>after 12 years of being single a cute girl from uni messages me >weve been seeing each other for 7 weeks straight now
dont give up hope anonbros, there is always an autistic girl waiting for you
>Be me >Spergoid virgin >Girl at work starts flirting with me >She's just fucking with me for the ego boost
I preferred it when I was invisible to women.
>be me >alone all throughout school >college is my only hope >go into a degree that is 95% males >too autistic to meet new people that I don't go to class with
Don't be like me anons
>after 12 years of being single a cute girl from uni messages me >weve been seeing each other for 7 weeks straight now
dont give up hope anonbros, there is always an autistic girl waiting for you
EDUCATE ME ANONS
I'm going for a masters (cause I can't get a job, ripped CS). How do I get to talk/flirt with chicks? Don't tell me get Ganker or work on my body or get bread, I'm already doing that. I'm talking concretely, going from classmate/club members with girl -> number -> gf. This is the only part I'm confused because I never did it before.
have an ounce of charisma, be decent enough looking via haircut and talk but dont go overboard if asked or if noone talks in your classes
thats how i got approached by her, no clue how to do it normally tho
>be decent enough looking via haircut
Yeah, famously, the difference between attractive and unattractive people is the haircut. Dumb fucking homosexual.
im not looker myself but having a decent haircut and shaving can make a massive difference between looking like your general unkempt shmock and a half good looking dude.
I dont expect him to look like some defects ridden freak or a fat fuck so my theory should apply.
go fuck yourself homo
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
>hurr im a total normalfag with a normalfag haircut and you can too! jus b urslef
Eat shit, homosexual.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
>look like some unwashed up from the mountains with the charisma of a rock >hurr durr why women dont aproach me
you are better off kys, women will laugh straight in your face
>thats how i got approached by her, no clue how to do it normally tho
Look mate, if I wait to be approach by girls I'll go crazy. The one time I managed to get a gf, it was so bad I gave up porn for a month just to not see the female body.
First of all, throw any fear of rejection out the window if you can, secondly, you just ask.
No really, if you're having a good conversation with a girl, she's laughing at your jokes, super into whatever dumb bullshit you're talking about, ask her if she wants to grab coffee outside of school and if you're lucky she says yes and you get her number. From there as long as you can keep up the convos and get her to smile she'll fall for you on some level and before you know it, you'll have a time and money vampire of your very own.
The worst thing is you right now asking how when you should just do.
>No really, if you're having a good conversation with a girl, she's laughing at your jokes, super into whatever dumb bullshit you're talking about, ask her if she wants to grab coffee outside of school and if you're lucky she says yes and you get her number. From there as long as you can keep up the convos and get her to smile she'll fall for you on some level and before you know it, you'll have a time and money vampire of your very own.
I'm afraid of getting in trouble, so I'm wondering if there's a better protocol. If it's just chatting up a girl for a couple days then sure, I can do it then.
First of all, throw any fear of rejection out the window if you can, secondly, you just ask.
No really, if you're having a good conversation with a girl, she's laughing at your jokes, super into whatever dumb bullshit you're talking about, ask her if she wants to grab coffee outside of school and if you're lucky she says yes and you get her number. From there as long as you can keep up the convos and get her to smile she'll fall for you on some level and before you know it, you'll have a time and money vampire of your very own.
The worst thing is you right now asking how when you should just do.
I'm too much of a autistic retard to even make friends. I believe too much in separation between work/outside life, online life, and personal life to make friends. I don't know how to open myself enough to invite people from my work/outside life into my personal life because I have a shitty personality deep down and I don't want to make things awkward when we have to go back to working together.
>uni was split into a sciences campus (99% males) and humanities campus (99% female) >each campus was in opposite sides of the city >stuck in an IT course surrounded by dudebro normalfags whose only videogames are yearly sportslop
i've been robbed
>after 12 years of being single a cute girl from uni messages me >weve been seeing each other for 7 weeks straight now
dont give up hope anonbros, there is always an autistic girl waiting for you
Also congrats bro, happy for you. Don't fuck it up.
Am I autistic but I find webms like this to be, suHispanicious. I'm a KVH but just the way she's trying to be warm but her eyes aren't makes me think she's faking it and just wants to use me.
Then why are people even ragebaiting? I see this and get mad cause I feel like a gold digger, and now I got child support. I don't get how people it and think love.
ok, I'm gonna do it this weekend.
I'm gonna walk around and if I see a cute girl, I'm gonna asks for her number. >How do I avoid getting numbers from a girl that's too young? >What's my success rate? >What should I message her if I do manager to get her numbers?
>>What's my success rate?
Depends on your looks. >>What should I message her if I do manager to get her numbers? >Teach me how to text guys
Nah man, figure shit out. >>How do I avoid getting numbers from a girl that's too young?
Um, that's actually a very good question. If she gives you her number work in asking her how old she is in the conversation.
I think cold approaching is the biggest meme in the world unless you're a Chad, you're better off working on your social circle, but uh good luck anon.
Binding of Isaac for general depression. He also added coop just to rub it in more that you are a sad abused alone wreck that should have died as a kid.
>He also added coop just to rub it in more that you are a sad abused alone wreck that should have died as a kid.
I'm all up on suicide fuel, thank you very much.
>I hate living in siberia
Idk anon, the outside perfectly matching the inside sounds pretty kino to me.
In the west it's all smiles on the outside whilst the majority of the people want to die on the inside.
I dunno where exactly in Siberia do you live, but in PFD every time i do a simple stroll around the local embankment i see a shit ton of beautiful girls.
Not like it helps my beta ass, though.
Anons I want you to know, and I am hand to God honestly telling the truth here. But I am 40 years old and just got my first gf this year. I got to feel what it's like to kiss a girl, to know what it's like to have a girl genuinely like you. It's so great. I thought the rest of my life was a dead end, but things turned out ok against all odds.
2023 worked out. Just keep trying and keep improving anons. If a piece of shit like me can do it, we can all make it.
nah you'd be surprised
I know this board is full of incels who think women lose all value past 22, but a 35 year old woman who takes care of herself would still get plenty of attention if she went to a bar
lol this, a 35 year old can walk up to practically any guy and show them attention they will instantly want to fuck. You need to be grandma tier to not attract a mate
Nope, I'm being realistic. Older women go to great lengths to try and get it as they age. I know a bunch who even get loans so they sustain the only cock they got.
>take this post wall bitch
No. I went outside for non work related things and met this lady who looked 40, told me she was 23 (same age as me), thought she was joking so tell her she looks 25-30 (compliment because she looks 40).
I wanna feel bad but these women put themselves there. They could meet people just like we could but I guess it’s better to be a miserable fuck dreaming of what could have been instead of what could be.
it's significantly less stressful once you're past the first phase of relationship and can finally be yourself instead of posturing and showing your best side at all times
a lot never gets past that though and i lmao at them playing 4D chess 24/7
>I don't approach women in public I don't know because that's fucking weird >I don't approach women who I see regularly (work, uni clubs, classes) because if they reject me it'll be awkward as fuck, as the saying goes don't shit where you eat
is there some magical hidden third option I'm not aware of? how the fuck am I supposed to get a gf?
>(work, uni clubs, classes)
your mistake is in assumption work is the same as the latter two
work is the backbone of your life, university is just a phase where you can ignore your colleagues 95% of the time
All this defeatist blackpill bullshit is exactly that, bullshit.
I challenge any of you incel losers to go to any public event, you will see short guys, ugly guys, fat guys, etc with girlfriends
Imo the only thing women really want you to be is neurotypical, if you're autistic like me then yeah you're actually fucked
Are you the drooling wearing a Sonic t-shirt type of autist or can people not tell until they get to know you?
If it's the latter, you can probably find a girl, if it's the former you'll want to stay single cuz the girls that think you'll take them are NOT worth it.
>thats how i got approached by her, no clue how to do it normally tho
Look mate, if I wait to be approach by girls I'll go crazy. The one time I managed to get a gf, it was so bad I gave up porn for a month just to not see the female body.
[...] >No really, if you're having a good conversation with a girl, she's laughing at your jokes, super into whatever dumb bullshit you're talking about, ask her if she wants to grab coffee outside of school and if you're lucky she says yes and you get her number. From there as long as you can keep up the convos and get her to smile she'll fall for you on some level and before you know it, you'll have a time and money vampire of your very own.
I'm afraid of getting in trouble, so I'm wondering if there's a better protocol. If it's just chatting up a girl for a couple days then sure, I can do it then.
I don't know how you'd get in trouble for just having a casual conversation with a girl and then asking to hang out outside of school if you feel like it's going good, what do you mean exactly?
>I don't know how you'd get in trouble for just having a casual conversation with a girl and then asking to hang out outside of school if you feel like it's going good, what do you mean exactly?
I'm concern she'll think I'm harassing her. Remember that image that went >buff guy saying girl looks good.
girl: =) >ugly guy saying girl looks good
girl: HR HELP ME
I'm worried something like that has happened. Although I will admit I am a bit paranoid about social situations that I'm new to, I rely on experience a lot and have little in this department.
Oh gotcha.
Well you've said you're capable of chatting up women, so I'm gonna assume you can tell when a conversation is going well and a conversation is going poorly.
MOST of the time if the conversation is going well but she's not interesting she'll softly reject you and that's pretty much the worst of it, I've only ever encountered one chick who flat out accused someone of harassment and she was a genuine psycho and the people around her knew that so it became a nothingburger.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
OK so if she's having a good time (and usually, you can tell by her eyes) ask and if she says no, that's it.
