At this point the only dream I have left is of being a father but I don't think I could ever trust a woman again.
Just make robot wives with functioning wombs already because I don't see any other way towards a happy life. And just a year ago I was one of those moronic "my fiancee is different" kind of people.
No, she left over literal miscommunication. If she had just sat down and talked with me even once we would’ve sorted it out, and she also hid the real reason for breaking up from me, which could’ve also been easily solved if she had just told me once
It wasnt a miscommunication, it was an excuse. My guess is she thought you'd top yourself if she said she was leaving you because you're boring, unlikeable and/or become fat and ugly
Appreciate that you have never loved before, it’s a curse.
Anyone who says that it’s better to have loved and lost either never really loved who they lost or haven’t actually lost it
You’d be far worse off to have felt loved and accepted and hopeful for your future with someone, only for them to leave you alone and break everything she promised you without a second thought like you were nothing. I promise you that you are better off
yeah and I could be a starving Black person in Africa
what a fricking moronic post
you literally cannot even comprehend my level of suffering and you're trying to take some moronic sage position
>woe is me
Shut up. Embrace the fact that your feelings are under your control. Once you realize that the reason you feel utterly hopeless is that you actually enjoy it, then we can talk.
Until you can summon up some real introspection, be quiet.
why do normies say this? >I had a bad relationship so you're lucky you've never even experienced one to have it go badly!
it's moving goalposts and changing focus to an entirely different issue
not him but because most people who say that shit on here used to be just like you. i used to be completely alone and depressed, found a gf, we broke up and now im more broken than i ever fricking was when i had never experienced love, its been nearly 2 years aswell and it hasnt gotten any easier.
5 months ago
Anonymous
That's exactly right.
The difference in the pain of being KHV and being abandoned by a long term partner is like the difference between being hungry and being stabbed in the stomach.
Love and intimacy release hormones in your brain that get you hooked on it like a drug. The withdrawals are lethal. Arguably worse than from drugs and booze - if those withdrawals kill you, it's typically because your body just loses function beyond your own intent of control. Heartbreak makes people seek death, the withdrawal is so intense that dying feels better than it. Trust me, I was in your position for most of my life, ignorance is bliss.
And heartbreak would make you actually do it. You'd be misled with the belief you have hope after finally experiencing a sensation you didn't have for decades, like gaining an extra sense or learning a new color. Then, when they're gone, the unlovedness is no longer ignorant speculation - it's an educated affirmation that instills a dread on par with being diagnosed with a terminal illness or losing a limb. You mentally atrophy as a fundamental part of your life for so long is gone and you have to face an incomprehensible emptiness that nothing fills, and now there's no open ended answer as to why that's there - you know why, and it has a name that makes you nauseous hearing the first syllable of.
Stick to 2D and enjoy not knowing these feelings. The grass may look greener on this side but it isn't.
Anon all he said was that he hasn't gone on a date or been physically intimate.
That doesn't stop him from developing feelings that never got reciprocated or been denied a chance.
Odds are he hasn't taken enough of an initiative due to poor self esteem.
My advice to anyone is to start with loving yourself. It'll both make the abyss of loneliness not as intimidating, and if you do enjoy your own company that can wind up appealing to others too (plus you won't bring a shitton of baggage into a relationship that could undermine it).
I'm speaking from my personal preclusivoty as an anonymous poster not a therapist
Why not just rape a girl and take the prison time? or just get away with it because lol how are you going to get caught
seems more worth it than talking to women
>tomboy
Nice
>goth
I am going to kill you
If you liked it then you should have put a ring on it.
>marriage stops a woman from leaving you
lmao
I learned the hard way too when I decided to have a kid with my ex who then left me, in the same year we had our kid too.
At this point the only dream I have left is of being a father but I don't think I could ever trust a woman again.
Just make robot wives with functioning wombs already because I don't see any other way towards a happy life. And just a year ago I was one of those moronic "my fiancee is different" kind of people.
No one wants socially inept men like you to reproduce, anon. Buy a tamagotchi, that's as close as you'll get.
let me guess, did you accidentally cheat on her?
