Pretty sure my girlfriend is cheating on me so tell me what about Pokémon makes you happy I love the music for every generation
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Pretty sure my girlfriend is cheating on me so tell me what about Pokmon makes you happy I love the music for every generation
what makes you think that op?
Pushing back date nights to work always taking naps at night but still sleeping through the night as well as posting more photos of herself online when she hasn't done it in years
>social media attention whoring
leave her and don't look back
Productive answers.
Unproductive and needlessly rude answer.
Some comfy music for you OP.
>8 years
Your evidence is kind of weak to be making such a serious accusation, unless there's another reason you'd suspect she's cheating (e.g., she's done it in the past). Rather than making a baseless accusation that could irreparably fracture your relationship (assuming you want to salvage the relationship at all at this stage), I'd be open with her about your concerns with her change in behaviour and give her the opportunity to discuss it with you before assuming the worst.
I mean this in the nicest way possible, but you seem dissatisfied with her and do not seem to trust her even after being together for so long - would you consider couples therapy? 8 years is a long fricking time to spend with a person, maybe have a think about whether she makes you happy and if you'd want to spend the rest of your life with this person.
In any case I hope you make the choice that brings you the most happiness, best of luck friend.
I know it's weak but I feel like avoiding spending time and talking with me and rather working then spending our anniversary together gives me a vibe something is going on I know it's not her surprising me that she's pregnant or something
You sound like you’re both anxious avoidant people. One of you has got to pull the pin soon enough.
>couples therapy
roastie detected, ignore this advice
it's just comfy.
leave her and don't look back.
You should beat her
>instead of being a man and facing the problem and dumping her ass (if she is cheating) or trying to be a better boyfriend (if she isn't) he runs to /vp/ and copes with Pokemon
This is probably why she's cheating on you.
only insufferable foids excuse infidelity of other insufferable foids. there is no excuse for it.
This is just to keep me from being rash I plan on confronting tomorrow evening after I get off work I still need definited proof as well so still need to see if I can get that in case
you don't need proof of anything. if your girl isn't treating you with respect and value, you're better off leaving. I know it's rough, I was abused by women for fifteen years of my life and am fortunate enough to be in a relationship with a girl who respects me now. it's not worth it, staying. take the high road and find someone who respects you, though ofc be someone worthy of respect as well.
even if you wanted to continue something with this girl, you're better off ending things with the advantage and letting her chase after you. never be in the opposite position.
shit is hard when you been together 8 years I don't even think I can flirt with women anymore
oh yeah, that's a bit more complicated than a 1-2 year thing. I don't have any good advice for you there, just don't drag out something that won't work. worst I ever had was my high school sweetheart fiancee of 3 years leaving me, which destroyed my life for half a decade. I wish you the best.
>I don't even think I can flirt with women anymore
That's the number one fear, but trust me it's unfounded. Don't hesitate to take the necessary action to part ways if it's not working anymore, the shortterm pain is worth the long term happiness
But in the meantime and while you don't have anything substantial to base your suspicions on don't "confront" her by placing blame on her. Rather sit her down and explain the situation from your point of view e.g.
>I feel like your behaviour has changed
>I don't know why, but I'd like to
>It makes me feel xyz
You can only end this in a good way if you make her understand what you see and how it affects you and the relationship, this is the only way to give this thing a chance
Best of luck and remember you are worth respect and compassion, don't sell yourself cheap and don't forget it in the, most likely, troubling times ahead of you
Man up and frick her new boyfriend.
I am sorry though anon, my first GF broke up with me for someone she met on Fortnite (2018). And I introduced her to video games lmao. Tbf I was a pretty shit bf.
>my first GF broke up with me for someone she met on Fortnite
Do zoomers really?
We were 19 (me) and 21 aha. I’m a zoomer but the first year.
women are so so so soooooooo stupid