All right thanks
I'm definitely the latter. I put an obscene amount of work into my appearance because I think the better I look, the more forgiving people will be of my autism
I think I'm at least decent looking, girls and guys alike have complimented me on my looks before, but I also basically have no friends and no idea on how to flirt and I get really nervous around people so I spend almost all my time rotting alone in my room
It's almost as if social skills are actually more important than looks.
Fucking wild theory, I know.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
why do you type like you have a lisp
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
It’s not. 90% of the battle is getting a women to like you at first glance. If she likes you off the rip you can literally poop your pants and she will find a way to justify it to keep liking you
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
I wholeheartedly agree with you.
That's why I hate incels who are like "uhh girls only want you if you're tall rich and handsome!"
no, they just want someone with basic social skills and confidence
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
Well, it doesn't matter either way, a good number of dudes who have no social skills can't develop them even if they tried.
It's probably more of a blackpill than the lookism shit.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
that'd require them to admit their lack of success with women is a result of their failed development since early childhood rather than an outside factor and their own negligence might've played an important part, the pill is too black
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
You can be social king and have the manners and attitude if a king for all they give a shit, if you look like a chubby mouth breather she’s not going to forgive that. It’s more likely that she would prefer you be very handsome or sexy and she can teach your proper manners and behavior. Don’t cope like this anons, it’s strictly about looks, at least 90% of the game is. Please stop reinforcing cope into other anons. Being ugly isn’t a genetic deal, as long as you fags we’re self aware and took care of yourselves in 20s, you most definitely can become a sexy/handsome version of yourselves
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
>Being ugly isn’t a genetic deal >Please stop reinforcing cope into other anons
kek
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
I mean being fat is being ugly and you can change that. Check mate incel.
>and she can teach your proper manners and behavior
ahahaha
imagine believing this
women want their man to be leaders, nothing dries up a woman more than when she has to teach him things
Yeah that’s why you got a bitch around your arm you fucking retard
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
>I mean being fat is being ugly
Being fat doesn't dictate your facial skull structure, dumb-dumb.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
Oh okay well if you were born a genetic disaster i excuse your cope lmao
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
>i excuse your cope
Thank you anon.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
>and she can teach your proper manners and behavior
ahahaha
imagine believing this
women want their man to be leaders, nothing dries up a woman more than when she has to teach him things
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
Actually most people who post here are asian blacks and Hispanics.
They cry because no one wants them expect some 2/10 overweight brown skinned female Asian white and 10/10 blacks are only for white chads sorry turd skin.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
>Actually most people who post here are asian blacks and Hispanics.
Very true.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
Same tan lines but I go from very light brown to dark brown. I also have a raccoon looking tan on my face.
I skinwalk as a normalfag so I do see stuff, most couples are subconsciously looks matching, meaning they naturally gravitate more towards people in the same attractiveness range. 3s date 3s, 6s date 6s, 9s date 9. Exceptions of course but I find most women look about as the same their men. As long as you have realistic standards I believe most anyone can get a gf. Bigger problem is the mental facilities, if you're not all there and you can't fake it til you make then you're probably dying alone unless you get lucky and a good girl falls into your lap. It can happen, I've seen it with a good friend of mine.
Defeatist blackpill garbage was always pure bullshit peddled by homosexuals too scared to end their miserable existence.
>you will see short guys, ugly guys, fat guys, etc with girlfriends
That is true. I do regularly see uglier, shorter, fatter, balder, poorer, etc men than me in relationships. So obviously the problem isn't any of those. Obviously the problem is who I am, fundamentally, as a person. I am unlikeable and undesirable intrinsically.
>cutie in the blue sweater grabs awkward red shirt guy's arms to put them on her
Why does watching this hurt me so bad? Oh right, because women would never want to be anywhere near me. How silly of me to forget.
Women tend to get in the spirit of things real quick, so she didn't grab his hand because she liked him, she did it cause the dude was being a sperg.
Red shirt guy is my spirit animal btw.
Pop culture sure loves to portray uni as this fucking constant fuckfest of fraternities and sororities and people skipping class or study to go bang their brains out.
It used to be that way. A decade ago the uni here when "dry" meaning no booze in the sorority and frat houses. Fucking nobody was getting laid after that.
>You do at least meet people on the train/bus/whatever
what?
I've been taking the bus almost daily for my entire time at uni, never have I seen anyone talk to anyone else
Why don't people understand you're not supposed to just strike up random conversations with strangers?
It's also the worst place to do that, when everyone else is a completely silent and a captive audience. Maybe a night bus from a bar or something. Or you have a wing women striking it up. It would still be better almost anywhere else.
Commuter life is exactly how you don't meet people / get laid. What most commuters I used to know did to make up for it was stay on campus way longer after they finished classes. Be it hanging out in the library to study, wasting time in the student center, or doing extracurriculars. If you just go to class and go home, you will never meet anyone. You have to force yourself into social situations. The longer you wait, the harder it will get.
>said "fuck it" this year, by 26 year of kissless virginity, and just bought an escort which showed me how everything works after finding out I'm that way >started whorehounding and just exploring shit myself >it made fapping to 2D much better and way, way more vivid because it augmented the perception and imagination by applying real experiences In some countries' older societies, the wealthy and kind of middle class used to bring their adolescent sons to a brothel so that the hookers would teach the kids everything they need to know. Should have done it at the age of 18 and broke the barrier. It devalues women and makes sex something unassuming and ordinary instead of the high and enigmatic holy grail beyond your grasp. >but wizard powers
I play fighter/warrior anyway.
>said "fuck it" this year, by 26 year of kissless virginity, and just bought an escort which showed me how everything works after finding out I'm that way
was she nice?
I'm 38, but I'd never want to be friends with any of you. After all, I post here, and I can't stand me, so I can only imagine that the rest of you are somehow even worse.
Same
I'm 30 and I hate myself
I know it could be within my grasp to fix most of my material issues, but I just ask myself why I should bother and continue being a lazy degenerate waiting for the collapse or my death
Honestly I don't want anyone in my life. People message me to meet, some married girl always flirts with me, etc. but it all feels like too much effort.
Just leave me alone. I don't see the point and value in all the basic gestures and conversations that come with "friendship" and "love".
I do wish I was a bit less of a cynic and more naive, but I don't think I can change that.
>i don't care about women, seriously fuck all women i don't care about them, women can all get raped by chads, it's better to be redpilled and wise and intelligent like me and be a 35 year old virgin "man" who can't even maintain eye contact with a woman for more than a second >seriously, i cannot repeat it enough, i am done with women, i never cared about them and i never want to think about women and i never want to see a woman in real life i hate them so much based kazakhstan bro anyone else a based wizard? >anyway let's post woman hate threads and woman hate webms, based as fuck
>till you reach a point where it's impossible for you to be with anyone else at all. At a point you are too fully cooked to live your life with someone else at all
Can confirm. I just lost all desire to be with anyone in my late 20s and I'm not sure why
It wasn’t until my engagement ended that loneliness was starting to bother me. Before that relationship I didn’t mind being alone since I had been for 23 years at that point. I hate that my first reaction whenever I find something I like such as a movie or a game or whatever is to want to share it with someone who isn’t there. Just an empty chair.
>God rewards a life of hardship with eternal rest
Vs >Satan baits you with an easy life of porn and 2d waifus to draw you in so he can feel smug that you chose to let him torture you for all eternity
Come over to the truth anon
>God rewards a life of hardship with eternal rest
I mean, atheism does the same thing, and I don't have to join an organization or practice any dogma. There's literally nothing more restful than nonexistence. I really wish I was dead.
There's no evidence to any, even if you did have a vision and already know what is truth, I don't.
Until God himself speaks to me, it's all hocus pocus
Death Stranding. You're probably already aware of the story, but just in case you aren't: in the future, after an apocalypse, everyone lives in underground bunkers. You are virtually the only person on the surface
>tfw even I were to start dating now, most women probably wouldn't want to date a guy with no relationship or sexual experience
dating as an adult is sort of like a video game when you think about it
everyone else is a high level, and you're stuck at level 1, so you have no idea what you're doing and no one wants to play with you
Funny how globalization, diversity, more people, urbanization, social media is just making people trust eachother less and less and growing farther apart
I managed to secure one life long friend, so I'm pretty set for life
honestly bros, gfs aren't worth it, look for friendships, they are way more fulfilling
Got molested by my dad as a kid which made me a timid coward and afraid of sex, then was embarrassed a lot by girls in school because they saw what a coward I was so now I'm terrified of them. It was so bad other guys would make fun of me for how scared I was of them. My anxiety meds make it almost impossible to get hard. I'd off myself but it would ruin my mom's life
>at work >New girl I've chat with a couple of times >We have a lot in common, tell jokes, kinda flirty >Ask her if she wants to hang out some other day >She says we should go to the movies >Ask for her instagram >Message her a couple days later >She pretends I never asked her out >Says she's already dating someone
It's so over
her a couple days later
There's your problem. Now with smartphones and 4g, you are expected to be available 24/7 and entertain their messages within 20 minutes
While you were trying to be nonchallant and waited 3 day she was chatting with other dudes who are contantly giving her attention
>just got out of a 2 year relationship >she said she sees no future with me >working on certifications for work >pay raise expected to put me over 120k a year >certifications will put me in line for better positions with other companies >improving my overall health via exercise
Meanwhile >she has been misreable >hasn't done anything to address any of the issues causing her to be misreable >refuses to go to therapy, or accept help of any kind
It's gonna be okay bros. These women don't even know what they want. Even when they get what they say they want.
It also works the other way around >Have gf >Way easier to find another gf
Social proofing is a thing. It's like IT companies asking for 5 years of experience, but you can't get experience cause they're all asking for previous work experience.