No, she left over literal miscommunication. If she had just sat down and talked with me even once we would’ve sorted it out, and she also hid the real reason for breaking up from me, which could’ve also been easily solved if she had just told me once
>over literal miscommunication
sounds like bpd
It wasnt a miscommunication, it was an excuse. My guess is she thought you'd top yourself if she said she was leaving you because you're boring, unlikeable and/or become fat and ugly
post pics of her ass/feet/breasts now that they're no longer sacred to you
>sacrifice all your friends for neurotic pussy
>left with nothing in the end
many such cases
find a women who isnt evil moron
>woman who isn’t evil
Doesn’t exist, moronanon
>Married now
>Play vidya whenever
Anon you just suck at life.
I'm 26 and I've never even been on a date with a girl or hugged/held hands
Appreciate that you have never loved before, it’s a curse.
Anyone who says that it’s better to have loved and lost either never really loved who they lost or haven’t actually lost it
>appreciate that you're horrifically depressed and lonely and have never been loved by anyone before and feel like an alien
how about no
You’d be far worse off to have felt loved and accepted and hopeful for your future with someone, only for them to leave you alone and break everything she promised you without a second thought like you were nothing. I promise you that you are better off
yeah and I could be a starving Black person in Africa
what a fricking moronic post
you literally cannot even comprehend my level of suffering and you're trying to take some moronic sage position
>woe is me
Shut up. Embrace the fact that your feelings are under your control. Once you realize that the reason you feel utterly hopeless is that you actually enjoy it, then we can talk.
Until you can summon up some real introspection, be quiet.
why do normies say this?
>I had a bad relationship so you're lucky you've never even experienced one to have it go badly!
it's moving goalposts and changing focus to an entirely different issue
not him but because most people who say that shit on here used to be just like you. i used to be completely alone and depressed, found a gf, we broke up and now im more broken than i ever fricking was when i had never experienced love, its been nearly 2 years aswell and it hasnt gotten any easier.
That's exactly right.
The difference in the pain of being KHV and being abandoned by a long term partner is like the difference between being hungry and being stabbed in the stomach.
wrong
Shakespeare
Tis better to have loved and lost to have never loved at all
pain is real, embrace it and frick back off into real life
Love and intimacy release hormones in your brain that get you hooked on it like a drug. The withdrawals are lethal. Arguably worse than from drugs and booze - if those withdrawals kill you, it's typically because your body just loses function beyond your own intent of control. Heartbreak makes people seek death, the withdrawal is so intense that dying feels better than it. Trust me, I was in your position for most of my life, ignorance is bliss.
I already want to kill myself literally every second of my life because of how utterly unloved I am
please shut the frick up
And heartbreak would make you actually do it. You'd be misled with the belief you have hope after finally experiencing a sensation you didn't have for decades, like gaining an extra sense or learning a new color. Then, when they're gone, the unlovedness is no longer ignorant speculation - it's an educated affirmation that instills a dread on par with being diagnosed with a terminal illness or losing a limb. You mentally atrophy as a fundamental part of your life for so long is gone and you have to face an incomprehensible emptiness that nothing fills, and now there's no open ended answer as to why that's there - you know why, and it has a name that makes you nauseous hearing the first syllable of.
Stick to 2D and enjoy not knowing these feelings. The grass may look greener on this side but it isn't.
don't talk to me リア充
Jesus loves you
Since i've got dumped 3 months ago by my gf who i was with for 10 years, i can only desire to be dead everyday. So yeah you can be worse.
Anon all he said was that he hasn't gone on a date or been physically intimate.
That doesn't stop him from developing feelings that never got reciprocated or been denied a chance.
Odds are he hasn't taken enough of an initiative due to poor self esteem.
My advice to anyone is to start with loving yourself. It'll both make the abyss of loneliness not as intimidating, and if you do enjoy your own company that can wind up appealing to others too (plus you won't bring a shitton of baggage into a relationship that could undermine it).
I'm speaking from my personal preclusivoty as an anonymous poster not a therapist
>love yourself
First he must become someone lovable
tfw goth gf with bpd
at least you had one
not video games and not your blog
frick off back to /LULZ/
Dont worry, man, its only going to get worse.
I want so badly to kill myself. The only thing stopping me right now is that my parents are still alive and I don't want to hurt them.
unlucky
mental illness
What is that thing
What, back in 2012? They don't exist anymore.
Why not just rape a girl and take the prison time? or just get away with it because lol how are you going to get caught
seems more worth it than talking to women
You need a black bf
>you need to be cheated on
no thanks
Tomboys are a garbage fetish.