nothing but an upstanding member of society, I have never been rewarded with what I truly want.
          Im too weird too autistic my life is now too far removed, I dream about meeting someone who understands me, but the further I drift the lower my odds go and the more hopeless it seems.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >he gaslit himself into thinking that all he needed was a girlfriend

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Went to therapy
    Just kill hoboes anon

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >if I stop watching porn life will improve....somehow

    This was your first mistake

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I didn't think that would be the case, I only said that to preempt Reddit nofappers who would immediately suggest it like it would do anything.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    do things you like, if you used to like vidya you can start playing it again, just don't fricking overdo it. try going to parties, meet friends, drink, express yourself through art. and allow yourself to feel sad on top of everything, you just need time to recover, your life was hard until this point, it will never be easy, just allow yourself to feel.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I can already feel though. I tried playing vidya again, a few hours a week which I wouldn't call overdoing it. Nothing changed. I'm never invited to parties and I don't generally like those sorts of things. The last time I tried to make friends I got spuriously called a pedophile.
      I don't drink because I'm afraid of 'loss of inhibition,' one of the things I fear the most.
      I tried to start writing but got discouraged and quit.

      you have to work towards something that makes living bearable. all of the things you were doing to improve your state of mind were all superficial. those things don't help unless you genuinely want to do them, and they provide you with "purpose" (i can't think of a better word here).
      no matter what you do, existing is always overall pretty bad. it's about finding the things worth suffering to continue living for.

      Like what?

      making some friends would be a good place to start
      you may have some sort of chemical issue idk
      do you feel like you have purpose in life?

      Yes, my purpose is to serve as a warning unto others.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I don't play videogames
        >I play videogames
        >I don't fap
        >I fap
        My Lord you are an insufferable gay to go on the internet to ask for help, then knock every piece of advice away with
        >I tried that as best I could and it's a dumb answer

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I've tried multiple things in the past. Why is that a hard concept?

          I'll make a quick tutorial on how to make friends.
          Tip 1: always try to start with men, amking friends with women is high risk low reward
          Tip 2: find anything you share in common, literally anything, go to a convention or any sort of social spaces. DO NOT APPROACH RANDOM PEOPLE AT THE STREET.
          Tip 3: aim for people with medium looks, too pretty can make you uncomfortable and too weird looking usually represent people that hate themselves.
          Ok now steps
          Step 1: find someone who is doing something you know a good bunch about (i made my best friend by seeing he play pokemon one day)
          step 2: approach him casually talking about the thing
          step 3: if they talk about it back you take a seat if they are seated or stand in front of them and talk about this. if not go away, they don't want to talk, try again with another person.
          step 4: keep talking with this person a bit and ask for his social media and then text them about the same topic you talked about before.
          after that you just keep talking and eventually you will become friends.

          I tried these things and got called a pedophile, soooo.

          I did all of that except therapy.
          Girls don't care. They want a charismatic normalgay, neurotypical, you'll never be that.

          I don't care about women because my problems don't revolve around BAWWWWWWWWWWWWWW I DIDN'T GET ANY PUSSY because I'm not a failed normalgay. Don't lump me in with the likes of you.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I don't care about women because my problems don't revolve around BAWWWWWWWWWWWWWW I DIDN'T GET ANY PUSSY because I'm not a failed normalgay. Don't lump me in with the likes of you.
            You didn't state what you lacks in your life for it to be shit, so I assumed it was what 90% of the people here complain about.
            Start by figuring out what lacks in your life or read some nihilist philosophy then idk.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I've tried multiple things in the past

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I tried these things and got called a pedophile
            aren't you that troony that was going to kill himself? please do it already no one is gonna miss you

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        homie i cant tell you whats gonna give your own life meaning. frick do u think i am
        for me, its the people close to me and making all kinds of art like music and videos and comics but if you don't like those things then that won't mean anything to you.
        go do things, anything. anything that comes to mind that you think you might wanna try, just go do it if realistically feasible. dont make excuses or be a b***h though, you got the rest of your life to wallow in self pity and be gay and moronic
        the only catch all i can think of is drugs. i was on benzos, stims and opioids for years and it made life fricking awesome i ended up quitting though. only dabbling back in every couple months

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'll make a quick tutorial on how to make friends.
        Tip 1: always try to start with men, amking friends with women is high risk low reward
        Tip 2: find anything you share in common, literally anything, go to a convention or any sort of social spaces. DO NOT APPROACH RANDOM PEOPLE AT THE STREET.
        Tip 3: aim for people with medium looks, too pretty can make you uncomfortable and too weird looking usually represent people that hate themselves.
        Ok now steps
        Step 1: find someone who is doing something you know a good bunch about (i made my best friend by seeing he play pokemon one day)
        step 2: approach him casually talking about the thing
        step 3: if they talk about it back you take a seat if they are seated or stand in front of them and talk about this. if not go away, they don't want to talk, try again with another person.
        step 4: keep talking with this person a bit and ask for his social media and then text them about the same topic you talked about before.
        after that you just keep talking and eventually you will become friends.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I don't drink because I'm afraid of 'loss of inhibition,' one of the things I fear the most.