Being isolated from the rest of the world has made me so desperate for attention, to the point where I’ll make friends even with Ganker(nel)ers on discord, the absolute lowest scum of the earth anyone could be friends with. How do I stop myself from craving validation from others? I just want to be like one of those dudes that have finally accepted that they’ll always be alone and have learned how to cope with it
Mid 20’s. The age where men start making the important decisions
>and have learned how to cope with it
The trick is to get hobbies and have a personality that's ok with being alone. If you're the socializing type it's never going to happen.
I’m actually not a very social person. But being alone for long periods of time gets so suffocating after awhile
You don’t need other people. Make people need you. How old are you anon? Many men don’t know this but there comes a turning point in a man’s life where he can set himself on to the path of the wise friend.i don’t like socializing too much but I’ve become the entity my friends turn to for advice and solidarity. Basically become someone who makes impacts on people positively. Also it takes time to recognize when people want advice or just to talk about problems they are going through. If your in your 30s get a dog asap lol
I don’t want to be a wise person. I tried doing that and it never works. People don’t want advice, or at least not from me. I even lost a couple friendships because I tried to cheer some of them up and they straight up told me to fuck off and slowly started to ghost me
>. How do I stop myself from craving validation from others? I just want to be like one of those dudes that have finally accepted that they’ll always be alone and have learned how to cope with it
Get obsessed with something. If I wasn't obsessed with music I would rope.
Yeah, this seems like my only option. Thank God I have a decent job and can actually afford stuff now
Get hobby, go where people do that hobby.
[...]
It's not that bad. Most filter themselves by being unwilling to keep a conversation going and will eventually ghost you (this is a good thing, don't waste time on these fags). Some are literal fags, not usually apparent unless you're also a fag because your mutual fagness will make it more obvious you are both homosexuals. A few get bad just ban them. I've had a few decent connections from Ganker Ganker or /vg/ and it's entirely due to the fact we played video games together. If you're just talking on shitcord then it's not going to last because you're going to need to carry 98% of the conversations and they're not even good listening types you can ramble to.
The “friends” I have right now are exactly that kind of people. Boring assholes who don’t give a shit about me and refuse to help carry the conversation. But I’m so desperate for attention that I’ll latch on to anyone who so much as acknowledges my existence
I guess I just need to constantly remind myself that I wasn’t meant to make friends, and just go from there
>Yeah, this seems like my only option. Thank God I have a decent job and can actually afford stuff now
Get an outdoor hobby. I find those are great contrast to workday life. If you want an idea, woodworking: I made a table once with my dad and it was fun. I can imagine it'll be a good way to get some sun and strive off sucide.
>and have learned how to cope with it
The trick is to get hobbies and have a personality that's ok with being alone. If you're the socializing type it's never going to happen.
You don’t need other people. Make people need you. How old are you anon? Many men don’t know this but there comes a turning point in a man’s life where he can set himself on to the path of the wise friend.i don’t like socializing too much but I’ve become the entity my friends turn to for advice and solidarity. Basically become someone who makes impacts on people positively. Also it takes time to recognize when people want advice or just to talk about problems they are going through. If your in your 30s get a dog asap lol
>. How do I stop myself from craving validation from others? I just want to be like one of those dudes that have finally accepted that they’ll always be alone and have learned how to cope with it
Get obsessed with something. If I wasn't obsessed with music I would rope.
Being isolated from the rest of the world has made me so desperate for attention, to the point where I’ll make friends even with Ganker(nel)ers on discord, the absolute lowest scum of the earth anyone could be friends with. How do I stop myself from craving validation from others? I just want to be like one of those dudes that have finally accepted that they’ll always be alone and have learned how to cope with it
It's not that bad. Most filter themselves by being unwilling to keep a conversation going and will eventually ghost you (this is a good thing, don't waste time on these fags). Some are literal fags, not usually apparent unless you're also a fag because your mutual fagness will make it more obvious you are both homosexuals. A few get bad just ban them. I've had a few decent connections from Ganker Ganker or /vg/ and it's entirely due to the fact we played video games together. If you're just talking on shitcord then it's not going to last because you're going to need to carry 98% of the conversations and they're not even good listening types you can ramble to.
>Start reading romance because why the fuck not, last time I read some was back in highschool >Toradora + Blue Box >2 days ago I dreamt about the friend I have a crush on, we are living together in the dream and having a nice time.
Why do I do this to myself. >inb4 go for it
I want to have a family, house, marriage etc, not only is that impossible for the next decade in monetary terms, she already said in casual talk that she doesnt want to marry or have a family, we simply have different life goals.
Remember that boomers have given her all the power, and she will use it to destroy you if you date a girl you work with. Now, read your bible and enjoy life!
>went out with a girl 3 times in a week >the last time she invited me out >ran into a "cooler" group she knows at the bars, got the cold shoulder, ditched and blocked the same night >ignore all women that approach me/smile at me for the past week because I'm not in the mood for anymore of this shit right now >hot chick at the gym starts working out uncomfortably close to me >finish my set and walk away
If you've never dated/had a gf and have anxiety, interacting with women will just be even more anxiety-inducing. Grass is always greener.
>be dumb normalfag >expect anyone here to empathize with your dumb normalfag problems
You think you have problems, starving African kid? I can't decide where to go to lunch today!
>be dumb normalfag >expect anyone else here to be dumb normalfag
This site is full of normal, well adjusted people. I should know, I'm an oldfag who's been here since 2016!
How low of a bar have you set that just interacting with women makes someone normal and well adjusted? I still don't understand social cues or know what I'm supposed to say.
I had a gf from age 24 to 27 I think. I'm 32 now and I only want to feel the feeling of cumming inside a woman I like again before I off myself.
Hookers or prostitutes are off the table because they would make me incredibly anxious. Also they are ugly.
I go to work, to the gym and I go out climbing on weekends. Point is, it's almost always with male friends and the occasional woman is either ugly as sin, old or taken. I occasionally go out for drinks with coworkers too.
Point is, I really don't see how meeting girls and transforming them in a fling or full fledged gf works. I see it happening around me to other male friends but it just doesn't happen to me "naturally". I just talk to people, make friends, also talk to women with no problems, but how the fuck do you actually get to the point of fucking them?
The first and only gf I had basically did everything herself, asked me out etc. so I didn't have to "force" anything basically, but right now I really feel stuck, having sex with a nice girl seems science fiction right now to me.
that's false thoughever white conservatives are having sligntly less kids than hispanics and both are having way more than blacks. japan isn't even doing that bad, korea and china are the ones maybe having issues in the future.
>AI girlfriends “ruining an entire generation of men”
So if we’re not allowed to date real women and we’re not allowed to date AI women then what the fuck do they want us to do?
They want us to suffer, just like throughout all of history
I won't speak for anyone else, but I wish my dad hadn't. If he never had sex, I wouldn't have to be alive. My god, how amazing that would be, to have never existed.
Where do I find women who don't care about social media?
You need at least 200 instagram followers for women to even consider you as an option these days
>don't be invited in hs after making up bs excuses too many times >start going out in uni and be rarely invited because people realize I'm boring
That whole "exposure therapy" works only for normalfags. Even when I'm drunk I still behave like a robot.
>don't be invited in hs after making up bs excuses too many times
I've unironically had 2 different instances of girls walking with me from school to the front gate of my house, at which point I was like >Welp, this is me, see ya
I'm literally too autistic for this world.
I have autism and people can notice it pretty much immediately. I have been told it's something with the face muscles.
so they usually won't listen to what I have to say or just outright discriminate
It's almost impossible to land a decent job because of it
Good question indeed.
Knowing my father managed to have sex and start a family fills me with uncontrollable rage. If we were the same age, i'm sure he would be someone i would hate with all my guts.
I won't speak for anyone else, but I wish my dad hadn't. If he never had sex, I wouldn't have to be alive. My god, how amazing that would be, to have never existed.
My dad isn't a bad person, but he's a weak deadbeat who trails the line between being a narcissist and groveling for validation.
My mother is as naive and as dumb as they come.
That's how I came into existence. From a weak, calculating motherfucker and a naive, dumb chick.
For my part, I feel no guilt for not (being able to) providing them with grandchildren. I'll be around to look after them in their old age, but that's all they can expect as far as I'm concerned.
And while I am lonely, I will willingly choose loneliness over what my father did a thousand times over.
>My dad isn't a bad person, but he's a weak deadbeat who trails the line between being a narcissist and groveling for validation.
Hey, that's the reason I hated my dad, nice.
most men are simply meant to die off
i have simply come to terms that in another age i would just be a dead end that died on some stupid war before getting the chance to procreate
The entire species is designed around excess males dying off in wars or hunting sabertooth tigers or whatever.
Something about sperm being cheap and eggs being expensive.
As much as I miss the intimacy, I don’t miss actually being in a relationship at all. Women can be so exhausting and honestly it feels like it isn’t worth the time and stress they sometimes bring. The no gf virgin anons have it easy.
>Women can be so exhausting
You don't even have to be in a relationship to know this, all you need is to spend a very short amount of time around women.
I feel like a lot of dudes are single cause women can sense they aren't made of the sterner material that's required to build a life with a woman.
I've seen far better men than myself get drained to a husk after decades of marriage.
>dude jsut get a GF lmao >100% of the people I interact with on a daily basis are Indian men
I haven't even seen another white guy in months, let alone any sort of woman
>every new person at work instantly find friends there and hang out with in their free time
I can only presume it is a me issue and I am a boring person that nobody really likes
This is the same problem i have everyone else already has a friend group so there's no reason for them to hang out with you. The people who don't have friends groups don't go outside so you'll never met them anyways.
