None of those
the thing is, she loves me to hell and back. And I tried to love her. I did everything right "mechanically", but I didn't feel it. She deserves all the best in the world, but I can't give her true love. It wasn't fair to string her along for years when I know there's no future there. I hope she's happy whatever she chooses to do and whoever she finds.
as I said, I just couldn't feel true emotions. It's my first relationship, maybe people aren't supposed to feel "love" forever. She's actually way prettier than me lol. The thing is I'm depressed for years now, despite hitting the gym for years as well and making good money. Some people are just meant to be neck deep in shit, even if everything seems "good". I don't know.
1 month ago
Anonymous
not feeling love while you're in a relationship isn't that uncommon. Most people will be in relationship just for the companionship/fricking without thinking about "love" or anything.
1 month ago
Anonymous
People are going to shit on you for having this and that, but I get it. Some things just weigh you down hard even if everything else is good. Push through.
oh no
Brother to love is an action, you can't depend on feelings for guidance because they get fricked up. Keep in contact with her cause you will probably want her back in a year
chin up dude, you're still young as frick. most people don't find their true love at such a young age. remember, the vast majority of young people are absolutely moronic. you seem to have a bright head on your shoulders. you're going to find someone worthy of you in no time
32 is still young, my dad got married at 45, the thing is, the older you are, the easier it is to get women, and I'm sure you have some skills and confidence if you have the balls to call a hooker
not feeling love while you're in a relationship isn't that uncommon. Most people will be in relationship just for the companionship/fricking without thinking about "love" or anything.
Yeah, that isn't fair to her. She wants marriage, and I can't give her that. It's not fair to keep her there for sex.
People are going to shit on you for having this and that, but I get it. Some things just weigh you down hard even if everything else is good. Push through.
I literally can't name a single problem of mine but all I do is work, go to the gym, and sleep. I dread existence every single day for no apparent reason.
You probably want more out of life, some sort of goal or purpose. You aren't sinking your teeth into something that you are genuinely interested in and exploring what the world has to offer, all the while using up your time on responsibilities. It's a dreadful situation to be in, but unless you force yourself out of your comfort zone you'll be in this cycle forever, wasting years. That's how I would describe my own situation atleast.
Men cry over a fricking videogame or a marvel movie nowadays, fricking moron. Crying over women is perfectly fine and even natural thing in comparison.
how am I supposed to get a gf if >I refuse to use dating apps >I hate bars/clubs >I only have two close friends >all my hobbies, despite being productive, don't require me to leave the house or interact with other people
All I want is a moderately attractive girl who also likes vidya, is that too much to ask for?
Depends how old you are. If you're still in school it should be no problem. If you're a post-school adult it's way more difficult simply because the "warm approach" setting of classes is gone so you have to go out of your way to join spaces that women inhabit.
Undertale
How old are you
26
sure anon
Thank you anon
awww
OP here, thanks I guess but I would prefer a hug from a white person, no offense
Frick you
you can't hurt me because I already got 2 hugs from good anons
If you cheated on her, I'm sorry.
If she got bored of you, good luck.
None of those
the thing is, she loves me to hell and back. And I tried to love her. I did everything right "mechanically", but I didn't feel it. She deserves all the best in the world, but I can't give her true love. It wasn't fair to string her along for years when I know there's no future there. I hope she's happy whatever she chooses to do and whoever she finds.
The fact that you aren't spiteful is cringe
why would I be? She did nothing wrong to me, ever.
Why break up then. Admit it she was ugly.
as I said, I just couldn't feel true emotions. It's my first relationship, maybe people aren't supposed to feel "love" forever. She's actually way prettier than me lol. The thing is I'm depressed for years now, despite hitting the gym for years as well and making good money. Some people are just meant to be neck deep in shit, even if everything seems "good". I don't know.
not feeling love while you're in a relationship isn't that uncommon. Most people will be in relationship just for the companionship/fricking without thinking about "love" or anything.
