>boyfriend plays video games 8-14 hours a day, ignores me a lot
>doesn't understand that its a complaint when i ask a question about his gaming time
>ask him to play a different game with me, he just declines
>ask him to go on a walk with me, he just declines
>still wants me to cook for him, get groceries, keep the house clean, give him a blowjob or handjob before sleep
why are boys like this
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why dont you just tell him its a complaint? if hes dating a troony hes probably autistic so doesnt udnerstand social cues like that
it just feels like one of those things he should just get without me telling him
but i will have to tell him ya
>it just feels like he should be telepathic
Why are girls like this?
maybe if you stopped expecting him to read your mind you guys could communicate better
What game is he addicted to
map games mostly
Map painting games? What a sperg
wtf are map games what
like hearts of iron, strategy pc games
Thats a transbian not a man
that's dumb how do you get addicted to that
i used to be addicted to fps games except i'm a troony and not a guy
I'm pretty casual and MtF but I've put a good 100 hours into EU4. I think the appeal is that there's a lot of depth because of the high number of interacting mechanics, and the fantasy of ruling an empire and world conquest is really appealing to a lot of people.
its a dumb game to ignore your gf over as you can pause it any time, slow it down and cuddle with her, heck even play multiplayer with her (even tho its autistic to learn). its just a bad bf
Based giga-chad. You should suck him off as he plays Nazi Germany.
It's over sweaty. You're boyfriend is either one or all of these 1. A repressed troony 2. A fricking dumbass moron who likes to paint maps all day or 3.literallybjust disassociating behind a computer.
Does he work/do you work?
he's in uni i work part time
Yeah dump him if he doesnt change
I am literally a map game autist and I would be fricking ecstatic if my gf wanted to go out with me
He sounds like a manchild, especially when you consider that he
>still wants me to cook for him, get groceries, keep the house clean, give him a blowjob or handjob before sleep
Just leave, that guy will never grow up.
Boys don't like walks, most boring fricking thing you could suggest. You probably expect him to sweep you off your feet with thoughtful romantic gestures but all you can come up with is "do you wanna go for a walk?". We're not dogs
t.moron
t. Typical nagging woman
Obviously he finds that game more fun than you
So she should leave him
that was the issue idiot
So do something fun together to get him away from the computer, take the initiative. Granted the times you mentioned are worryingly excessive but he will give it a break if he sees a reason to. Go paintballing or play pool/snooker/bowling of just take him drinking and go home and watch an action flick together. Men aren't hard to please.
But I will say if he's not bringing home the lions share of the income he has no right to expect that she do the lions share of the housework. If she's the breadwinner then it's his responsibility to look after the home
we're not dogs? speak for yourself woof woof :3
good doggy <3
it's 2 hard anyway
make him hurt emotionally until he's a hollow wreck who will never leave or do anything wrong
hello. boy here.
you're a moron and I'd be more than happy to go out for walks with a girl. this is called being a functional adult human being anon but i don't think you have hit that stage yet
T. Beta panderer.
You're so obviously just saying what you think girls want to hear, transparent af with the "You're not a real man unless you like going for walks like a pensioner"
Grow a pair, men don't like walking for no reason
I do want to spend time with her. But girls expect expensive dinners and thoughtful plans and gestures, and then think their reciprocating when they ask to go for a walk; something that she enjoys and obviouslý she put the bare minimum thought into it because no man has ever expressed a fondness for walking nowhere for no reason
>no man has ever expressed a fondness for walking nowhere for no reason
its not for no reason, its for spending time with me. it may sound selfish, but im offering him a chance to do those thoughtful, romantic gestures on a silver platter.
i could ask if he wants to play one of those escape room games together
You're exhibiting the classic female behaviour that alienates men. It's all "me me me". "IM GIVING him the opportunity to spend time with ME and spoil ME". Like you're God's gift to the world and he should be grateful to breathe the same air.
>escape room games
Is that something you think he'd enjoy, or is it something you think you'd enjoy?
to be fair, she doesn't have an easy way to interact with him if all he does is play games she's not into.
The brief exchange confirm my suspicions that it's the typical non-communicative relationship. He's withdrawn and she provides no reason for him to be anything but. Nagging a man to pay attention to you doesn't work. His lack of work ethic is worrying but for all we know it could be a short term thing and he's just going through something. He's should still be making an effort to get some work if they're relying on each other for food and warmth
why even date a girl if you don't want to spend time with her
I love walks, if I had a tranner gf I'd take her out for walkies every day
you deserve alot better im sorry 🙁 good luck
god thats hot. tfw no uninterested gamer bf who uses me as a maid and sex object
whats his discord
i didnt mean to post that picture but it works tbh
that neck cannot support that head
i hate anime "artists" so much
it can. it clearly does. go ahead, try and enforce your inferior real world physics in the realm of anime art. you will be ignored.
Tell him the problem straight on. Don't try to be vague and destroy something that is still salvageable.
If he doesn't change his behaviour after explicitly telling him that it is ruining the relationship, dump him.
Please break up with him, you deserve better
After reading this and the replies, I can’t help but wonder, are men really that moronic that they don’t get basic empathy? Lmao
>settle for a depressed slob
>omg why is he a depressed slob?!?
you should question your choices .
its not like it was always like this, he was super sweet, assertive in a good way and constantly showering me with attention when we started dating
he can still make me melt into a giggly, horny flushed mess if he tries a little
Ignore people saying break up. That's really fatalistic. Talk to him and be sincere, give him a little time to change because shit doesn't fix overnight, maybe optionally be there for him if he relapses, THEN if that doesn't work go.
>still wants me to cook for him, get groceries, keep the house clean, give him a blowjob or handjob before sleep
leave him
you shouldn't have to deal with someone as lazy and selfish as him
He's probably satan.
gamers are fricking insufferable to date
never again!
Literally me except mine dislikes anything sexual irl so I dont even get to do blowjobs or handjobs. Not like it's asexuality either, they like porn, they just don't seem to like me.
We live the same hell anon.