I've never understood the people who claim masturbation can cure loneliness. How do you get over the mid- and pre-wank depression? That lingering, ever-present thought of "nobody else will ever be with me physically, why should I?"
How do you even fix this though like i talk with my friends sometimes and we came to the conclusion you cant really do anything to course change this what are you gonna do tell women to let those men that arent the top percentage to touch your dick?lmao
My conclusion it's either a severe mental illness that only manifests itself in relation to finding a gf or a genetic defect which subconciously alerts women to stay away. The only way to break through is becoming absurdly rich or powerful, so that women think they can take advantage of you, so yes it's unfixable
Nah that's a massive cope for you to give up because it's far easier to live in passive lonliness and depression rather than try to escape and face active rejection. Everything you spout is built on ideas with no factual basis you swallow wholly because it confirms your bias that you're right not to try and your cowardice is the only answer. There's men far worse off than you that have achieved fulfilling and happy lives.
People aren't some magic autism detectors, people who are legitimately deformed or insane managed to get relationships. But you...you're a terminally online schizoid who doesn't know how to talk to people...truly the greatest handicap.
I'm not going to pretend it's easy but you're a much larger issue in your happiness than a majority of the outside world.
How do I stop being such a feminine bitch and accept that men need to initiate and pursue if they want a relationship?
I'm stubborn, I'll basically do everything except actually approach and talk to women >whenever I leave the house I always make sure to make myself look really good because I hope that women will approach me, of course they never do
No but it really feels like they are. I’ve had people tell me to go abroad to meet women because different values or whatever only to discover for myself that they were the exact fucking same except this lady I need subtitles for.
>mfw I'll never painfully and senselessly in a war to increase industrial profits or destablized an already unsustainable economic system in a third world shit whole
We missed out bros. We so missed out.
Don't despair yet fren, I'm having high hopes for WWIII.
i always see people mention getting a hobby to build a social circle, but i can't think of a single interesting hobby. what are some hobbies to meet people? all i know are vidya, which has gotten me nowhere
Tabletop is alright. A lot of freaks though
grognards, incels, tumblrites and those sex pests who have weekly orgies and can't get hard without using 10 devices
>we missed the golden age of humanity by a few decades >where men for once felt like something mattered more past money, height, looks, social status, possesions and just having sex to have sex. >even God is dead now
and then everyone died the end
>mfw I'll never painfully and senselessly in a war to increase industrial profits or destablized an already unsustainable economic system in a third world shit whole
We missed out bros. We so missed out.
>meet a cute girl at work >we talk, have lunch together sometimes, and get along with her >see that she doesn't have a ring and decide to ask for her number after work one day >we talk on the phone for a few days after work >after some time, she starts to get touchy with me like scratching my back, giving me massages, and giving me hugs >do the same thing to her and she likes it >call her while on my way home from work >doesn't pick up >get a call from her later that night >I answer and hear a dudes voice on the other end >it's her husband >her husband wants to know who the fuck I am >I hang up immediately >never call again
The most awkward moment I've had.
Back in my mid 20's, a girl was hitting on me at a halloween party and wanted me to go home with her. I told her that I'm sorry but I only find 2D anime girls attractive. She was a psychology master's student and I will never fucking forget the discussion we had after that. Women are pissed if you don't want to touch them because you find other women attractive but if you don't touch them because you find fictional characters more attractive...that's something else lmao
At least you're not lonely in your loneliness
Misery loves company.
There's a boomer joke about hating your wife/husband here somewhere
only 1% of people were married in the 90s? that sounds wrong
marriage =/= having a gf
>1990
Not exactly a trad time either, with all the boomer sluts. Oh well, Rome wasn't dismantled in a day.
if you equate marriage with "removing loneliness" you are already doing it wrong
>after 12 years of being single a cute girl from uni messages me
>weve been seeing each other for 7 weeks straight now
dont give up hope anonbros, there is always an autistic girl waiting for you
Fuck off, normalhomosexual.
She's probably from some creepy religious sect and wants to sacrifice you to her snail god or something
>Be me
>Spergoid virgin
>Girl at work starts flirting with me
>She's just fucking with me for the ego boost
I preferred it when I was invisible to women.
Give up hope.
Get back in the bucket.
never
Not saying CRABSOLUTE fool, such a missed opportunity
>be me
>alone all throughout school
>college is my only hope
>go into a degree that is 95% males
>too autistic to meet new people that I don't go to class with
Don't be like me anons
EDUCATE ME ANONS
I'm going for a masters (cause I can't get a job, ripped CS). How do I get to talk/flirt with chicks? Don't tell me get Ganker or work on my body or get bread, I'm already doing that. I'm talking concretely, going from classmate/club members with girl -> number -> gf. This is the only part I'm confused because I never did it before.
have an ounce of charisma, be decent enough looking via haircut and talk but dont go overboard if asked or if noone talks in your classes
thats how i got approached by her, no clue how to do it normally tho
>be decent enough looking via haircut
Yeah, famously, the difference between attractive and unattractive people is the haircut. Dumb fucking homosexual.
im not looker myself but having a decent haircut and shaving can make a massive difference between looking like your general unkempt shmock and a half good looking dude.
I dont expect him to look like some defects ridden freak or a fat fuck so my theory should apply.
go fuck yourself homo
>hurr im a total normalfag with a normalfag haircut and you can too! jus b urslef
Eat shit, homosexual.
>look like some unwashed up from the mountains with the charisma of a rock
>hurr durr why women dont aproach me
you are better off kys, women will laugh straight in your face
>thats how i got approached by her, no clue how to do it normally tho
Look mate, if I wait to be approach by girls I'll go crazy. The one time I managed to get a gf, it was so bad I gave up porn for a month just to not see the female body.
>No really, if you're having a good conversation with a girl, she's laughing at your jokes, super into whatever dumb bullshit you're talking about, ask her if she wants to grab coffee outside of school and if you're lucky she says yes and you get her number. From there as long as you can keep up the convos and get her to smile she'll fall for you on some level and before you know it, you'll have a time and money vampire of your very own.
I'm afraid of getting in trouble, so I'm wondering if there's a better protocol. If it's just chatting up a girl for a couple days then sure, I can do it then.
First of all, throw any fear of rejection out the window if you can, secondly, you just ask.
No really, if you're having a good conversation with a girl, she's laughing at your jokes, super into whatever dumb bullshit you're talking about, ask her if she wants to grab coffee outside of school and if you're lucky she says yes and you get her number. From there as long as you can keep up the convos and get her to smile she'll fall for you on some level and before you know it, you'll have a time and money vampire of your very own.
The worst thing is you right now asking how when you should just do.
i am you, except also during covid so 2 years of my classes were online
i will get my master's next year and i'll still be a khhv.
>uni
kys normalfag
i still haven't gone to a single class this year. Hell i don't know a single classmate from the previous 4 years
stupid bear whore
>go to college
>get bussy instead
Seeing or dating?
7 weeks of "seeing" eachother sounds like basic human interaction
I never had the chance to go to college because I moved around too much so it's grover for me, dude
homosexual zoomers surround us at this very moment. Nice to see you fell for the college meme. Enjoy your debt.
Fuck off tranny
Good luck anon, I'm rooting for you!
I'm too much of a autistic retard to even make friends. I believe too much in separation between work/outside life, online life, and personal life to make friends. I don't know how to open myself enough to invite people from my work/outside life into my personal life because I have a shitty personality deep down and I don't want to make things awkward when we have to go back to working together.
Sounds too good to be true anon
>uni was split into a sciences campus (99% males) and humanities campus (99% female)
>each campus was in opposite sides of the city
>stuck in an IT course surrounded by dudebro normalfags whose only videogames are yearly sportslop
i've been robbed
stop lying on the internet
Is that the Star Wars bitch? Why is she in a meme template?
It's a Ganker thing.
Also congrats bro, happy for you. Don't fuck it up.
thanks bro, im on my best behavior around her
Just bee yourself!
Am I autistic but I find webms like this to be, suHispanicious. I'm a KVH but just the way she's trying to be warm but her eyes aren't makes me think she's faking it and just wants to use me.
>an actress acting in a scene may be faking it
You don't fucking say.
Then why are people even ragebaiting? I see this and get mad cause I feel like a gold digger, and now I got child support. I don't get how people it and think love.
She doesn't look anything like Marilyn
Sometimes I'll intentionally watch things like this just to see if still hurts. It's like an emotional version of cutting.
Yup, still hurts, by the way.
My 20 year old self would have been sad after watching this but now that I'm in my 30's I feel nothing after seeing emotional ragebait posts.
It's ok it doesn't bother me because I'm a stoic
>he bursts out laughing and says it's pronounced stow-ic, not stoike
Post the Disco Elysium version.
ok, I'm gonna do it this weekend.
I'm gonna walk around and if I see a cute girl, I'm gonna asks for her number.
>How do I avoid getting numbers from a girl that's too young?
>What's my success rate?
>What should I message her if I do manager to get her numbers?
>>What's my success rate?
Depends on your looks.
>>What should I message her if I do manager to get her numbers?
>Teach me how to text guys
Nah man, figure shit out.
>>How do I avoid getting numbers from a girl that's too young?
Um, that's actually a very good question. If she gives you her number work in asking her how old she is in the conversation.
I think cold approaching is the biggest meme in the world unless you're a Chad, you're better off working on your social circle, but uh good luck anon.
>What's my success rate?
Asking the number of a randome girl without even trying to start a conversation? I don't know, 0.0001%?
Nahhh don’t cold approach anon. This only works if your so handsome even men will talk to.
Dead Space (not the remake)
Actually good suggestion. Nice work anon.