People are going to shit on you for having this and that, but I get it. Some things just weigh you down hard even if everything else is good. Push through.
if your lover can't love a robot, then she doesn't appreciate life.
oh no
Brother to love is an action, you can't depend on feelings for guidance because they get fricked up. Keep in contact with her cause you will probably want her back in a year
To answer your question, GTA. Or really any game with women. You can then go find women in that game to kill and pretend that it is your ex.
>can I get a hug pls
Play Elden Ring.
Free hugs for everyone there.
Think fast
Disco Elysium
chin up dude, you're still young as frick. most people don't find their true love at such a young age. remember, the vast majority of young people are absolutely moronic. you seem to have a bright head on your shoulders. you're going to find someone worthy of you in no time
Thanks anon
not me, frick you
it's a matter of time anon, my first kiss/relationship was at 26 🙂
I'm 32 and I've 100% given up
I do hookers instead
32 is still young, my dad got married at 45, the thing is, the older you are, the easier it is to get women, and I'm sure you have some skills and confidence if you have the balls to call a hooker
Yeah, that isn't fair to her. She wants marriage, and I can't give her that. It's not fair to keep her there for sex.
I literally can't name a single problem of mine but all I do is work, go to the gym, and sleep. I dread existence every single day for no apparent reason.
You probably want more out of life, some sort of goal or purpose. You aren't sinking your teeth into something that you are genuinely interested in and exploring what the world has to offer, all the while using up your time on responsibilities. It's a dreadful situation to be in, but unless you force yourself out of your comfort zone you'll be in this cycle forever, wasting years. That's how I would describe my own situation atleast.
I took up solo traveling last year, its a fun experience, good food, new concepts, tho it is a bit lonely
>tho it is a bit lonely
This is why I will never do it. I already experimented with it a little bit and it was miserable.
depends
I live in a super boring city so solo travel and enjoying some food and sights doesn't bother me too much
wish I had some advice but I never went through that since nobody ever loved me.
best wishes anon, hope you heal soon.
Saya no Uta
next time date to marry
Mercenaries: Playground of Destruction
that dream scene from disco Elysium (you know what dream I'm talking about) broke my heart and I must confess that.
>your ancestors watch their friends get blown apart in trenches
>modern "men" cry over a WOMAN of all things
grow some balls
My ancestors sound like cattle
Yeah, I'm not interested in dying for Israel and MIC
average bait
Men cry over a fricking videogame or a marvel movie nowadays, fricking moron. Crying over women is perfectly fine and even natural thing in comparison.
Proud of my ancestors for getting themselves killed for israelites or natural resources
Everything will be alright in the end Anon
The bad news: the pain never goes away
The good news: there can still be happiness in your future despite it
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Lol
Get FRICKED you absolute normalgay
normalgays don't have their first gf at 26, frick you
I'm 19 and never had a gf am I still a normalgay?
22 is the cut off, you're still a normalgay
Normalgays come to the chans to talk about their gfs
Frick off
Half Life 3
>t break up
normals get out
Frick off normalgay.
how am I supposed to get a gf if
>I refuse to use dating apps
>I hate bars/clubs
>I only have two close friends
>all my hobbies, despite being productive, don't require me to leave the house or interact with other people
All I want is a moderately attractive girl who also likes vidya, is that too much to ask for?
Depends how old you are. If you're still in school it should be no problem. If you're a post-school adult it's way more difficult simply because the "warm approach" setting of classes is gone so you have to go out of your way to join spaces that women inhabit.
>who also likes vidya
Hope you like the sims or Overwatch 2, big boy.
honestly i'm fine with this. i'm not expecting her to play obscure JRPGs from the 90s, I just want someone who I can actually play games with
You're not going to like the answer.
You seem to feel already entitled to have a gf just because so, with that mindset, i doubt you will find one.
You dont
Sorry bro. It sucks but the good thing is that the pain goes away over time. All you can really do is hold on and push through it.
>a girl on the TV reminds me of her
>start dreaming of her again
God damn it, it's been almost a decade, I'm sick of this shit.
Try 15 years anon. It never stops, even when you're with someone new.
how do normalgays have so many gfs, what the frick
I've only had two