        That's sad, you are afraid of yourself.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I don't want to blurt out anything embarrassing, there's just no reason to put myself in such a compromising situation.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you have to work towards something that makes living bearable. all of the things you were doing to improve your state of mind were all superficial. those things don't help unless you genuinely want to do them, and they provide you with "purpose" (i can't think of a better word here).
    no matter what you do, existing is always overall pretty bad. it's about finding the things worth suffering to continue living for.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Self improovement is a meme, you got a bad roll and are fated to be a loser, the best you can do is accept it and do whatever makes life enjoyable, yes that includes illicit substances.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    jerking off
    moron, you can still do that but without the disgusting porn or, at least, use erotic literature and pictures.
    >>went to therapy
    Waste of time and money.
    religion
    Ditto as therapy since going to Mass is terrible in 2024. Most priests cannot show their full intellectual power level out of fear of making the brainlets insecure. The only way to truly embrace religion is by studing theology, and you sadly cannot do that outside of seminaries, bachelor's in theology, or with a priest's full tutelage with you.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      catholics are grifters, pedophiles and corruptors of the actual teachings of Jesus Christ
      disregard mass entirely.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I didn't necessarily meant Catholicism. Just any religion for that matter since even israeli and Muslim anons are unable to study their religion's theology without going to a synagogue/mosque and requesting guidance from their local rabbi/imam. Shits fricked!
        Of course, you can teach yourself theology and know everything about Jesus Christ and the like. But some shit is obviously restricted, as you need to pay fees to a theology/biblical archeology academic journal if you are not affiliated with a local uni; you have to pay for theology books at times if they are not available for torrents; need guidance to know how theology really works, etc.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I did all of that except therapy.
    Girls don't care. They want a charismatic normalgay, neurotypical, you'll never be that.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you fricked up by going to therapy
    did you really think you could pay someone to listen to your complaints about this world and that will magically fix your life, homosexual?
    no, you're just paying someone else's salary so they can keep you strung along like a hopeless Black person who already surrendered your faith by simply "trying"
    this world will never care about you and your life more than you will.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    An important part of life is finding what makes YOU happy, not what everyone else does. If you treat life as a checklist by observing what other people do, of course you aren't going to be happy.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How long have you been doing this? It takes much more time for good habits to improve your life than it does for bad habits to destroy it. But the effects of both are compounding.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I can't remember the last time I jerk offd but it was probably August of last year?
      I've gone months without playing games entirely and years of playing fewer than five hours a week.
      I've had employment for the past several years.
      I've cooked all meals for myself for the past several years.
      Therapy for several years
      Intermittent fasting for a year
      Tried religion for several years
      etc.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i give up on self-improving because i can't do the very first thing of that greentext
    >get a job
    i can't no longer stand interviews much less go to them
    I HATE BEING GHOSTED

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    sounds like you just did what "LE SOCIETY" told you instead of doing what would've made you happy

    baaaaaka

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You might literally be clincally depressed, as in something's wrong with your brain, and need SSRI's. If that doesn't work, well, radical problems require radical solutions and you might as well frick it and see what psychedelic mushrooms are about. I've heard that they're able to break long-standing habits, and if being unhappy counts as a habit, maybe it'll help?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >radical problems require radical solutions
      >mushroom's
      the problem is this dumb c**t got that fricking idea in peoples head.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Exactly. If it's not an external problem, like a shitty life, that's making him unhappy, then it's obviously internal: either he needs to get his mental shit together and stop moping around or get SSRI's if it really is a problem of brain chemistry. And as I said before, mushrooms are a last resort since hmm, I actually don't know the scientific literature lately on SSRI's vs mushrooms. Could be that mushrooms might have a better success rate and less side-effects than SSRI's, alongside the fact that I believe you only have to take it once for most of its obvious effects, whereas SSRI's are a continual thing that can often cause weight gain.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm not trying drugs, and SSRIs didn't do jack for me.

      sounds like you just did what "LE SOCIETY" told you instead of doing what would've made you happy

      baaaaaka

      The thing that would make me happy is being a normal well adjusted person. That's impossible though. So I won't ever be happy.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Take the redpill. Self improvement. PUA techniques, invest. Take risks.

    The red pill is important because it recognizes the realities and dangers men face today. It's about empowering men to go for success, and to be successful in their own individual lives, in whatever way that means for them personally. But it's also about the power struggles that are taking place between men and women, men and the state, corporations, and other powerful groups. It's not just a social or political ideology, it's about promoting masculinity and a personal journey of self-improvement and discovery. That's why they demonize it. The red pill is the enemy of the liberal feminist leftist regime

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I think that's good your life is becoming productive, however I don't think it's actually fixing the root cause of it, do you have friends by any chance?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >do you have friends by any chance?
      No.

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