FEAR also I feel is a good one.
Stalker (Misery) also.
2024's the one bros.
does asking girls minding their own business on the street even workout anymore? aren't they all on dating sites?
Binding of Isaac for general depression. He also added coop just to rub it in more that you are a sad abused alone wreck that should have died as a kid.
>He also added coop just to rub it in more that you are a sad abused alone wreck that should have died as a kid.
I'm all up on suicide fuel, thank you very much.
I've fried whatever receptors are responsible for making me desire real women.
>go outside
>there are only old soviet alcoholics and boomers asking for change or a lighter
I hate living in siberia
>I hate living in siberia
Idk anon, the outside perfectly matching the inside sounds pretty kino to me.
In the west it's all smiles on the outside whilst the majority of the people want to die on the inside.
Aren't you supposed to be drafted into Ukraine?
I dunno where exactly in Siberia do you live, but in PFD every time i do a simple stroll around the local embankment i see a shit ton of beautiful girls.
Not like it helps my beta ass, though.
Anons I want you to know, and I am hand to God honestly telling the truth here. But I am 40 years old and just got my first gf this year. I got to feel what it's like to kiss a girl, to know what it's like to have a girl genuinely like you. It's so great. I thought the rest of my life was a dead end, but things turned out ok against all odds.
2023 worked out. Just keep trying and keep improving anons. If a piece of shit like me can do it, we can all make it.
Cool except for the the fact you use a pass
It’s hilarious that the sign will run out of space and can’t fit 2024
You can always laugh at lonely women
>45% of women
What about men?
they discover mpreg in 2027 forever changing the game
It'll probably be around 80%
70% higher than whatever the womens rates are
>women
>lonely
jej
>hags
>not lonely
You overrate the amount of attention women get as they age.
nah you'd be surprised
I know this board is full of incels who think women lose all value past 22, but a 35 year old woman who takes care of herself would still get plenty of attention if she went to a bar
lol this, a 35 year old can walk up to practically any guy and show them attention they will instantly want to fuck. You need to be grandma tier to not attract a mate
Nope, I'm being realistic. Older women go to great lengths to try and get it as they age. I know a bunch who even get loans so they sustain the only cock they got.
>young men and older women are the loneliest demographics
why don't all these lonely zoomer and millennial boys just go after MILFs?
Point me towards them.
>take this post wall bitch
No. I went outside for non work related things and met this lady who looked 40, told me she was 23 (same age as me), thought she was joking so tell her she looks 25-30 (compliment because she looks 40).
she was white wasn't she? white women age like fucking milk it's insane
enjoy your deformed baby
This just makes me sad. Not cus “what about muh womens” but because of the larger implication. Society and people as a whole are becoming more lonely
Society doesn't really care. They'll just replace people not having kids with immigrants
That well will be drying up in the near future
USA's and most western countries populations are set to increase for the next 50 or so years. It's going to last longer than most people posting here.
He probably means the wealth/opportunities, but you're right
Society doesn't care about men, welcome to reality, adjust your expectations and do your best
I wanna feel bad but these women put themselves there. They could meet people just like we could but I guess it’s better to be a miserable fuck dreaming of what could have been instead of what could be.
>go to work
>go home and have to tardwrangle a woman to 'prove' something to her
makes you think
The only thing more tragic than the modern man is the modern woman
>Richer, More Independent, and more supported by the world at large
Yeah but they're....not having babies that nobody wants.
>Dealing with women
Sounds stressful. I prefer gaming.
it's significantly less stressful once you're past the first phase of relationship and can finally be yourself instead of posturing and showing your best side at all times
a lot never gets past that though and i lmao at them playing 4D chess 24/7
I doubt i can find someone i can say nagger in front of.
my gf is more racist than me, but i don't live in united states of freedom
Country?
poland
>I don't approach women in public I don't know because that's fucking weird
>I don't approach women who I see regularly (work, uni clubs, classes) because if they reject me it'll be awkward as fuck, as the saying goes don't shit where you eat
is there some magical hidden third option I'm not aware of? how the fuck am I supposed to get a gf?
social circles but do they exist anymore?
social circle might be a good idea, but refer to my second point
if you ask out a female friend and she rejects you, every time you see her it will be awkward
that's why flirting exists, so you can figure out if things are going well before you ask her out with plausible deniability
>idgaf about being weird anymore
>idgaf about being awkward anymore
jee whiz that was ez
>(work, uni clubs, classes)
your mistake is in assumption work is the same as the latter two
work is the backbone of your life, university is just a phase where you can ignore your colleagues 95% of the time
Become a tall, succesfull chad with killer jaw and hunter eyes. That's all there is to it.
All this defeatist blackpill bullshit is exactly that, bullshit.
I challenge any of you incel losers to go to any public event, you will see short guys, ugly guys, fat guys, etc with girlfriends
Imo the only thing women really want you to be is neurotypical, if you're autistic like me then yeah you're actually fucked
>want you to be is neurotypical
Fuck it. I'll just devote all of my free time to vidya development.
>spends 3/4 of the year wishing it were winter
This image speaks to me
>you will see short guys, ugly guys, fat guys, etc with girlfriends
You wont
t. knower
Do you seriously think women only date guys who are tall rich and handsome? The human race would almost be extinct if that was the case
you will
they'll be about as ugly as them or uglier 90% of the time, but you will
date on your level
I see normie tier looking dudes with yuge whales, never see fat dudes with anyone.
Are you the drooling wearing a Sonic t-shirt type of autist or can people not tell until they get to know you?
If it's the latter, you can probably find a girl, if it's the former you'll want to stay single cuz the girls that think you'll take them are NOT worth it.
I don't know how you'd get in trouble for just having a casual conversation with a girl and then asking to hang out outside of school if you feel like it's going good, what do you mean exactly?
>I don't know how you'd get in trouble for just having a casual conversation with a girl and then asking to hang out outside of school if you feel like it's going good, what do you mean exactly?
I'm concern she'll think I'm harassing her. Remember that image that went
>buff guy saying girl looks good.
girl: =)
>ugly guy saying girl looks good
girl: HR HELP ME
I'm worried something like that has happened. Although I will admit I am a bit paranoid about social situations that I'm new to, I rely on experience a lot and have little in this department.
Oh gotcha.
Well you've said you're capable of chatting up women, so I'm gonna assume you can tell when a conversation is going well and a conversation is going poorly.
MOST of the time if the conversation is going well but she's not interesting she'll softly reject you and that's pretty much the worst of it, I've only ever encountered one chick who flat out accused someone of harassment and she was a genuine psycho and the people around her knew that so it became a nothingburger.
OK so if she's having a good time (and usually, you can tell by her eyes) ask and if she says no, that's it.
All right thanks
I'm definitely the latter. I put an obscene amount of work into my appearance because I think the better I look, the more forgiving people will be of my autism
I think I'm at least decent looking, girls and guys alike have complimented me on my looks before, but I also basically have no friends and no idea on how to flirt and I get really nervous around people so I spend almost all my time rotting alone in my room
It's almost as if social skills are actually more important than looks.
Fucking wild theory, I know.
why do you type like you have a lisp
It’s not. 90% of the battle is getting a women to like you at first glance. If she likes you off the rip you can literally poop your pants and she will find a way to justify it to keep liking you
I wholeheartedly agree with you.
That's why I hate incels who are like "uhh girls only want you if you're tall rich and handsome!"
no, they just want someone with basic social skills and confidence
Well, it doesn't matter either way, a good number of dudes who have no social skills can't develop them even if they tried.
It's probably more of a blackpill than the lookism shit.
that'd require them to admit their lack of success with women is a result of their failed development since early childhood rather than an outside factor and their own negligence might've played an important part, the pill is too black
You can be social king and have the manners and attitude if a king for all they give a shit, if you look like a chubby mouth breather she’s not going to forgive that. It’s more likely that she would prefer you be very handsome or sexy and she can teach your proper manners and behavior. Don’t cope like this anons, it’s strictly about looks, at least 90% of the game is. Please stop reinforcing cope into other anons. Being ugly isn’t a genetic deal, as long as you fags we’re self aware and took care of yourselves in 20s, you most definitely can become a sexy/handsome version of yourselves
>Being ugly isn’t a genetic deal
>Please stop reinforcing cope into other anons
kek
I mean being fat is being ugly and you can change that. Check mate incel.
Yeah that’s why you got a bitch around your arm you fucking retard
>I mean being fat is being ugly
Being fat doesn't dictate your facial skull structure, dumb-dumb.
Oh okay well if you were born a genetic disaster i excuse your cope lmao
>i excuse your cope
Thank you anon.
>and she can teach your proper manners and behavior
ahahaha
imagine believing this
women want their man to be leaders, nothing dries up a woman more than when she has to teach him things
Actually most people who post here are asian blacks and Hispanics.
They cry because no one wants them expect some 2/10 overweight brown skinned female Asian white and 10/10 blacks are only for white chads sorry turd skin.
>Actually most people who post here are asian blacks and Hispanics.
Very true.
Same tan lines but I go from very light brown to dark brown. I also have a raccoon looking tan on my face.
Meet people through chat roulette. I met my fiance on omegle.
I skinwalk as a normalfag so I do see stuff, most couples are subconsciously looks matching, meaning they naturally gravitate more towards people in the same attractiveness range. 3s date 3s, 6s date 6s, 9s date 9. Exceptions of course but I find most women look about as the same their men. As long as you have realistic standards I believe most anyone can get a gf. Bigger problem is the mental facilities, if you're not all there and you can't fake it til you make then you're probably dying alone unless you get lucky and a good girl falls into your lap. It can happen, I've seen it with a good friend of mine.
