>that feeling when you make a friend and you get all excited and happy and you think about getting to know them better and maybe play games with them and you can share things that you both like and oh boy oh boy oh gosh all of the fun and joy and happiness and you can't contain it and you want to tell people about it
Shut up you clingy gay
>and then they delete their Discord out of nowhere without warning
It happens way too often. People seem cool and chill and then one day, gone. What's up with that? It makes me hate ever talking to people online.
Fear of abandonment. Can't be rejected if you reject them first.
How can you be afraid of abandonment when you're being given zero reason to have trust issues? I treat all my friends like royalty and they still vanish without a goodbye.
It's not awkward to say "hey I have to focus on irl things and can't be on as often". Friends deserve at least that much.
You don't just "let go" of friends. That's such an incredibly fucked up thing to prepare for.
Have a guy on Steam like this. Still message him every day and he pretends to be offline. It's been a year but I'm not stopping without an explanation like be a fucking man and speak.
Well you don't know what they're going through. Some people have severe insecurity issues and they essentially think that they're worthless and that no one deserves to waste time on them. So they shut them self off from people with that mindset. It can be hard to understand but the issue is never with you it's with them.
I appreciate your measured response but as someone who has been on the other end of this a multitude of times recently, it gets tiresome dealing with people who can't discuss their issues with their own friends and just leave without anyone being able to help or know what's going on
Not him, but life is temporary, as are our friendships her4e. No use looking back with bitterness and resentment for what we have lost.
Remember the good times, and be ready to Let Go.
sometimes they dont even bother to delete you they just don't ever respond and give you 0 explanation and even know their not dead because you still see them irl and they ignore you there too for literally 0 reason based on your last communications...
>feelsbadman
The vaccinated are dropping like flies, anon.
What anime?
Kill Me Baby
I normally like to think that people are just moving on and maybe need to focus on their lives. I had one that did that and added me on an alt, but said he didn't want to force a friendship so decided just to end it. I'd just keep it open and if we ever would've messaged again it would've been fine, but I suppose there could've been awkwardness or something
Kill me Baby.
I am glad some people still have untainted hearts <3
>tfw you don't read a single thing OP said but post anyways
CUTE
also I'm gay (sub) btw not sure if it matters
You're not OP. You are that same 'bot'/gay who projects his insecure lifestyle on others. You've been at it for years, and I do believe it's time you stopped 🙂
I never had a friend and I am fucking terrified trying to make one now because I am old and people will think I am a weird friendless creep
try playing classic wow or some other old school rpg, plenty of boomers to befriend there
Okay
Nakadashi
I'm excited to make a new friend or two when I move this year. I've had the same two friends since high school ended like ten years ago and would love to meet some new people. I'm moving closer to my friend who has his shit together and further away from my friend who does not. I love both my friends, but the friend I live closest to right now constantly asks me for help and advice but takes none of it, and is just kinda a drain to be around.
I like to pretend cuteposters are actually cute. I think if everyone was attractive to at least a current 7/10 the world would be a more pleasant place.
I know at the very least that cuteposters like cute things and have a pure heart
20yo and never had a friend 🙁
>no anon to suck the cum out of my balls so I can sleep
this, but unironically
Who said I was being ironic?
I volunteer
>make friend
>he freaks the fuck out if I don't message him for 8 hours (I was asleep)
>deletes me
>happens twice in a very short span
>don't readd him the second time
I don't know why I bothered.
Was like that when I was a teenager, turns out it's because of emotionally neglectful parents.
Maybe mention that it needs to ok for you to be away at times and that doesn't mean you like them any less, you're just living your life. If they can't cope tell them they need to come to terms with this, and they should look into ACT therapy.
Or just ignore them so they'll move on, but they'll keep being shitty until someone wakes them up.
Not your responsibility but you'd be doing everyone including yourself a favor by saying something. Long term maybe you get a healthier friend who adds to the world.
>Make a friend
>Just wants to fap together on discord
>wont leave me the fuck alone
>make a friend
>rp with him then eventually stop and become normal friends