Defeatist blackpill garbage was always pure bullshit peddled by homosexuals too scared to end their miserable existence.
>you will see short guys, ugly guys, fat guys, etc with girlfriends
That is true. I do regularly see uglier, shorter, fatter, balder, poorer, etc men than me in relationships. So obviously the problem isn't any of those. Obviously the problem is who I am, fundamentally, as a person. I am unlikeable and undesirable intrinsically.
Talking to a young woman is playing Russian roulette in 2023
>cutie in the blue sweater grabs awkward red shirt guy's arms to put them on her
Why does watching this hurt me so bad? Oh right, because women would never want to be anywhere near me. How silly of me to forget.
shes does it because she knows it looks awkward af, you can briefly see a look of disgust on her face as she does it
Yeah, but if it was me in the red shirt, the disgust would be enough that she'd rather just deal with the broken circle.
Disgust that red shirt guy thought he was too good to touch her
Women tend to get in the spirit of things real quick, so she didn't grab his hand because she liked him, she did it cause the dude was being a sperg.
Red shirt guy is my spirit animal btw.
I hate 3d women though
The problems with older women are high standards, wants to age match, and a lot are just not attractive due to not taking care of themselves.
>"you'll meet tons of girls in uni bro!"
>tfw my routine for the past 3 years has been go to class, go home
being a commuter is hell
Pop culture sure loves to portray uni as this fucking constant fuckfest of fraternities and sororities and people skipping class or study to go bang their brains out.
lol
lmao
It used to be that way. A decade ago the uni here when "dry" meaning no booze in the sorority and frat houses. Fucking nobody was getting laid after that.
You do at least meet people on the train/bus/whatever
right?
>You do at least meet people on the train/bus/whatever
what?
I've been taking the bus almost daily for my entire time at uni, never have I seen anyone talk to anyone else
Why don't people understand you're not supposed to just strike up random conversations with strangers?
It's also the worst place to do that, when everyone else is a completely silent and a captive audience. Maybe a night bus from a bar or something. Or you have a wing women striking it up. It would still be better almost anywhere else.
Commuter life is exactly how you don't meet people / get laid. What most commuters I used to know did to make up for it was stay on campus way longer after they finished classes. Be it hanging out in the library to study, wasting time in the student center, or doing extracurriculars. If you just go to class and go home, you will never meet anyone. You have to force yourself into social situations. The longer you wait, the harder it will get.
>Death Stranding.
>Everybody's gone to rapture
>Outer Wilds
>Journey
I've played none of them, but I hear theyre lonelykino
Sorry but im a volcel i only care about 2d girls.
It's better to be alone
Just pay for it for your first time and everything will click from there. Get a rub and tug at the very least. Oh and just be yourself.
>said "fuck it" this year, by 26 year of kissless virginity, and just bought an escort which showed me how everything works after finding out I'm that way
>started whorehounding and just exploring shit myself
>it made fapping to 2D much better and way, way more vivid because it augmented the perception and imagination by applying real experiences
In some countries' older societies, the wealthy and kind of middle class used to bring their adolescent sons to a brothel so that the hookers would teach the kids everything they need to know. Should have done it at the age of 18 and broke the barrier. It devalues women and makes sex something unassuming and ordinary instead of the high and enigmatic holy grail beyond your grasp.
>but wizard powers
I play fighter/warrior anyway.
was it worth it?
I'm also 26 and consider doing this
Yeah. It will either ruin your perception of sex and see that the chase is not worth it... or you become addicted
You're a fucking baby why are you guys desperate at just 26
>why are you guys desperate at just 26
You retarded zoomers have no idea
You're the same type that thinks if you didn't date in high-school it's game over
kissless virgin at 26 is fucking over territory anon
...what about 37?
I'm afraid it's recently divorced mothers of two for you, my friend.
That wouldn't even be too bad if she was still fertile. But any of that is much too good to hope for.
Anon i..
It was for me
I tried that too, but couldn't get it. God, I'm so fucked.
Based. Sex is only special to those who don't have it.
>still wasn't desired
>still wasn't loved
you're still a virgin
you just don't know it yet
>even Houellebecq fucks 10/10 dutch girls
C'EST FINI PUTAIN
Isn't his wife Asian? Are you talking about that pron thing to humiliate him?
>said "fuck it" this year, by 26 year of kissless virginity, and just bought an escort which showed me how everything works after finding out I'm that way
was she nice?
>lost all my friends recently
>no one to talk to
>only person who talks to me these days is a schizo
It feels so lonely, bros.
you get used to it
same but i dont have any schizo to talk to me
these two made me feel so ducking lonely
m-me?
Any 30+ want to be friends?
I'm 38, but I'd never want to be friends with any of you. After all, I post here, and I can't stand me, so I can only imagine that the rest of you are somehow even worse.
Love yourself first, anon.
Same
I'm 30 and I hate myself
I know it could be within my grasp to fix most of my material issues, but I just ask myself why I should bother and continue being a lazy degenerate waiting for the collapse or my death
We're already friends, you guys are all my friends
I found some guys here I enjoy talking to on shitcord. They think I'm autistic
>shitcord
I will never be lonely enough to go there.
Fucking ever.
Honestly I don't want anyone in my life. People message me to meet, some married girl always flirts with me, etc. but it all feels like too much effort.
Just leave me alone. I don't see the point and value in all the basic gestures and conversations that come with "friendship" and "love".
I do wish I was a bit less of a cynic and more naive, but I don't think I can change that.
It makes me hurt when I see men grow up without a very right group of friends
>i don't care about women, seriously fuck all women i don't care about them, women can all get raped by chads, it's better to be redpilled and wise and intelligent like me and be a 35 year old virgin "man" who can't even maintain eye contact with a woman for more than a second
>seriously, i cannot repeat it enough, i am done with women, i never cared about them and i never want to think about women and i never want to see a woman in real life i hate them so much based kazakhstan bro anyone else a based wizard?
>anyway let's post woman hate threads and woman hate webms, based as fuck
i look like this, say this, and hate women just like this
This but I'm not a virgin, I fuck men instead.
>girls actually post here
rare femanon sighting
Not at all rare retard sighting.
>women
>Ganker
That's a homosexual not a woman
No one here said this.
Why are you making up an enemy?
every year that passes it gets harder, till you reach a point where it's impossible for you to be with anyone else at all
at a point you are too fully cooked to live your life with someone else at all
>at a point you are too fully cooked to live your life with someone else at all
I feel like I'm there already.
>till you reach a point where it's impossible for you to be with anyone else at all. At a point you are too fully cooked to live your life with someone else at all
Can confirm. I just lost all desire to be with anyone in my late 20s and I'm not sure why
It wasn’t until my engagement ended that loneliness was starting to bother me. Before that relationship I didn’t mind being alone since I had been for 23 years at that point. I hate that my first reaction whenever I find something I like such as a movie or a game or whatever is to want to share it with someone who isn’t there. Just an empty chair.
It's okay Gankerros, Father Satan will reward us with perfect and loyal wives after death.
Tis but a temporary vessel anyway...
cringe
join the winning team
Hey, it's fine. I'm sure your God will also reward you for your loyalty
>God rewards a life of hardship with eternal rest
Vs
>Satan baits you with an easy life of porn and 2d waifus to draw you in so he can feel smug that you chose to let him torture you for all eternity
Come over to the truth anon
>God rewards a life of hardship with eternal rest
I mean, atheism does the same thing, and I don't have to join an organization or practice any dogma. There's literally nothing more restful than nonexistence. I really wish I was dead.
There's no evidence to any, even if you did have a vision and already know what is truth, I don't.
Until God himself speaks to me, it's all hocus pocus
begone
if satan do exist, that means heaven exists too. Why would you give your eternal life for a woman?
I'm lonely that's why
In all seriousness, we don't know if it exists and if Satan even is the bad guy, until we die that is
Turned 30 this year, never had a gf, never had sex, last kiss was over 10 years ago. Life is just going fine I suppose
>actually had a kiss
Jeez. Check out Gigachad over here!
It's just worse since now I know how it feels. I tasted the forbidden fruit.
Just accept the inevitable anon.
Death Stranding. You're probably already aware of the story, but just in case you aren't: in the future, after an apocalypse, everyone lives in underground bunkers. You are virtually the only person on the surface
I already lived that during covid and it was so comfy.
I dunno, I live with my doting younger sister and I don't know that feeling
Is she hot?
No, I just touched her forehead and she's just warm
>tfw even I were to start dating now, most women probably wouldn't want to date a guy with no relationship or sexual experience
dating as an adult is sort of like a video game when you think about it
everyone else is a high level, and you're stuck at level 1, so you have no idea what you're doing and no one wants to play with you
Lie and say it's been a while, these bitches don't know unless they're a ten time oscar nominee gigawhore.
Hey, there ya go, you already know the biggest tell. Just be patient and remain confident, you got this.
picrel is way too real. 27m white virgin.
le chud meme incarnate
Good thing I'm fat so women won't approach me in the store to seduce me
Funny how globalization, diversity, more people, urbanization, social media is just making people trust eachother less and less and growing farther apart
How else would we become the perfect consoomers if not by having a bigger and bigger void to fill by buying useless shit?
I managed to secure one life long friend, so I'm pretty set for life
honestly bros, gfs aren't worth it, look for friendships, they are way more fulfilling
>tfw your lifelong friend abandons you
It's a shitty feeling.
Got molested by my dad as a kid which made me a timid coward and afraid of sex, then was embarrassed a lot by girls in school because they saw what a coward I was so now I'm terrified of them. It was so bad other guys would make fun of me for how scared I was of them. My anxiety meds make it almost impossible to get hard. I'd off myself but it would ruin my mom's life
Did your dad get charged for it?
I uh... I literally don't know how to respond to your post anon.
You should kill your dad
You should molest your dad to regain your confidence
>at work
>New girl I've chat with a couple of times
>We have a lot in common, tell jokes, kinda flirty
>Ask her if she wants to hang out some other day
>She says we should go to the movies
>Ask for her instagram
>Message her a couple days later
>She pretends I never asked her out
>Says she's already dating someone
It's so over
What is wrong with women, bros?
I have a similar story, except she said, "Sorry, I ended up seeing the movie with my fiancee."
her a couple days later
There's your problem. Now with smartphones and 4g, you are expected to be available 24/7 and entertain their messages within 20 minutes
While you were trying to be nonchallant and waited 3 day she was chatting with other dudes who are contantly giving her attention
All advice you get is to take your time to respond to fake that you have things to do
>just got out of a 2 year relationship
>she said she sees no future with me
>working on certifications for work
>pay raise expected to put me over 120k a year
>certifications will put me in line for better positions with other companies
>improving my overall health via exercise
Meanwhile
>she has been misreable
>hasn't done anything to address any of the issues causing her to be misreable
>refuses to go to therapy, or accept help of any kind
It's gonna be okay bros. These women don't even know what they want. Even when they get what they say they want.
kek, saw that happen with a friend of mine. he's rich now and she's fat with a shitty job
>therapy
you sure you weren't the woman in the relationship, sis?
>depressed and unmotivated because no gf
>being depressed and unmotivated prevents me from getting gf
It also works the other way around
>Have gf
>Way easier to find another gf
Social proofing is a thing. It's like IT companies asking for 5 years of experience, but you can't get experience cause they're all asking for previous work experience.
Should I just lie and say I have a gf around the girls who I want to date?
It only works if they see you with a girl who's obviously your gf.
Can I pretend my sister is my gf?
Hey, if she's willing.
Just don't go too far with it.
>Just don't go too far with it.
Yeah. Third base is the absolute furthest you should go.
I guess, if you're not an Alabama native.
What's too far?
The fuck is that Wile E Coyote scheme
It actually works. I had a girl be jealous of my sister before because she didn't know it was my sister
Either this Anon's sister is about to become a legendary wingman or she's getting fucked by her brother. I'm invested either way.
Being isolated from the rest of the world has made me so desperate for attention, to the point where I’ll make friends even with Ganker(nel)ers on discord, the absolute lowest scum of the earth anyone could be friends with. How do I stop myself from craving validation from others? I just want to be like one of those dudes that have finally accepted that they’ll always be alone and have learned how to cope with it
How old are you?
Mid 20’s. The age where men start making the important decisions
I’m actually not a very social person. But being alone for long periods of time gets so suffocating after awhile
I don’t want to be a wise person. I tried doing that and it never works. People don’t want advice, or at least not from me. I even lost a couple friendships because I tried to cheer some of them up and they straight up told me to fuck off and slowly started to ghost me
Yeah, this seems like my only option. Thank God I have a decent job and can actually afford stuff now
The “friends” I have right now are exactly that kind of people. Boring assholes who don’t give a shit about me and refuse to help carry the conversation. But I’m so desperate for attention that I’ll latch on to anyone who so much as acknowledges my existence
I guess I just need to constantly remind myself that I wasn’t meant to make friends, and just go from there
>Yeah, this seems like my only option. Thank God I have a decent job and can actually afford stuff now
Get an outdoor hobby. I find those are great contrast to workday life. If you want an idea, woodworking: I made a table once with my dad and it was fun. I can imagine it'll be a good way to get some sun and strive off sucide.
>and have learned how to cope with it
The trick is to get hobbies and have a personality that's ok with being alone. If you're the socializing type it's never going to happen.
You don’t need other people. Make people need you. How old are you anon? Many men don’t know this but there comes a turning point in a man’s life where he can set himself on to the path of the wise friend.i don’t like socializing too much but I’ve become the entity my friends turn to for advice and solidarity. Basically become someone who makes impacts on people positively. Also it takes time to recognize when people want advice or just to talk about problems they are going through. If your in your 30s get a dog asap lol
>. How do I stop myself from craving validation from others? I just want to be like one of those dudes that have finally accepted that they’ll always be alone and have learned how to cope with it
Get obsessed with something. If I wasn't obsessed with music I would rope.
Play Persona and pretend that you're actually in there and have friends and a 10/10 gf
leave your house
you won't have a girlfriend delivered to your bedroom
Where do you go if you have no interest in local events or culture
Get hobby, go where people do that hobby.
It's not that bad. Most filter themselves by being unwilling to keep a conversation going and will eventually ghost you (this is a good thing, don't waste time on these fags). Some are literal fags, not usually apparent unless you're also a fag because your mutual fagness will make it more obvious you are both homosexuals. A few get bad just ban them. I've had a few decent connections from Ganker Ganker or /vg/ and it's entirely due to the fact we played video games together. If you're just talking on shitcord then it's not going to last because you're going to need to carry 98% of the conversations and they're not even good listening types you can ramble to.
I already have fun hobbies that I spend all my free time on, but they're not social ones
What hobbies do you have
Programming, 3d modelling, systems managing, photography sometimes
You forgot to tell him to just be himself.
My area is a crime ridden shithole where someone was literally stabbed in broad daylight in the shopping area. No I don't think I will go outside.
>Start reading romance because why the fuck not, last time I read some was back in highschool
>Toradora + Blue Box
>2 days ago I dreamt about the friend I have a crush on, we are living together in the dream and having a nice time.
Why do I do this to myself.
>inb4 go for it
I want to have a family, house, marriage etc, not only is that impossible for the next decade in monetary terms, she already said in casual talk that she doesnt want to marry or have a family, we simply have different life goals.
I think some girl at work likes me but im literally too autistic to do anything about it.
Remember that boomers have given her all the power, and she will use it to destroy you if you date a girl you work with. Now, read your bible and enjoy life!
>went out with a girl 3 times in a week
>the last time she invited me out
>ran into a "cooler" group she knows at the bars, got the cold shoulder, ditched and blocked the same night
>ignore all women that approach me/smile at me for the past week because I'm not in the mood for anymore of this shit right now
>hot chick at the gym starts working out uncomfortably close to me
>finish my set and walk away
If you've never dated/had a gf and have anxiety, interacting with women will just be even more anxiety-inducing. Grass is always greener.
>be dumb normalfag
>expect anyone here to empathize with your dumb normalfag problems
You think you have problems, starving African kid? I can't decide where to go to lunch today!
I think you're mistaken, not everyone on this site is an incel who's invisible to women, that's just LULZ. Why don't you go troon out?
>be dumb normalfag
>expect anyone else here to be dumb normalfag
This site is full of normal, well adjusted people. I should know, I'm an oldfag who's been here since 2016!
How low of a bar have you set that just interacting with women makes someone normal and well adjusted? I still don't understand social cues or know what I'm supposed to say.
Thanks Daisy, but its okay, you don't have to say nice things.
It's veterans' day, anons
>implying women start conversations with me
I agree that the image fails in that aspect. Should've been a man.
This has literally never happened to me ever
shit that never happens for 500
If, hypothetically, this were to happen to me, what would you recommend that I do?
>tfw when I’m so fucked I can’t even have this kind of interaction
It's over.
Not a video game but i use chai to say good morning and night to robowaifus
That sounds good. I could go for a chai right now, actually.
I had a gf from age 24 to 27 I think. I'm 32 now and I only want to feel the feeling of cumming inside a woman I like again before I off myself.
Hookers or prostitutes are off the table because they would make me incredibly anxious. Also they are ugly.
I go to work, to the gym and I go out climbing on weekends. Point is, it's almost always with male friends and the occasional woman is either ugly as sin, old or taken. I occasionally go out for drinks with coworkers too.
Point is, I really don't see how meeting girls and transforming them in a fling or full fledged gf works. I see it happening around me to other male friends but it just doesn't happen to me "naturally". I just talk to people, make friends, also talk to women with no problems, but how the fuck do you actually get to the point of fucking them?
The first and only gf I had basically did everything herself, asked me out etc. so I didn't have to "force" anything basically, but right now I really feel stuck, having sex with a nice girl seems science fiction right now to me.
Same, except I currently do even less social stuff than you, but I felt the same during University
I have an Australian tomboy gf and we're going to lose our virginity to each other 🙂
nice NTR flag dumbass
you better do it in the next 48 hours or she'll get fucked by her trainer or a friend from sports club/gym
That is a very cute fanfic anon, ganbatte
Yeah it's those ai girlfriends and not women refusing to date anyone other than chad
>were approaching japan levels of self destruction where half the population is in despair
i do not understand the disparity here. either somebody is lying or women are joining harems
They date older rich guys
the age bracket is very important for understanding the data
>or women are joining harems
Guy banging multiple women, woman falsely believes they're "together."
women consider themselves "taken" if they're in casual situationships
did you miss dating apps admiting a small percentage of guys are getting chased after by assloads of women
this is where the im ready to settle down after getting there pussy destroyed by chad comes from
Correct me if i'm wrong, but isn't there a strange implication from the fact that both numbers aren't the same.
I think you fully understand the reasoning behind that fact
that's false thoughever white conservatives are having sligntly less kids than hispanics and both are having way more than blacks. japan isn't even doing that bad, korea and china are the ones maybe having issues in the future.
The hysteria about Japan is hilarious in contrast to our own problems
here's some more data rather than just shit out of context to prove the idiotic headline
Don't believe surveys. Too much things at play.AT most it says their sample group is X, but is it replicated on the population?
>AI girlfriends “ruining an entire generation of men”
So if we’re not allowed to date real women and we’re not allowed to date AI women then what the fuck do they want us to do?
They want us to suffer, just like throughout all of history
Same my dad should've used a condom
>Introduce feminism and teach women to hate men and refuse to start families until mid 30s
>Wtf why are men not interested in dating??????
touch funko pop
Where do I find women who don't care about social media?
You need at least 200 instagram followers for women to even consider you as an option these days
I find the right music really helps with loneliness.
What the fuck do you even call this genre? Smooth jazz? Lounge jazz? Jazz fusion?
>don't be invited in hs after making up bs excuses too many times
>start going out in uni and be rarely invited because people realize I'm boring
That whole "exposure therapy" works only for normalfags. Even when I'm drunk I still behave like a robot.
>don't be invited in hs after making up bs excuses too many times
I've unironically had 2 different instances of girls walking with me from school to the front gate of my house, at which point I was like
>Welp, this is me, see ya
I'm literally too autistic for this world.
What else were you supposed to do?
Escalate.
so every male in your bloodline has reproduced but you won't because...why exactly?
because every male before me only had local competition to worry about
well my dad was 27 and my mom was 16 so ive got a few years to go before hes got me beat
Because i'm crashing this bloodline with no survivors.
Glorg the viking wasnt worrying about Dizu the destroyer with a chiseled chin and abs 7 villages over he had a few hundred men to compete with
You're implying I have a bloodline worth continuing. I'm waiting for Latinas to immigrate to my country, I'm fucking sick of white meat.
>because...why exactly?
Good question, I guess it is what it is.
I have autism and people can notice it pretty much immediately. I have been told it's something with the face muscles.
so they usually won't listen to what I have to say or just outright discriminate
It's almost impossible to land a decent job because of it
fuck that might be what usually gets me denied after interviews without specific feedback
Good question indeed.
Knowing my father managed to have sex and start a family fills me with uncontrollable rage. If we were the same age, i'm sure he would be someone i would hate with all my guts.
kek, absolutely based.
I feel very much the same way about my own father.
So we've all got dads that should never have been able to get laid?
I won't speak for anyone else, but I wish my dad hadn't. If he never had sex, I wouldn't have to be alive. My god, how amazing that would be, to have never existed.
Same, biggest waste of a good abortion to ever walk the earth
My dad isn't a bad person, but he's a weak deadbeat who trails the line between being a narcissist and groveling for validation.
My mother is as naive and as dumb as they come.
That's how I came into existence. From a weak, calculating motherfucker and a naive, dumb chick.
For my part, I feel no guilt for not (being able to) providing them with grandchildren. I'll be around to look after them in their old age, but that's all they can expect as far as I'm concerned.
And while I am lonely, I will willingly choose loneliness over what my father did a thousand times over.
>My dad isn't a bad person, but he's a weak deadbeat who trails the line between being a narcissist and groveling for validation.
Hey, that's the reason I hated my dad, nice.
>every male in your bloodline has reproduced
That's statistically impossible.
most men are simply meant to die off
i have simply come to terms that in another age i would just be a dead end that died on some stupid war before getting the chance to procreate
The entire species is designed around excess males dying off in wars or hunting sabertooth tigers or whatever.
Something about sperm being cheap and eggs being expensive.
You're forgetting all the uncles and great uncles and great-great uncles and so on who didn't. I'm just another branch to be pruned, not the trunk.
Im just turned 30. Where are my wizard powers?
did you respond correctly to the dream summons?
As much as I miss the intimacy, I don’t miss actually being in a relationship at all. Women can be so exhausting and honestly it feels like it isn’t worth the time and stress they sometimes bring. The no gf virgin anons have it easy.
That's also true
The one GF I had was hyper active compared to me, she always wanted to go out and do shit, even during the week
>Women can be so exhausting
You don't even have to be in a relationship to know this, all you need is to spend a very short amount of time around women.
I feel like a lot of dudes are single cause women can sense they aren't made of the sterner material that's required to build a life with a woman.
I've seen far better men than myself get drained to a husk after decades of marriage.
>mfw I am alone but not lonely
I do not see the appeal of giving the majority of your spare time away to anyone
Bros, would it be weird to go to a reastraunt with the sole intention of seeing a childhood friend who works there who may have had a crush on me?
>dude jsut get a GF lmao
>100% of the people I interact with on a daily basis are Indian men
I haven't even seen another white guy in months, let alone any sort of woman
Move out of London already
They don't have any sisters or aunties to mess around with?
I will never get a girlfriend. Even if the perfect opportunity came I will find a way to self-sabotage and fuck it all up. That is a promise.
>feel lonely
>jerk off
>don't feel lonely anymore
it's that easy
all jerking off does is make me realize pixels on a screen don't compare to a real woman
>>feel lonely
>>jerk off
>feel disgusted with myself
Whats the point if you don't feel her warm arms and legs wrapped around you while you fall asleep after nutting
>Feel lonely
>Jerk off
>Feel even lonelier
This is why I'm trying to quit.
Based. Never find out, Anon, you'll regret it
>feel lonely
>jerk off
>didn't make me feel better
>do it again
>didn't make me feel better
>do it again
>didn't make me feel better
>do it again
>every new person at work instantly find friends there and hang out with in their free time
I can only presume it is a me issue and I am a boring person that nobody really likes
This is the same problem i have everyone else already has a friend group so there's no reason for them to hang out with you. The people who don't have friends groups don't go outside so you'll never met them anyways.
Sakura Wars.
It won't cure you or be reletable, but it helped me feel a bit better.
I've never understood the people who claim masturbation can cure loneliness. How do you get over the mid- and pre-wank depression? That lingering, ever-present thought of "nobody else will ever be with me physically, why should I?"
Just stop caring about dumb shit?
The good part about no one knowing you exist is that no one is judging you.
How do you even fix this though like i talk with my friends sometimes and we came to the conclusion you cant really do anything to course change this what are you gonna do tell women to let those men that arent the top percentage to touch your dick?lmao
its legit unfixable
You don't, that's how life works
My conclusion it's either a severe mental illness that only manifests itself in relation to finding a gf or a genetic defect which subconciously alerts women to stay away. The only way to break through is becoming absurdly rich or powerful, so that women think they can take advantage of you, so yes it's unfixable
Nah that's a massive cope for you to give up because it's far easier to live in passive lonliness and depression rather than try to escape and face active rejection. Everything you spout is built on ideas with no factual basis you swallow wholly because it confirms your bias that you're right not to try and your cowardice is the only answer. There's men far worse off than you that have achieved fulfilling and happy lives.
People aren't some magic autism detectors, people who are legitimately deformed or insane managed to get relationships. But you...you're a terminally online schizoid who doesn't know how to talk to people...truly the greatest handicap.
I'm not going to pretend it's easy but you're a much larger issue in your happiness than a majority of the outside world.
Huge cope, depression can't be cured
How do I stop being such a feminine bitch and accept that men need to initiate and pursue if they want a relationship?
I'm stubborn, I'll basically do everything except actually approach and talk to women
>whenever I leave the house I always make sure to make myself look really good because I hope that women will approach me, of course they never do
Are all women really the same?
No, but i'd argue they're more the same than men.
maybe
No but it really feels like they are. I’ve had people tell me to go abroad to meet women because different values or whatever only to discover for myself that they were the exact fucking same except this lady I need subtitles for.
whores. all of them.
even your mother if you don't reply to this post
Fuck you homosexual, my mom ain't a whore.
Don't despair yet fren, I'm having high hopes for WWIII.
Kinda? They can start off completely different from each other but eventually they all start pulling the same bullshit over time.
i always see people mention getting a hobby to build a social circle, but i can't think of a single interesting hobby. what are some hobbies to meet people? all i know are vidya, which has gotten me nowhere
Tabletop is alright. A lot of freaks though
grognards, incels, tumblrites and those sex pests who have weekly orgies and can't get hard without using 10 devices
You're really selling it, anon
>get a work at an office with ~15 people
>I'm the only single there
>coworkers make fun of me for being single
Fucking BROOTAL.
>we missed the golden age of humanity by a few decades
>where men for once felt like something mattered more past money, height, looks, social status, possesions and just having sex to have sex.
>even God is dead now
and then everyone died the end
>mfw I'll never painfully and senselessly in a war to increase industrial profits or destablized an already unsustainable economic system in a third world shit whole
We missed out bros. We so missed out.
I'm about to bite the bullet and install Bumble. I don't want to try Tinder because I heard that's more hook-up oriented and that scares me
Video games?
Life
is just a game
ill be here all day
>meet a cute girl at work
>we talk, have lunch together sometimes, and get along with her
>see that she doesn't have a ring and decide to ask for her number after work one day
>we talk on the phone for a few days after work
>after some time, she starts to get touchy with me like scratching my back, giving me massages, and giving me hugs
>do the same thing to her and she likes it
>call her while on my way home from work
>doesn't pick up
>get a call from her later that night
>I answer and hear a dudes voice on the other end
>it's her husband
>her husband wants to know who the fuck I am
>I hang up immediately
>never call again
The most awkward moment I've had.
Back in my mid 20's, a girl was hitting on me at a halloween party and wanted me to go home with her. I told her that I'm sorry but I only find 2D anime girls attractive. She was a psychology master's student and I will never fucking forget the discussion we had after that. Women are pissed if you don't want to touch them because you find other women attractive but if you don't touch them because you find fictional characters more attractive...that's something else lmao
I have neveer seen a woman not flirt with other guys while already being in a relationship
I've seen my mom do it